how do i take care of 3 kids at a time?

Question

im 13. and i need help taking care of twin girls and a baby dats not born yet. how can i keep dem healthy? how do i get da twins to go 2 sleep?

did i ask 4 yall 2 be doggin me...no i ask a qyestion... and yes dem kids are minez...and da only reason i have kids is cuase i got raped. so just give me some advice here!?!

Answer 1

Are these your children? How old are the twins? What kind of support network do you have? What's your living situation?

Lots of women have taken care of 3 or more kids at one time - you can do that. I'm more worried about you taking care of them and yourself.

Go to http://www.211.org/status.html and find your state, if you are in the US. Contact the United Way's help line and ask them how to get in touch with social services.

They can help you with health care for you and your children, housing, food, parenting classes, child care, going back to school, job training when you're older - all kinds of things. They won't be looking to take your kids away from you, but to help you take care of them.

Good luck, and I'll be thinking about you.

Answer 2

u said 13? or was tht a typoe? maybe u meant 23? n if u are 13 where r u parents? who r on takign care of u or wht,, not giving advice ? u shold talk to them , a counselor or a doctor,,, ur way too young too have so many kids, or any at all..... a baby thas not born yet? n twins..ok r these ur babys? or wht u need to give a little more info, we could tell u about the twins but im not sure whts goin on with this unborn baby, r u the mom? ior wht lol cause it sounds mysteriously weird, i dont think ur mature enough for this responbility, i wonder where the mom is if its not u, which i doubt it is....n dont tie them like some crazy guy said here

Answer 3

You are 13 with twins and another baby on the way...you need help for real.

You are way to young to be having sex for one...sex is for grown folks and you are not grown.

Now you are pregnant again which means you did not learn from the first time.

Just deal with it the best you can because you thought laying up with some boy was more important then worrying about getting a good eduction.

Answer 4

Just take it easy. If you have a boyfriend or something ask for help. Just do not over do it for them. To get the twins to sleep put them in seperate cribs and leave them their with a bottle only. Maybe one blanket at least. It is not bad parenting it is testing your childs sleeping time. Hope I helped!

Answer 5

Are these your children?
or are you helping out someone else?
Kids definitely require a lot of time and attention.
Children need to have a set schedule at bedtime (dinner, bath, book, then bed) the more consistent you are, the easier it will become. Nothing happens overnight. It takes understanding and a lot of patience.

Answer 6

There is a great book , it is a must read: The Happiest Baby on the block

here is the website for the book, it tells techniques to stop crying and more.

Answer 7

if you have a friends or some thing that would like to help you this is what you do. Rock them too sleep and sing them a liluby or by a cd and rock them to that that work on all the babys ive babysat

Answer 8

Ok try to do something to sooth them down like singing (even if you can't sing) or reading a book to them or just make up a story. Sometimes cartoons like caillou or barney helps to calm kids down that's if there young. Avoid letting them eat lots of junk and sweet foods to keep them healthy. Try foods like carrots the small bagged ones, fruits, etc.. For drinks try juices like apple juice, cranberry juice cocktail, or orange juice along with plenty of water. For the unborn baby you must consume lots of healthy foods yourself like vegetables, fruits etc.... Avoid greasy and spicy foods, get lots of rest and take prenatal vitamins.....Hope I helped Good Luck....

Answer 9

so wait a minute your 13 and you have 2 kids and a bun in the oven? wow your life is over. start saving money maybe you can pay for a babysitter or something

Answer 10

your 13 and fixin to have 3 kids?? Sounds like you need to keep your legs together. Maybe you should put them up for adoption. You are obviously too young to take care of them.