WHATS GOING ON WITH ME!!!!
I NEED TO KNOW I AM STATING COLLEGE AND A CHILD IS NOT IN MY PLANS RIGHT NOW SO WOULD SHOULD I DO??
2006-08-14 10:34:17 · 15 answers · asked by Ms. Michelle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
after we had sex i was bleeding so can i be pregnant!!
2006-08-14 10:45:24 · update #1
Probably not. Ovulation occurs around 15 days after the first day of your last period and sperm can only live up to 48 hours inside of you (I hear). You can only get pregnant when you're ovulating. You are probably just having a light period or will be a little late. Maybe your stressed about starting college and it is causing your menstrual cycle to be out of whack.
Please use protection. Not just pregnancy protection, like the pill, but a condom You don't want to end up pregnant and unable to support a child properly or with an STD. Many you can have for life or they can up your chance of other medical complications down the road.
2006-08-14 10:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ms. Michelle, are you the same one who wants to induce abortion or miscarriage?
That's a really sad option. Let me tell you that you should never try to have an abortion-- I know there's a lot of pro-choice ppl out there, but I've talked to women who 20 years after having an abortion still feel empty inside... and that's the consensus.
It may be inconvenient that you are pregnant, but if you couldn't deal with pregnancy (or worse) as a possible outcome, you should've have had sex.. now, instead of trying to erase the problem, you need to deal with it head-on, and at the very least, if you don't want the baby, give it up for adoption.. because killing a baby is just that.
Now, on with the technical things.. you could be pregnant. some women bleed about 10 days after conception, and that's called implantation bleeding.. and it means the egg is lining itself in the wall of the uterus.
a lot of women spot through out pregnancy.. and cramping also-- but it could be a sign of possible miscarriage..
the best thing to do is go to the doctor, and a counselor.. flesh out your options (that don't include murder), and see what you can do..
college is nice, but there's nothing nice about having a degree but a feeling of remorse for making a short-sighted decision that will haunt you the rest of your life.
2006-08-14 12:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the length of your cycles, the day your period ended could easily be within your fertile time of the month. If you've missed your period you need to take a pregnancy test and make your decisions from there.
If a child is not in your plans right now, you just can't be having unprotected sex at all.
2006-08-14 10:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would take a pregnancy test. It is possible to get pregnant at anytime of the month depending on when your ovulation is. Spotting and cramping are some signs of pregnancy along with a missed period so I would definitely take a test.
2006-08-14 14:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Megan W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get your period, sometimes it just comes on slow. if you are more than 10 days past when you should have got it then take an ept. the chances of getting pregnant the day after your period ends is so small. and you only have a 20%chance if you actually were ovulating at that time, which you probably werent until a week or more after you finished it. dont feel bad about yourself. JUST DONT DO IT AGAIN!
2006-08-14 10:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by lamby1217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be late, and getting your period, or this could be "implation bleeding". Though, if it's about a month, then I wouldn't say you were pregnant so quickly. Get a first response test at a drugstore, like walmart or walgreens. They're really sensitve and should be able to tell you if you are pregnant or not.
2006-08-14 10:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take an ept pregnancy test. They sell them anywhere and are effective as early as a week before your cycle. Good Luck! Hve protected sex in the future if you have future plans. Hope this helps!!
2006-08-14 10:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can be preggas,u should go to the doc. and if u are preggas then only u can decide what u're gonna do.. whatever your decision,make sure its YOUR decision,and don't listen to those who may judge u either way, the judgers have never been there and don't know..so good luck.
2006-08-14 10:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by mitchbrowno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start Lamaze classes
2006-08-14 10:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by The Man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its just to late to regret now is it not? go get a test kit and wait for the right time to confirm
2006-08-14 10:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by waterdancer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋