One of the things I have learned in my life is that getting angry, raising your voice, shouting obscenities, name calling, and being too emotional only hurts the individual acting this way. No one is going to change anyone’s mind using the tactics just mentioned. If you approach someone in a civil, calm, and respectful manner, the individual will more than likely listen to you. If not, then THEY have a problem. Rants and raves automatically throw up a wall. This goes for both legals and illegals.
Therefore, if we discuss things void of emotion, we are more likely to listen to the other point of view.
Can we agree to be civil here? You know, THAT is a sign of maturity and stability.
2006-07-28
08:43:39
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