I seriously go through anguish over every decision... the big ones, like where to move (I've been trying to move for 2 years now, but keep hesitating and then not doing it)... and sometimes even really small/stupid ones, like which color of tweezers to buy. It's so ridiculous. And not only that, once I make decisions (either immediately afterward, or a day later, or whenever), I nearly always regret them and wonder the "What if" i had gone the other way, etc. I've wasted so much time, energy, and anxiety wishing I'd done various things differently, and it's really taking its toll on my life.
1. *What* could've made me this way, and
2. *How* can I stop?
I just want to be able to make decisions like a normal person: to decide easily, and to accept the outcome without feeling terrible, or with endless 2nd-guessing and ruminating every single time!
2007-02-08
02:31:35
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melon_rose
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