i lost my mom when i was 10...back then i never realised the consequences...but today when i am 20...i realise how incomplete i am...
2007-02-08 04:05:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
sorry for your loss but maybe being a good mother yourself might help you feel more complete
2007-02-08 20:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not incomplete i lost my mom to murder when i was 17 you will learn in time how it has made you stand on your owen and made you a stronger person but i still miss her like crazy i am 38 now and id do anything to see her agin but i still talk to her when im down or when life is being paticularly tuff i alwas say mom i wish you could help me right now but i gess ill have to be strong like you where and get threw it then i tackle the problem and move on to the next one but theres still not a day that gos by i dont think of her and wish her back whith me
2007-02-08 04:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by letta g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my mom when i was 7.It bothers me to this day.I am now 44,I dont think this is something you ever completley get over,yes you can move on but it does affect you always in ways right now you probably dont even realize,maybe read up on it I did.I think alot of things I did in my life is directley related to that.As you get older and go through different things in your life you will understand more.Losing your mom is a big impact on a child.Yeah and you do always miss her.I know I always will doesnt matter how old you get,you always miss your mommy.
2007-02-08 04:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by maryann c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry.
I do understand it very well, I lost the contact with the whole family before I was 2 years old.
I was kidnapped, our path crosses but some thing/some one always keeps us a part.
2007-02-08 04:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll suffer a lot. children never realize how much their parents mean to them until the day they're gone and it's too late. you could of course make yourself feel better and make yourself feel like your mom is there. here's what I do when my mom goes on long business trips. first I take any of her clothes that's nice and soft. put it on your pillow. If you spray some of your mom's fave perfume it will be even better. it will be almost just like you're mom was there. hope i helped.
2007-02-08 04:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Karmen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,your lose cannot be filled,it is hard to describe in any words sufferings a motherless child had to face in this world,well god will help you more than any one at the time of your needs.be happy.
2007-02-08 04:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by ganesh n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your lose. You miss a lot of things not having a mother. I hope that you have an aunt or a friends mom who is a somewhat motherly figure for you!
2007-02-08 04:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently a lot--but keep in mind everyone is suffering about something, whether it's something or someone who's missing, or something we have and dont want.
2007-02-08 04:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot because when they're sad they dont have anyone who really understands them and to talk to them. Especially little girls they have no mommy to cry to. And when they get older it's even harder because you want to share your feelings with your mom and you really cant do that with a dad.
2007-02-08 04:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried doing volunteering work? Helping others who needed help might make you feel more complete.
2007-02-08 04:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by djwen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋