Health - 1 December 2007

I have harbored childhood memories of sexual abuse for 20 years. It effects alot of areas of my life. I recently decided to try and confront my problems. I read a book that said I should confide in someone close to me. I did, a sister. She told my mother. Now my family wants me to confont my abuser and are pressuring me to do so. It is very hard to find help for men that have been abused. There are few books. Which some I have read. I have researched the net. I feel so much pressure. I am starting to have nightmares about the abuse that I went through. I don't know what to do. I don't feel that I can confront him.

2007-12-01 04:57:38 · 3 answers · asked by scattered1044 1 in Mental Health

I have a real bad stuffy nose and headache i need something that works fast and helps get rid of a burning nose!

2007-12-01 04:57:36 · 3 answers · asked by renae 1 in Alternative Medicine

Following surgery, my wife has been put on a strict diet, which uses 10 - 12 egg whites a day, but NO yolks!! I know my eating them would bring problems, as would feeding them to the dog.

I also know that bodybuilders eat double this amount of egg whites a day, so there must be somene who has a suggested use.

2007-12-01 04:51:46 · 5 answers · asked by ligoneri 2 in Diet & Fitness

My names Eve and im 14 years old. Since i was little i have been clumsy and absolutly shocking at sports. Ive never been able to catch/throw and i can't run for toffee, which is really annoying. Im in the top sets for everything apart from Maths, Food and PE, but i don't understand why im so disorientated. I always seem to forget homework and im always misplacing things like my house keys and my phone which gets me into trouble a t home as well as school. Im always really frustrated and, according to my parents, paranoid and obsessive.
My friend told me that i could be dyspraxic, but my parents refuse to believe this because they said dyspraxia only comes with problems like dyslexia and autism and i have neither. Could somebody tell me wat my problem is before i start banging my head against a brick wall in frustration.

2007-12-01 04:50:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

i think im the only one that believe that im going to get punished if think that i've done something to get punished and it even affects my every movement and thought, is this only me?
when i get rid of one thing, it comes back again with a different plan and weapon that i'll be easily subdued to
such as a point that i haven't considered wakes me up and i start feeling guilty again
i have considered every possible point from every angle for every guilt i had, which is a really cumbersome habit
i don't know if i should be guilty or not
should i move on regardless of any extremes i take, such as unwanted thoughts, such as blasphemy, and saying them out loud because of frustation, then i become more guilty

2007-12-01 04:48:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

Excluding times when you were sick or hospitalized.

Excluding the help of a personal trainer or anyone else.

What motivated you to lose weight in the first place?

What was your diet?

What was your exercise routine?

2007-12-01 04:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Diet & Fitness

2007-12-01 04:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by think.future 1 in Diet & Fitness

2007-12-01 04:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Optical

I want to be abkle to elevate my legs while watching TV. Not into those expensive beds, just need something like "ginecologist" uses. Thanks

2007-12-01 04:35:30 · 1 answers · asked by Fast Pace 4 in Women's Health

I thought you need to have the basis in order to go to the next level. How can you think like one if you don't have one? Don't you need to have the support and encouragement of IQ? Can you be successful with your efforts? There's are some people who have the opportunity to become one, such as intelligent people. By the way, how can I increase my IQ from 136 to 150's? I am planning to be a surgeon, so if you could please give out some suggestions. There are some things that just don't click right away, which means that I won't be very successful, but a very high IQ will do it.

2007-12-01 04:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

I suffer from severe test anxiety. I know the answers, but on the tests I do below average. I help people and they pass and I don’t. The other day, I had to answer a chemistry question. This question asked for the amount of electrons and on which side they were on a chemical equation. I knew the answer and I even imagined the equation in my head, because it was an example from our book. I saw the electrons on the left side and even wrote them down, BUT I was completely 100% sure that I was looking at the right side. I wrote the right side, got it wrong, did below average,…

I am tired of this. I need help. It’s not fair that I do below average and get confuse with left side and right side and everything else when I know the material. I get so anxious on science and math tests that I fail on them. There is still time for my grade to improve tremendously, but I need help.

Help please!

2007-12-01 04:35:02 · 8 answers · asked by Nickname 1 in Mental Health

do you think its funny to tap a huge guy with a 6 pack in the balls and watch him crumble?have u ever used that to ur advantage?

2007-12-01 04:34:23 · 5 answers · asked by Kate V 1 in Women's Health

I have been coughing for about 4 weeks and I am so congested, I have been so week, my ears ache like there is no tomorrow, my doctor has told me it is an upper resp infection, I am thinking it is something else. I think I have either broken my ribs from coughing or bruised them really bad, I have taken just about every antibiotic out there, please help me.

2007-12-01 04:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by debwaz31 1 in Respiratory Diseases

2007-12-01 04:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by m 1 in Diet & Fitness

im 19, & still have a problem with pooping my pants. its so embarrising when im out in public with my friends. pleasee recommend some medicine or SOMETHING! please help...

2007-12-01 04:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anastasia H 2 in Diet & Fitness

does the pill not have an affect during this week?

2007-12-01 04:25:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

I,ve had enough cough mixture to last me a lifetime, but this dry cough is driving me mad. My whole body is aching from coughing ,help please

2007-12-01 04:23:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Alternative Medicine

Ok this may be gross but for as long as I can remember I've pooped pebbles. Sometimes I go once every 3 days or sometimes everyday. I drink lots of water & my doctor had me try fiber supplements & colon softner. All it does is make my peebles softer. I also have chronic bloating. Then every once in a while I will get diarrhea & when I do I pass out from it. I have the worst cramping & I have to grip something to help with the pain. My dr. says I pass out because I have low blood pressure. Sometimes I worry that there may be something wrong with me. Any advise?

2007-12-01 04:21:10 · 3 answers · asked by Meagan M 1 in Other - Diseases

i am a boy 16 in age
170 cms in height
50 kgs
i am nt a strong boy
i want to be strong i excersized daily
but
i can't continue it
help me i can't stand any fight

2007-12-01 04:21:01 · 6 answers · asked by jake19911985 1 in Men's Health

Me and my brother are doing it, and he used to smoke and I convinced him to stop and do this cleanse with me. Day 4 right now.

2007-12-01 04:20:52 · 3 answers · asked by zman 2 in Diet & Fitness

I had the depro injection in july and it ran out in october but I have still not had my period. I was also wondering if you can get pregnant straight away as i have had unprotected sex and was wondering if I may be pregnant.

2007-12-01 04:20:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

does any1 know how to control oily skin? i heard theres no point on putting moisturiser because of the oily skin i have, so then it would just get really greasy. anyway, any home remedies, creams, even things like vitaminz?
i already drink a lot of water and try to eat 5-6 fruitz/veg a day.
im in my teenage yearz and not exactly keen on the whole surgery idea. any help is wanted!

2007-12-01 04:19:38 · 19 answers · asked by Daniel -L- 1 in Skin Conditions

I get this pain near my heart, And when i breathe it really hurts then it just goes away, Then im fine. It comes everynow again, Im terribly worried that its a problem with my heart, I can exercise fine, And am healthy, Im 15. Anyone who could help me will be great.

2007-12-01 04:19:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Heart Diseases

I don't know!?

2007-12-01 04:18:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cancer

I started following Jason Vales juicing diet thing on monday, where i make up a fresh fruit smoothie myself every morning and have this for breakfast and lunch, the smoothie consists of fresh fruits and veggies like cucumber, spinach, avocado etc. I then eat a well balanced dinner at around 5pm, usually grilled chicken and a small amount of brown rice and veggies, or a whole grain turkey sandwich. on sunday morning, i weighed 139.6 pounds. this morning, i weighed 133.6. could 6 pounds be for real??? i have been slowly losing weight since august and had lost 10-12 pounds before this. i am 5'9 and female. what do you think?

2007-12-01 04:15:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Diet & Fitness

i was bleeding from my place from sunday to wednesday....nothing on thursday..and was bleeding ALITTLE on friday and it only lasted about an hour......is that my period or something else......plz explain fully...thank u!!i am 13 yrs old and i have been bleeding form my place 4 to 5 days a month forthe past3 monthd..is this myperiod or somthng else?

2007-12-01 04:14:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

I know you don't know me and that you can't tell me when I'm growing, but please tell me if this is signs of a major spurt.
I am 14, haven't started period, do have boobs (for like 2 years...) right now i am 5'3".... my mom is 5'8" and my foot is 4 sizes bigger than hers (mines a 12W and hers is a 8W) ummm i have been eating nonstop... ALWAYS hungry... my dad is 6'1" and i even have a bigger foot than he does... i don't know if this matters but my mile has gotten a minute faster in 2 weeks and i haven't done anything different.... Opinions?

2007-12-01 04:10:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

2007-12-01 04:09:27 · 4 answers · asked by Flatbushbrooklyn 1 in Women's Health

Well, my friend and I had plans tonight to go to the mall, out to eat, and then have a sleepover. My throat felt a little tickly earlier, but now feels fine, I don't really feel sick, but my temperature is slightly elevated at about 99 degrees. My right throat gland is also VERY SLIGHTLY swollen. We are not planning on sharing food, drink, or even beds so do you think it would still be fine for us to go ahead with our plans??

Thanks
=D

2007-12-01 04:07:36 · 22 answers · asked by TennisChick 1 in Infectious Diseases

2007-12-01 04:04:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health