I'm 24 and a virgin, I have a really bad fear of penetration, whether by fingers or a penis. I can use tampons, but I can't put my own fingers inside or use a vibrator.
I don't know why, but just the thought makes me totally panic. A few guys have tried to touch me down there, but I get scared they'll try to put their fingers inside and I just freak out and start crying.
How can I get over this? It really frustrates me, because on one occasion in particular I wanted to let things go further, but when he touched me I got really scared and started crying and messed everything up.
I've never been sexually assaulted by the way, even though it sounds like I might have been, I haven't.
2006-07-23
12:17:26
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