My father is an alcoholic person who only brought pain and sadness to our family. My parents had an awful divorce 10 years ago. My brother lives with my dad, so if I invite only him, he won't go because of my father. If I don't invite neither my brother nor my dad, my mom won't go because of my brother.
However, my mom already said that she will not sit on the same table as my dad, in case he's invited.
This is so confusing ! Please help !
Another point to consider is that I decided that I will walk down the aisle by myself. If he's invited and goes to the party, he will be for me just like any other guest. It sounds bitter, but even 10 years later I can barely look at his face. In the other hand I'd be self conscious if I don't invite him at all to my wedding.
Am I contradicting myself ? Did anybody go through a similar situation ?
This has been harder to decide than the gown of my dreams !
2006-12-19
01:35:49
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