what characteristics does a man seeks fora woman?

Question

does Being agressive.. towards the opposite sex a better way to please them... does every man think only of being laid and not care much of their partner's feelings.........

Answer 1

Each man is different. My hubby likes me to be submissive at times and when he can't handle he likes me to take charge. He does care for my feelings and though he likes getting laid, most of the time he wants to make sure I get what I need too. Other times he's just to tired from work and wants to get what he wants. So then I just take care of him. Communication is important. You have to talk to understand each other. If your partner seems uncaring, tell him how you're feeling. If he still acts uncaring, maybe you should find someone who can fullfill you emotionally and physically.

Answer 2

It makes me kind of sad that this question is being asked. There are millions of different men out there, there is no one specific type of woman that all men want. Besides, there are way more important and fulfilling things do do or be than to worry about being what 'men' want you to be! Its nice to be and to feel attractive, but you will have better luck finding a man who suits YOU, and what you want and need if you focus on knowing yourself. It is easy to play a part and become what some guy wants, but then you are just fulfilling him, and not being true to yourself. It might be gratifying for a little while, but it will burn you in the end.
Sorry for the lecture :)

Answer 3

Every man is different. That is a tricky questions. Some men like the aggressive types. But then some like the more subdued. This is a weird theory of mine, but generally you can tell what a man really likes based on what their mother is like. I find that men tend to seek woman and vice versa that have similar characteristics to their's mother/father. It sounds weird, but Freud knew what he was talking about whether we want to admit to it or not. So my advice is just be yourself. You will never be happy being any body else.

Answer 4

What a man should be looking for is IQ, not size 0 dress. Unfortunately this is not often the case. I had a guy break it off with me when he saw a letter from MENSA on my credenza. He was put off that I hadn't told him I was a member. Then, he left me for a size 2, although I am a more natural size 9, with an IQ of, well, let's just say it's over 150. Make any sense? Sadly, it does.

Answer 5

Generally, when someone asks the question "what does a man/woman want in a partner?", They're either asking rhetorically, as a lead-in for a sad story about how no one of the opposite sex wants them, in spite of apparently sterling credentials; or they want to know how to "fix" themselves so they can become more attractive to the opposite sex.

Either way, it's sad that people consider that they must somehow contort and re-arrange themselves to become attractive to some mythical creature which they have depersonalized at the same time as endowing with apparently superhuman powers of "completing" them.

This is sad, because life keeps on rolling along with all the wonderful things it has to offer even as people bemoan the fact that life is a loss somehow because they are partnerless.

Thing one: we only get one shot at life. We can choose our attitude about it. If our attitude about life is that unless we're "completed" by acquiring a theoretically perfect "soul mate", it sucks, then we've pretty much created a self-fulfilling prophecy. Because if we focus on having just one thing, over which we have no control, we've pretty much committed ourselves to a battle for something we cannot win.

Paradoxically, we've also pretty much ended the possibility that we'll get what we want. If the attitude we choose to adopt is that life sucks unless you're partnered, we become vulnerable to desperation. And desperation is a very, very, very unattractive characteristic to everyone except those who are looking to take advantage of us. To those kinds of sharks, desperation is the sweet perfume that they home in on.

I think you have to accept that two propositions are true: (1) That it is perfectly possible that you will never, ever meet your soul mate, and therefore will go through life unpartnered; (2) Being partnered is not the key to life's happiness; you only have to look at the statistics on divorce to understand that.

So what do you do?

I think the answer to that is obvious: you live life like the precous gift that it is, and find a way to be happy and enjoy what life has to offer even if you never meet the partner of your dreams. You find out who you are and what your passions are, and you live for those without worrying about how that affects potential mates. IOW, if constant dieting and excercising to try to fit some mythical body image makes you tired and anxious and miserable, you accept that maybe you weren't meant to go through life in a Size 2, you eat healthy and excercise with moderation, and be comfortable inside your own skin. If your passion happens to be doing something that's offbeat and strange, you embrace that passion and the joy that it brings you, without wondering if it puts men off. It's yours, it makes you happy, you do it.

You don't put off things you want to do until you have acheived couplehood: if you want to go on a fabulous vacation, you go, either by yourself or with a friend. You work at what you want to do, play where and when you want to play, make plans around what you enjoy, and have a ball!

In freeing yourself from the tyranny of making yourself into an unending search to become half of a couple, you make yourself whole. You get the reward of unconditional enjoyment of life, which is a much better thing than saddness over not having a partner.

And another funny thing...by enjoying yourself and being happy and confident in and of yourself, you free yourself to reject contact with losers who don't fare about your feelings. You know that you don't have to latch desperately on to every man who shows interest in you on the off chance that he's the "one." You don't exude desperation, which means that you aren't a magnet for the exploiters and losers any more.

Confidence and a sense of joy are the greatest attractions in the world. If you cultivate these, at the very least you'll get more enjoyment of life, which isn't a bad consolation prize.

Answer 6

not every fella cares about gettin laid!!fellas look for girls they can talk to until they fall asleep!they look for girls who arent only there partners but someone who could be there best friend!they look for kind, sensitive, funny and good looking girls!

Answer 7

Don't categorize the entire species. You are generalizing that all men are the same.

That's just silly.

Answer 8

no not all men

Answer 9

skinny and big boobs.