Singles & Dating - 21 December 2007

ok well i just started dating a guy for about a week and today we hung out at a hockey game and he tried to make out with me. but it wasnt really....good, cuase he started makeing out with me on the first kiss and i wasnt expecting it. and i had no idea was he was doing. so by the end of the kiss i had sloberr allllll over my face and likee i was tottaly freaked out.i didnt know what to say either. i have madeout with a guy once before and so i kinda know how it should be like.
and then my bf tried it again later and it was like still bad and i still ended up with slsober all over my motuh......
lol i kinda was freaked out but i never said anything
soo how can i help or fix this????
what should i say next time if that does happen again??

2007-12-21 17:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by dandy-xx* 2

2007-12-21 17:23:31 · 1 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1

hey im 15 and about 2 months ago i started texting and online talkin to this girl..shes 14.. eveything was good we were ok and then randomly we just stopped talkin and texting... we barely ever talk in real... why do u think we all of a sudden just stopped texting.. i want to start it again.. but am kindas afraid to text/talk to her incase she doenst like me or doesnt wanna text me... what should i do???

2007-12-21 17:15:08 · 1 answers · asked by kaby_125 1

i was watching a movie with a friend that i was 'together' with, not officially dating....but as i was watching the movie with her next to me about 1-2 feet apart....i noticed her leg kept shaking and her hands were hot and sweaty......this was happening 1 hour into the movie....then i reached out and wanted to hold her hand(thats how i knew it was sweaty)...and everything stopped, her leg stopped shaking, and her hand started to cool down....does that mean something....

2007-12-21 17:09:06 · 2 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1

Okay well me and my bf started secretcly going out in like December, a couple of weeks after he broke up with his ex. And ever since we have been dating, its like a rollercoaster ride. He can be really rude to me, and the next really nice, which really sucks! And now tonight I just found out that he still talks to his ex on the phone, and he couldnt even phone me when i asked him too. What should I do?? I want to break up with him,but then i dont. I know he still has feelimgs for his ex, but I dont know what to say to him.

2007-12-21 17:03:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my husband when I was 16. We've been married for 8 years...together for 14 years. I have never cheated on him and I don't think I ever would. But, I don't get the attention from him anymore that I used to get. He never compliments me. He never says I love you unless he's going to bed. He never holds my hand when we walk somewhere together. He doesn't do any of the "little things" anymore. I miss the feelings and the rush I used to get from those "little things". Lately, I've found myself openly flirting with some of the men (younger or older) that I come into contact with at work. I know I act like I'm interested in them, but I'm really not. I just enjoy the playfulness that comes along with the flirting. I enjoy hearing that I look nice or my hair looks pretty or that I have a beautiful smile. It gives me butterflies in my stomach. I haven't had that in a long time. I don't feel guilty about this, but I do wonder if it's inappropriate. Any opinions?

2007-12-21 16:55:05 · 7 answers · asked by devil_in_disguise 1

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2007-12-21 16:52:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a senior in highschool and NEVER kissed a boy b4! I have to kno how to kiss a boy b4 COLLEGE :( ugh!

2007-12-21 16:50:46 · 41 answers · asked by Court ♥'s ya! 2

im a 17 yr old amle. ive been tlking 2 this girl 4 a while and recently i told her that i liked her. anyway she seemed flattered. and i think she likes me back and thinks something of me. shes been talking to me more, talking about me 2 her friends, and other such things. but i want to know. how do i seal the deal and really ask her to be my girlfriend, and hang out after school? how do i make her like me?

2007-12-21 16:49:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

so thanks for the advice....well he is currently pissed at me. he came home from work yelled at me, bitched about lights being on,and the bedroom was dirty. we have a big home and the whole house is spotless EXCEPT our bedroom. i clean and cook all day just to make him not ***** and he does anyway. then asks me to go to taco bell at midnight....im not hungry.. but im nice so i did then he asked me to get gas for him so he doesnt have to in the morning!omg...Then tells me hes unhappy with our sex life.......r u serious....do i really wanna lay down with a jerk.....am i wrong for thinking this way.

2007-12-21 16:28:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-21 16:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by Tobias T 1

How do you know if he likes you?
He bought me roses when he hurt my feelings
He invites me over all the time (but when I asked him if he wanted to come over he said it might be awkward)
He makes eye contact and holds it for a while
He smiles really big around me
He asked to meet my mom
When given a seating chart that made us sit 1 chair in between us he would always sit in that chair instead of his
We are friends and aren't allowed to date til we turn 16...he turns 16 before me...and his friend wants to go on a double date...but he said he didn't really want to go.
His friend asked me if I like him ( I of course denyed it!)
He got me a Christmas present...I think it's a PURPLE (my fav. color) Eeyore shirt...I told him I love eeyore


Does this mean anything...or is it just my wishful thinking?!

Please help!

(yes...I asked this about 20 minutes ago but only got 3 answers! SORRY)

2007-12-21 16:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by tina 2

2007-12-21 16:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by peanuts for the lady 1

how do i tell my godma that i want a b/f. she don't want me 2 have one bc she thinks that im havein sex. ( but im not) she says that she wants to know when im havein sex. but i know that she don't she just want to tell me what to do. i want 2 do it mi way not mi godma way.how do i tell her?

2007-12-21 16:22:00 · 5 answers · asked by lexie 1

2007-12-21 16:21:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want a boyfriend but no matter how much i flirttt with them, they wont ask me out what should i do??

2007-12-21 16:17:42 · 22 answers · asked by LIVEinLOVE 1

2007-12-21 16:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always wondered if there was a word for it.

2007-12-21 16:12:40 · 26 answers · asked by Watch. 2

Okay. I am always having my friends telling me I am so pretty and that I should have a bf and everything but guys won't even talk to me. I think that I scare them away! I am rather tall (taller than most of them at my age) I am 5 10....... I am a good student and a horrible athlete. I can rarely get guys to talk to me. Some think I am a nerd cause of my good grades. Others just think I am annoying I guess. I can rarely make friends that are guys and in my whole life I have only had 4....... I don't want them to be scared of me. What can I do? Is it my height....... or is it my grades........ Or what? I am 14! and they all are scared of me! It is just plain annoying! I am blond and have green eyes.......... What could it be?

2007-12-21 16:12:06 · 8 answers · asked by animal luver 5

I’ve been getting to know this lady that’s pretty much everything I’ve been looking for. She’s nice, has a friendly personality, feminine, don’t be all talkin stupid or nutin (lol), has similar interests as myself, has morals, is trustworthy, and has a fun selection of hobbies. On top of that, she’s young (in my general age group). This lady is perfect except for one flaw: she’s fat. However, her face is gorgeous, and she doesn’t have that nasty personality that you see with some fat women. Long strawberry blonde hair, blue eyes, pretty smile. She really likes me, and I must admit that I like her too, even though she doesn’t have a future as a lingerie model. Granted, I’m not in perfect shape either, but I just have a few extra pounds. How significant do you think this is? Would it create any long term problems in a relationship? This is not her, but she looks similar to this lady: tohttp://i180.photobucket.com/albums/x40/Mike_F_620/overweight2.jpg?t=1198299930

2007-12-21 16:09:14 · 10 answers · asked by Michael F 3

Ok, so theres this girl who I've seen a few times and talked to outside school through another friend, but I've never actually gotten her number or anything. We seem to stare at each other a lot and occasionally say hi when passing each other in the hall but shes a junior and I'm a sophomore so we have no classes together.
Anyway, I've been thinking about asking her out, but I can't really tell if she likes me or not, she seems to want to talk to me, but she also doesn't really seem to emote much, so it seems like shes very neutral. But, today after about a week of not really talking she comes up to me and says "Have a good break" then I replied likewise and before I could continue the conversation she walked off, but I might have looked done as if not interested out of nerves, I'm not sure.
That in itself doesn't sound like very much but consider it from the perspective of us essentially being strangers to each other. What do you think Y! answers?

2007-12-21 16:06:18 · 9 answers · asked by deadweight16 2

2007-12-21 16:04:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-21 16:03:47 · 26 answers · asked by Rita 6

my ex and I argued alot. we were never on the same page. we didnt compliment eachother where it mattered. we dated over 2 years and were friends for a year before that. but i loved him. and we almost got engaged. he got freaked out and after about 6 months of him not being sure- i moved on. now im dating someone else. im happy about it. but everytime i talk to my ex i get sad. or mad. just all these emotions at once. he wants to get back together but i know its not best. why does it hurt so bad? i feel like i lost my best friend. its painful.

2007-12-21 16:00:52 · 5 answers · asked by amtech33 2

I meet this boy at a banquet, he was a waiter and my cousin is friends with him. I was talking to him while he was working and we connected. I like him like i've liked no one before and I dont want to be a b**** to him I haven't called yet and when I talk to him I dont want to be like that I want to be nice and kind, he already seen me as a b****. What do i do?

2007-12-21 15:52:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl ask a boy(that she likes) to hang out by going to a movie, and he pays, is that a date? or is it just hanging out?

2007-12-21 15:51:10 · 30 answers · asked by . 3

I've heard a lot of girls say that they would rather be called "beautiful" or "gorgeous" than "hot" or "sexy."

However, it seems difficult to imagine a lot of girls taking it well when a guy calls them "beautiful."

It seems like they would think that means the guy wants a relationship or is falling for them, whereas "you're hot" just means "let's make out."

So do most girls actually want to be called things like "beautiful" by guys?

2007-12-21 15:50:07 · 17 answers · asked by pieninja 5

Okay so i'm helping one of my friends out with this but i need some help too. A boy likes her, but she doesn't think it's going to last because he has had a lot of girlfriends. What could she do?

2007-12-21 15:47:00 · 2 answers · asked by Laz 2

I'm 15, he's 17

2007-12-21 15:40:54 · 27 answers · asked by Sophia 2

I haven't spoken to him since August. I haven't seen him since March. Every couple weeks or so I get a text message from him in the middle of the night, but I never respond. He and I have been through this cycle several times. We have been broken up for 2 years.
Every time I tell him I don't want to talk to him again, he still continues. The last time I talked to him, I told him I didn't have any desire to be his friend.
He does the same thing to another old flame of his. She and I talked about it recently.

Help!
I don't want to change my number or get a restraining order. I don't need that hassle. He's not threatening. The messages are always a simple, "Hey" or "Can we be friends?"

2007-12-21 15:39:08 · 8 answers · asked by aliengeranium 3