Singles & Dating - 21 December 2007

Iam really so sad, my fiance and I broke it off, pretty much do to her rekindling friendships with old friends and going to back to her old lifestyle, of just partying and hanging with friends all the time, and now she has blocked me off completely, I mean I try to get intouch with her through the phone and email and get hangups and no replys, she says she completely has no feelings for me and wants me out of her life, It makes me hurt so much in side

Last night I was thinking about all are early relationship memories, like talking on the phone for hours, picnics at the park, are first date, and I honestly cried for an hour, Its like shes not even giving me a chance to get back in her life and her heart. Honestly I dont think I did anything drasticly wrong, I guess its just a case of her wanting her old life, but to not even talk to me at all? Just one chance is all I want.

Are love was so pure and real, how could it fade so fast and how could her feelings go from love to hate?

2007-12-21 05:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriends dad died a week ago. he was in a coma for years. so it was not a shock. but my boyfriend doesnot want to do sex now. he says that he is not ready. he is all the time sad. my question is, has anyone been in this situation and how long does it take to start a sexual life again?pls help.

2007-12-21 05:15:55 · 16 answers · asked by atahsina 5

A guy I send some pictures to said I'm so pretty. A friend said that he should said beautiful. Is it that he didn't like me that much?

2007-12-21 05:12:26 · 25 answers · asked by Hello 2

I have been dating this guy for about a month now,I met him a year ago and had kept my distance for he was going through his divorce and i did not want to be in the middle of things.Thnigs seem to be going well, we have fun together and enjoy the cuddling aspect but how can I be sure what we have is not just a 'fling'?

2007-12-21 05:11:22 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1

This is very embarrassing but I really don't know how to ride my husband. He always wants me to but I can't seem to do it right and he gets mad and just tell me to stop. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I get on and start moving up an down and round an round. Can someone please explain what I need to do to master this please. It is effecting my marriage. I ask him to help teach me but again he gets mad.

2007-12-21 05:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by lana 2

So ever since the year started i've been flirting with this girl, talking and hugging in the halls, hanging out with groups outside of school, sitting with each other at lunch ect. I can tell she finds me physically attractive by comments she makes, and ive caught her staring at me a couple times when she didnt think i was looking. She even sat on my lap during a hs hockey game. I don't have any classes with her but Whenever isee her in the halls we always smile and say hey, or hug. She also laughs at almost everything I say.

She gave me her number but when I call she always says she has to go. A couple days ago I was in the car with a brother of a kid (lets call him A) I know and mentioned her and A's bro said that she was going out with A, even though I see them toghtehr and she's never as freindly as she is with me. She never mentioned she was going out with him and never talks about him to anyone, so do you think the kid was lying or misinformed or is the ***** just leading me on?

2007-12-21 05:06:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met him a year ago when he was going through his divorce,I stayed away because I did not want the baggage,as the year went by i would see him every so often at this local bar and we would chat,just recently we became inclusive and I really am into him now.his divorce is finalized and he has a 10yr old daughter,so i am worried about all the x drama that comes with him,we seem to have a connection,so should i stick with him regaurdless of his baggage?

2007-12-21 05:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1

We broke up about 2 weeks ago and i asked for her to forgive me today for what i did, which was testing her which she thought i was playing mind games, so she felt unappreciated. Now that she forgave me, my real question is that would she still like to have a second try with me.. i don't want to give her any pressure.. im just wondering if this subject of second try will be brought up later.. she is a firm believer of second chances. But at the moment im still not sure if she will do that with me.. wish me luck. please give any advices that you find to have any help in my situation. thanks =)

2007-12-21 04:57:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously, how many young girls out there are into ham radio, or electrical engineering? How many girls out there like to walk down to their local university and ask if they can use their computer cluster to try to crack RSA encryption? The only female student when I went to get my electrical engineering degree many years ago had TWO boyfriends. When I go down to the Red Cross and hang out with my ham radio buddies I'm the only person under 55 there. I've never seen a woman anywhere near that building even when we've had to set emergency communications between cities during disasters. I don't understand how my hobbies or interests will help me find a girl. Even the girls at church are all either on drugs or have a kid. It's like they go there to feel better about the horrible lives they live. It's been 15 years since I've had a date. She wouldn't want to have anything to do with me if I did walked into to her.

2007-12-21 04:53:07 · 6 answers · asked by Hilow H 1

i met diz guy n we were talking 4 2 months. but then we stopped talking but the last day we talked he said dont worry. i love u. and wen i called his fone it said the # u had dialed has been changed, disconnected, or its out of service. and he also told me that he is scared that ill leave him 4 another guy cuz his x left him 4 another guy. now i dont know what 2 do.

2007-12-21 04:49:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. My boyfriend just dumped me 4 days before Christmas. On the PHONE!!!!!!! I am very depressed. What should I do???

2007-12-21 04:49:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

im so sure theres only one can u help me

2007-12-21 04:47:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, I am NOT crazy btw

But I went out with this guy a few times, we had a sleepover on Friday , he dropped me off on Saturday and called me Monday after work. I called him back, nothing. He called Tues pm and I called back, nothing. Then he texted me on Weds and said how are you,keep playing phone tag, I responded by saying I'm cold and want to be all warm in bed with you.

He didnt' respond, so finally on Thursday I called him again, nothing. So, I decided to go to his house to see what was up, and he pulled in with his date as I was standing there. He got out and said we could talk about it later, and he said that I knew what was up. I said no, I didn't why are you ignoring me? I left....

Then, later on I noticed just now he deleted me from his myspace.

Why would HE be so pissed at ME?

2007-12-21 04:46:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If they quit the business

2007-12-21 04:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes the best guy i've ever dated. the only problem is, he doesnt like going to family stuff. like christmas, and thanksgiving. well i love being with my family. there great. and i want them to get to know him and all that stuff. but he makes up all these excuses not to go to anything. i need to know what to do to get him to go? or should i just dump him now before i get to deep into it?? HELP!

2007-12-21 04:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was going to use them for my current bf for our first time but I am not sure how he feels about me anymore. What should I do with them, just save them for the next guy or just give them away?

2007-12-21 04:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by prinsisss 4

Im lost in love.We love each other.I care and love her a lot.But she got married with another guy(parents force) whom she dont like.Im very depressed and i cried alot for her.But now a days she says she is nt feeling the same pain like me.Our past always dwells in my mind.I know i lost her and she cant come back but im unable to forget her.She married infront of me she is living with him how can i forget all these.I love her so much.why she changed like this.without me how she is happy and why not me. Is im too sensitive for her.how to get away from her.why girls change like this. Dont she feel the pain as she lost me.plzzz helpppp need serious answers plzz.

2007-12-21 04:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5

Or a guy with another guy? Me and my firends have debated this for years.

2007-12-21 04:32:59 · 7 answers · asked by The Crimson King 2

It just a rumor that started way back in my high school days so I dont know how much water it holds. However I do know they were intimate and it might be true...a lot of people know the rumor. I havent been going out with her long enough to ask such a personal question and I dont think it will go over very well if I ask her to get tested before we do anything together...what do I do here? Just avoid the situation and dump her or what?

2007-12-21 04:31:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started going out with a new guy about a week ago (it'll be 2 on sunday) but he doesnt seem to want to get close. I always have to make the first move. It still hasn't gone further than a lingering peck on the lips! I've never had this problem before. I've talked to friends and people that know him and it turns out he's like this with most girls, yep the dreaded 'f' word (frigid)! Anyway meeting him tomorrow but I don't want t push it too far, I'm supposed to be going to meet his familly on xams eve too! Anyway your views? How far should I try and take,do I talk to him about it? Is it because he doesnt want kiss me at school,or infront of his friends? Am I trying to take things too fast?

Oh and he's REALLY hot! and I do really like him.

2007-12-21 04:26:43 · 22 answers · asked by kc 1

I sang a solo at my school last year and this boy named Carter only likes me for singing the solo? What should I do?

2007-12-21 04:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by gingerspice0331 1

Since there are no curtains on the big windows in the kitchen?
It does only face the alley out at the edge of our backyard! What do you think

2007-12-21 04:20:39 · 30 answers · asked by Jessica M 1

You First Lose Your Virginity? Does EVERYONE Bleed? Can You Avoid That? HELP!!

2007-12-21 04:09:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have only been dating for a month and I really don't know what to get him. Can you guys please give me some good suggestions? I really don't want to spend to much either. Maybe $175 or less. Or is that too much? HELP!!

2007-12-21 04:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4

I have been dating a great guy for three months but he still won't commit. We spend every day together, talk on the phone several times a day and we spend time throughout the day together, sometimes just meeting up for coffee or something as simple as that and then see each other later that night. I want a commitment but he won't give in saying that he doesn't "jump into relationships quickly". If I am not his girlfriend then what am I? Also, he's been telling me lately about all of the women who flirt with him and I'm starting to get jealous.

By the way... I pretty hot myself and I don't understand what more he could want. I'm loving and caring and take care of myself. I'm starting to feel really insecure and depressed. Also, he frequently says things like "let's just get married" and "let's have a baby" HELP!!!

2007-12-21 04:05:53 · 12 answers · asked by Havent I learned anything yet 1

I like 3 guys named Justin,Dylan, and Ryan.Justin likes my friend Ali and Ali likes him.He is going to ask her out after Christmas because her mom won'tlet her have a boyfriend right now.Well since I know Ali a lot he talks to me 24/7 and bumps into me over and over and over again.Dylan was going out with Ali and they broke up not to long ago and he always is askin me if I think he's ugly and I say no.Ryan is best friends with Dylan and is always talking to me,putting his arm around me and stuff like not, but I am not sure if it's a joke.Oh Yeah and there's one more person in this story Micheal. Micheal is in love with me, but I don't like him and he won't take no for an answer.SO what do u think???????

2007-12-21 04:05:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

And what does she mean by not the butterfly in stomach and shyness that she really wants?

2007-12-21 04:02:57 · 17 answers · asked by Unique 3000 1

I have a situation. There are this two guys after me. both are very sweet with me and flirt with me a lot I like them both but now I find myself in a situation in which I'm doing a trip. One of them said to take care have fun, but the other one said something that kept me thinking he said I know you'll enjoy your trip just don't have too much fun! I haven't date any of the two. But by your perspective which one is being more honest or interested?

2007-12-21 03:58:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok theres this guy that i like named brandon.. and like i text him on mi phone and like he textes back and i heard that he was talking to his friends about me. i want him to no i like him but im nervous that like wat if he doesnt like me? should i tell him.. or no?

2007-12-21 03:49:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-21 03:48:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous