2007-12-21 16:03:47 · 26 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To love a person means to free the person! I know it seems contradictory; nevertheless this is a truth! In true Love, the two persons must be each One person. This means: your faults, your qualities, your flaws, your kindness... therefore a total freedom for and from each other. When we don't hold on to someone, we let the other be free, so, the closer we will get, the best we can learn and give from each other.
We too often hear "I'll change my partner"; this such an illusion!
A lack of judgment, and the most wrong path to go: they end up in separation very soon...
Take care!
2007-12-21 16:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by kayneriend 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely !!!
but don't tell me lies and respect me as I do respect you, too. Else, why shall I give pearls to the pigs?
We are physically changing during the life time, but we're still the same person we have been knowing from the beginning of the time.
We love someone for some reason - their qualities, and we shall discover much many better or worse ones. You may take them into balance, then - if that person is the one for you, the one you are looking for, with all their positive and negative features - who's perfect (???) And take them as they are, and cherish them for the little miracle they exist. For we are completing each other, we are responding one to each other needs and fulfilment, and these won't change even when our needs are changing, because we love each other FOR WHAT WE REALLY ARE.
OR you can better pass over and do not imagine they will be someone else, someday, for what we may think they should be, for loving them.
So, as you very well said: "love a person for what they ARE" if you think this is right for you, too.
2007-12-22 10:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by :)(: 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree that true love means you love a person for who and what they are. But I also think true love is knowing all the secrets and mistakes that the person has done, but you still love him/her because of it.
2007-12-21 16:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Aurora 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Then only the love is True...
I read somewhere "The women fall in love and marry their men. After spending lifetime changing them to suit their needs, they complain that they are no longer the same person they fell in love with."
This cracked me up...this may be said as a joke but it does reflect the truth...We all tend to change the person we love but the true love is accepting the rose with the thorns.
2007-12-22 06:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by P'quaint! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Agreed,
2007-12-21 16:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree with your question, because when you have your True Love beside you, and he might have some habits, or mistakes he made in his Life,it does not matter,because you fell in Love with the way he was not for what he could have accomplished.
2007-12-22 09:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Completely agree. Most people have no idea about
unconditional love. They always seem to be looking
for people to fill in the gaps of their own shortcomings.
If they can't improve themselves, they think they can
come up with the perfect person and then ride in on
their coat tails. This isn't love, it's reconstruction.
2007-12-22 02:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course..I would never fall in love with someone that I thought they should be. I fall for a person for what they are..You cant change a person the way they are into someone you want them to be in your eyes just to make the relationship work.
2007-12-22 02:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rena, Yes i agree, if i do not except a lady the way she is, then the relationship is not mean`t to be. and the same the other way around. both lovers must love each other completely ,including the way they are.
2007-12-22 03:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely agree!! True loves means you accept the person just the way they are, even all of their habits and little quirks!!
2007-12-21 16:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ginny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋