Singles & Dating - 24 November 2007

I'm a person who doesn't talk much. I don't say anything till someone says something to me and when I reply, I keep short and simple. I've been like this since I can remember and tried to change but it didn't work out. But when I get a few beers in my system, I get more outgoing, confident, and happier. I've had girlfriends for the night, yadimean, but never in a real relationship. I don't really mind, but I'm wondering if that's weird or not.

2007-11-24 17:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-24 17:37:45 · 3 answers · asked by rachel g 2

i've gained a lot of weight. i went from 120 lbs to 180 lbs. and i'm only 5'4. i feel humilated by my weight. this guy likes me and he's only seen me at my heaviest. i just don't understand what a great guy like him could see in a whale like me. also, i get so self-conscious when we hang out with other girls that are skinnier than me.

2007-11-24 17:34:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend occasionally goes 2 the strip club w/his buddies. They used 2 go ALOT, like every weekend but it has calmed down lately. He usually tells me (@ least that I know of) every time he goes. Also, on occasion he'll get a lap dance. I've gone 2 the club w/him a few times & the more I go the less I like him going w/o me, especially now that I know what types of things go on in there. Every time he does go 2 those types of places w/o me I do tell him how I feel about him going, but I've never tell him not 2 go just b/c of the type of person he is (doesn't like to be told what to do). I mean I do trust him & all, but I admit that theres that little voice inside of me thinkin "what if?", it's just that him going 2 those types of places really makes me uncomfortable, especially now that I've heard some girls will offer more than just a dance.

2007-11-24 17:30:55 · 4 answers · asked by yourstruly 1

I like a guy, he does notice me but doesn't talk to me. Our eyes in the hallway always meet. We look deeply into each others' eyes. But never say anything. I AM WAY TO SHY TO SAY ANYTHING TO HIM! How do i get him to acually talk to me. All my friends know him.

2007-11-24 17:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Soo, It's kinda weird, I've known this guy ever since kinder... But he's a year older. And now it's his last year here in my school and NOW is the only time I start liking him -.- Ok so there's this sIut who is in my way because she likes him too but only for "his body" and she notice that he stares at me a lot so out of no where she starts hanging out with me... So now he looks at me like he's disgusted. And I also have a best guy friend who "plays around" with me a lot, and im pretty annoyed... and if i get mad at him he gets even more annoying! And my crush thinks we're together!!! soo he tries to stay away... a LOT of people thinks he likes me but the problem is that slut and my 'best guy friend' -.- AND its his last year here! he's usally really loud and kinda nasty [but all guys are..] but when he's near me hes all "quiet and acts like a 'gentleman.' " [his friend said...] ... but im WAY to shy and these people are in the way and he's shy too and he doesnt have internet access..

2007-11-24 17:19:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

say you are walking around somewhere by yourself, what would be the best way for an interested girl to attract your attetion without being incredibly forward?

2007-11-24 17:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by Traumajunkie 2

im 14 and im a classy emo...i dress in black and such but i have the most pretty brown eyes and sexy hair...i am curvy ..........i am nice to everyone and i am a huge flirt....but i do respect every guy and girl.....guys say on the look scale im a 7 and a half is that good?? and .so just by what you just read would you date me?

2007-11-24 17:17:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, you are at a random party with some friends and surrounded by several beautiful girls (I don't wanna say HOT because its too common and superficial). You see a girl you like and you really want to meet her. What's your next move?

Keep in mind that there are to kegs of beer (keystone, yeah I know, I know) at the party.

2007-11-24 17:16:15 · 28 answers · asked by C47V3779 1

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. We're both 22, Malaysian-Chinese, and studying. Everything was fine between us until last month when we broke things off a bit. He feels that he doesn't want a girlfriend. However, we got back together after a couple of weeks, but things keep running hot and cold. He now feels he doesn't want a girlfriend again, cos it's 'stressful'.

He says he is stressed with juggling parents, work and girlfriend. He's living with his parents and not on very good terms with both of them. His mom hates me and thinks we've broken up a few months back.

At his part time job, his colleagues keep speculating about his love life and 'pairing' him up with other colleagues. He doesn't mention me or that he's even have a girlfriend. I don't visit him at his workplace 'cos he doesn't like people to see him work.

I see him once a week because of studies and work, therefore I don't think i'm demanding or possessive of his time. No other girl, so what's his deal?

2007-11-24 17:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, there's this guy named Blake, and I liked him pretty much the first time I saw him (we're 2 years apart) and he told my friends that he liked me the first time he saw me too. But I didn't tell anyone because I thought it would be weird for me to go out with him since he's 2 years younger.

His friend told him he had no chance with me, so he asked out my other friend and I was devastated, I cried for hours over him. But then over the summer after they broke up he asked me out and my friend said she didn't care so I went out with him..but only for a week because he did something stupid so I broke up with him..

But ever since he's been all I can think about it seems like. I don't know what to do...should I tell him what I told you guys and try it again? Please give advice! Thank you so much.

2007-11-24 17:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by ♣swirley_gumdrops♣ 4

is this a good thing or bad
um im not fat or anything but yea just wonderin

guys is it a turn on or turn off??

2007-11-24 17:06:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

www.myspace.com/armyftcky

I am looking for a smart, goal oriented, attractive, clean Intelligent girl and I am trying to change my image I just changed my myspace picture but I do not know if that is the best one to attract the type of women I want. I know this is a vain request but I thought I would ask anyways.

2007-11-24 17:06:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my ex broke up with me, I went to his best friends younger sister who I happen to work with. This girl is seriously a sister to him/known him her whole life. I asked if he was like this with all girls. He dumped me due to lack of time. She said hes not worth it, he spends too much time on work and college and doesnt care enough and he always does this. He was shocked she made that comment but it made me feel better. What do I make of this, I want to believe he isnt a bad person but idk?

2007-11-24 17:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by liz 1

2007-11-24 17:03:15 · 42 answers · asked by Awesome 1

I was so head over heels in love with this guy and I totally felt like we connected...but he basically rejected me, ive been trying to get us to hang out for awhile ...but it was just never a good time. Then finally I text messaged him n asked him out, he never responded..so i thought maybe he didnt get the message so i msged him on msn ...and apparently he did get the message. i felt kinda hurt cuz he didnt even make the effort to call me, msg back or even msg me on msn or facebook. So i asked him again but i could tell he didnt really care to hang out n said "maybe we'll have to postpone this to another time" which is his response everytime ive asked him to hang out. i feel so heartbroken n sad. I dont know how to move on n forget about him? n stop wishing we'd be together?

2007-11-24 17:01:16 · 16 answers · asked by Ash 1

my girlfriend and i were really good friends and hung out everyday, because it was someone who went threw the same thing and was going threw the same thing.....and we were both single moms....now she has a bf, and its like KK WHO? and im happy that shes happy, but i wish she had something more to talk about then her man.....am i jealous that she has a bf and has less to offer then i do...or is it just in my head? i want to be a good friend about this but i dont know how. i have never been the single one and its been 3 yrs now, when am i gonna right mr.right it isnt fare.

2007-11-24 16:56:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Apparently when a girl finds this out she finds a mans heart- Awww xx

2007-11-24 16:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had this amazing boyfriend. He was sweet and just treated me great. Then he got a bit down and started doing oil pot shrooms k x soft. And he's completely different. He says he stopped but i think he's lying cause he's still...different..its like i dont know him anymore. He doesn't care about me, about him or anyone. Can drugs really change a person like this? I can't help him. I tried and he just ignores me. So. Should i just move on? do you think if he gets clean he'll come to his senses? Please dont reply means things :) thanks

2007-11-24 16:48:08 · 22 answers · asked by Lena 1

He's the sweetest person alive, and he always says he misses me, and he says how amazing i am.
He's a virgo, and for those of you who arent into astonomy, virgos are very difficult people.hhaha.
He' s never said "i love you" to a girl.
We're both 15.
We've knows eachother for a long time, and are really close now.
So he said this while we were in the pool, and alone, and he was turned on and everything, and he's like "i would never have sex with you though, not now, we're too young"
And he's like felt me up and stuff. His mom even told him she would buy him condoms if he wanted, so he's allowed to have sex!
DOn't get me wrong, I'm not a nympho i dont want sex now either, but its just the first guy whos said that.
so i guess my question is, does he say that because he respects me?
or, why would he say that? if guys could help me, that'd be great.

2007-11-24 16:41:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend thinks its something against him. i like cuddling, i like sexual activity, i just really dont like kissing. toungues are creepy to me, i hate bad breath, its just so gross to me. we're 20 and i've never been a big kisser. we like peck kiss and stuff but i just dont like making out. is this ok, or should i kiss him anyway?

2007-11-24 16:37:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl that works at my local walmart. I like her and believe that she likes me but dont know for sure and have no way to find out. I went up there one day to do some shopping and she started talking to me like she might be interested. Went home that night and started messing around on the net and came across her profile totally by chance. Sent her a quick note and she added me to her friends list but never replied. A few days later I asked her out via email (since I dont go to walmart that often) and it took her a few days to read it once she did she still did not reply. I would like to know one way or another if she likes me but dont want to appear pushy or look like im stalking her. So what is everbodys thougts on if she likes me or not? What should I do next (anything)? Keep in mind that I am terribly shy.

2007-11-24 16:30:47 · 4 answers · asked by ncmudslinger 3

I am moderately attractive and people tell me that I am very funny.
What are a few tips on how to get girls to like me?

2007-11-24 16:29:22 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i love this girl, Mellissa.
she loves me

i cant stand being without her. i feel like im going to die
she feels the same

but the problem is, i cant stand being with her, like i feel everything is soo wrong

despite how much i hate being with her, its IMPOSSIBLE to explain how miserable i am without her, i mean i LITERALY look down a 6 story building off the roof barely holding myself from going over because im not with her.

(i was without her since july i dated 2 other girls. i CANNOT just get 'over her')

please help, and i am reading all the comments, so take your time answering, please

2007-11-24 16:25:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=ArBGCF_VXC6EQ0q068StAvLOxQt.;_ylv=3?show=a515b724fb543ce0ef073f8fee9ae275aa

is he really THE myspace tom, or someone who just likes practical jokes? or, more appropriately, tomfoolery. =P

2007-11-24 16:24:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

a man who has had sex or not?

2007-11-24 16:20:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK I had a chance to talk to this sweet dude and I just said NO when I really wanted to say YES. Well Heres What Happened....I was walking and I wasn't really paying attention and this car almost hit me ...but it stopped. In the car were three dudes and one of them was the dude that ways stared at me at school. The dudes in the front seat wanted me to talk to the person that was in the backseat and he was raising his hands up like.....wat up. I just stood in front of the car,smile at him,and stared. After a while standing there I just shook my head No. Even though I really really really wanted to talk to him.
What is wrong with me and I really wanted to talk to the dude.Now I really regret that and I really want to talk to the dude now.
Well Do U Think He Would Still Want To Talk To Me???

What Is Wrong With Me??? and

How do I Talk to This Dude???
*yes I am a teenager*

2007-11-24 16:20:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months, he took my virginity and he is pretty much the guy ive always wanted. he chose his friends over me most of the time. he lied to me about little things, he never cheated. he said he loves me. he broke up with me 5 months ago. now were back together weve been together for 2 months. hes 16. hes in a group home right now and i havent seen him for about 6 months. he called me to get back together

new guy i like, hes really sweet and i know he treats me with repsect. hes still a virgin. hes 17. he can drive. hes droven me to school a couple times. he always lisens. hes keeping his viriginty till hes married im guessing. but hes not really the flirty type. he just doesnt have the thing my last boyfriend had

i duno who i should keep. i loved my boyfriend, but i dont think its gunna be the same when he gets out. who would you choose? please help me on this. it would really mean alot to me <333

2007-11-24 16:13:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I work with and we don't work together much but when we do, were cool and he teases me. He also teases every other girl also. I'm thinking he is a big flirt , but when sometimes when ever were around other people he acts like i'm not there. Could he like me or is this how he just acts around everyone?

2007-11-24 16:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by gemini<3 1

2007-11-24 16:04:45 · 18 answers · asked by dulcetdoll 2