my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months, he took my virginity and he is pretty much the guy ive always wanted. he chose his friends over me most of the time. he lied to me about little things, he never cheated. he said he loves me. he broke up with me 5 months ago. now were back together weve been together for 2 months. hes 16. hes in a group home right now and i havent seen him for about 6 months. he called me to get back together
new guy i like, hes really sweet and i know he treats me with repsect. hes still a virgin. hes 17. he can drive. hes droven me to school a couple times. he always lisens. hes keeping his viriginty till hes married im guessing. but hes not really the flirty type. he just doesnt have the thing my last boyfriend had
i duno who i should keep. i loved my boyfriend, but i dont think its gunna be the same when he gets out. who would you choose? please help me on this. it would really mean alot to me <333
2007-11-24 16:13:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the decent guy or the thug? Its obvious the one you should choose and all girls will most likely tell you to go with number to even though they most probably wouldn't. Decent will be there, hear you for you, treat you like a queen. The bad boy though, he offers so much excitement. They will both satisfy, but differently. One will offer you your world, and let you live in it, the other will offer you your world and give you his and try to put everything you want there.
2007-11-24 16:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First:
"viriginty" and "droven" are not words, "'til" not "till", "lisens" is not a word, "gunna" is not a word.
Please learn to use the apostrophe.
Second:
A group home?!? ah...no.
Just because somebody is 17 and a virgin doesn't mean they are saving themselves.
You are young, there is no reason you should be worried about who you choose. Just go with the flow, you likely will meet and break up with more in the future.
Spend time with the new guy, see where it goes. If nowhere, move on to someone else, or spend some time without anyone.
2007-11-24 16:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by E. F. Hutton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, your bf sounds like a loser and will always be a loser. If you stay with him.. i bet in the next 5 years. you will have 2 kids and living in a run down trailer barely having enough money to get by... Take it from me..im seen it happen to friends from high school.
I would see what will happen with this new guy. Its worth it...it seems like he has his head on straight.
good luck!
2007-11-24 16:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for the new guy because he seem to more of a gentleman than the guy before. That i just a recommendation, but the decision is your. So, make the right decision. Whichever you chose, good luck.
2007-11-24 16:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by henry t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who knows!! The first guy is not the guy for you. You say that he is pretty much the guy you have always wanted, but what did you want a cheater, liar, and someone who puts you last. Quit worrying about virginty and be with someone who puts you first and who will respect you and treat you like a PRINCESS like we all deserve.
2007-11-24 16:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by mcanoymas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep away from both of them for say, 2 days. Then, whoever you think about the most during those days is the one ur more in love with!
Just don't think about the problems, think about that AFTER the 'me' time.
2007-11-24 16:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Whindle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never look back in life choose new guy if he realyy likes u and cares u. Morever rather then asking others u need to ask ur self which one u like more. It's ur life decision and u should take it u can;t ask ur personal questions here.
i think u r intelligent enough that peoples are here to just have fun ask ur self. and virginity don't matters in love. he ends ur virginity means u'll never forget him in ur life.
2007-11-24 16:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by got@nswern@ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the guy who shows you respect! You deserve to be respected by all people esp some one you want to date marry or what ever later in life.. Never settle for less!
2007-11-24 16:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by 2kids mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound youthful... dont have intercourse like loopy =( yet!! i recommend, i constantly felt that i constantly had to do everythign for a woman so ultimately, i became into becaming became off because of the fact females werent doing something to me... specifically circumstances, a guy gets much greater turn on whilst a woman shows that she needs him! like needs HIM!!!! like, we could only say he's doing something to you or has you specifically procedures, only be sure you besides mght take administration and positioned him in positions have been he doesnt see it coming... if a woman does that to me, i could be turn on like a mo fo!! females gotta take administration too! so which you instruct your boyfriend how lots you want him, only elect the bypass and do it! its an expirience for the two certainly one of you...
2016-09-30 03:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by hannula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the one you get on with the most and can relate to the most sometimes writting a list of the good and bad things on paper about each guy helps.
if i were me i would go out with the new guy he seems nice and sounds like he really likes you
2007-11-24 16:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Carro s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋