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OK I had a chance to talk to this sweet dude and I just said NO when I really wanted to say YES. Well Heres What Happened....I was walking and I wasn't really paying attention and this car almost hit me ...but it stopped. In the car were three dudes and one of them was the dude that ways stared at me at school. The dudes in the front seat wanted me to talk to the person that was in the backseat and he was raising his hands up like.....wat up. I just stood in front of the car,smile at him,and stared. After a while standing there I just shook my head No. Even though I really really really wanted to talk to him.
What is wrong with me and I really wanted to talk to the dude.Now I really regret that and I really want to talk to the dude now.
Well Do U Think He Would Still Want To Talk To Me???

What Is Wrong With Me??? and

How do I Talk to This Dude???
*yes I am a teenager*

2007-11-24 16:20:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

of course he would still want to talk to you!
what is worng with you? you felt intimidated in situation and didnt want to talk to him becuase 1) you almost got hit by a car 2) you werent expecting him to be there 3) his friends were there.
how do you talk to him? i'd suggest walking up and saying hi and asking him what he's doing on the weekend / holidays/ over christmas or whatever. just start innocent conversation. you dont have to be sexy of ask him out, just chat. you never know, he may turn out to be a total freak, or he could be the best guy ever. you'll never know if you dont say hi!
good luck :)

2007-11-24 16:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by lolitablackhearts 2 · 0 0

Nothing is wrong with you , you just froze up. The best way to talk to a guy, is t go up to him when he is not by his friends. and make small conversation maybe about school, or a game. for instance woow our team has gotten better this year i thought about going to one of those games, see what he says. If that doesn't work just tell him how you feel honestly. Good luck

2007-11-24 16:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Neika N 2 · 0 0

It's probably a good thing not to take a chance approaching a car with three boys in it. If he likes you and wants to talk he will find the opportunity. Don't chase after him.

2007-11-24 16:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Liberty 4 all 2 · 0 0

Bring up the incident with the car almost hitting you next time you see him in school. Use it as a reason to talk to him.

2007-11-24 16:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by JOKER 2 · 0 0

well to tell u something similar happened to me all u do is talk to him again and if he asks why didn't u talk to him at that time just say that you had to go some where important at the time and had to run off. All that's wronmg with you is almost like peer presser you wanted to talk to him but his friends almost like people making you talk to some one and Yes he would want to talk to you again but if he doesn't you should know that he isn't the guy you really wanted to meet.

2007-11-24 16:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by pineapplegrl2242 1 · 0 0

Hmm.. obviously your gut said "No".. Try to really think hard on why you shook your head no. But I'm sure that if he wanted to talk to you once. he'll want to talk again. If not, then he is a loser. Just pursue it harder next time you see him! Good Luck

2007-11-24 16:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by LJ 2 · 0 0

well nothing is wrong with you!!!
i would of done the same thing!!!
maybe you were jst nerves!!!!
and if this DUDE likes you than he will
defanly talk to you agian(only if he has a good personalty)
if you want to talk to him jst go up to him and talk to him dont be nerves or if your really really nerves then you should rite him a note and tell him to w/b than soon it should turn into a good realsonship!!!
worked for me!!
hope i helped!!

2007-11-24 16:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nothing is wrong with you and yes, you can still talk to him. To catch him in the hall ways or during class and have your chat.

2007-11-24 16:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Erek L. 2 · 0 0

Well im a teen myself and there is nothing wrong with you we are girls and that is wat we do...but if you see him again just walk past him and if he want to talk to you he will...but if he wont you should walk you to him and say that you wanted to talk to me but i didnt talk to you b/c i had to be somewhere and now that im free we can talk (guys love it whrn you tell them you are/where to busy yo talk to them) and if he talk to you then you be good

2007-11-24 16:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bella D 1 · 0 0

okay calm down
i think you were very nervous
hey that happens
i would try to talk to him and be calm i know it's hard
and their is nothing wrong with you
take a deep breathe and go talk to him

2007-11-24 16:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 6 · 0 0

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