Singles & Dating - 15 November 2007

~The sun making its way upon your heart,
as the rays sing a lovely tune, sparkles in your
eyes, as slowly the day starts.
The warm breeze blowing tenderly upon your soul,
releasing your thoughts like a silken scroll.~

2007-11-15 05:49:49 · 20 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 3

help plz i am still freinds with her and her brother is like my best freind that i have ever had

2007-11-15 05:49:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been dating this guy on an off for about a year and a half. We have been getting alot closer within these past few months and i am thinking about taking it a little further ( boyfriend/sex). However i just found out that he may have possibly slept with the mutual friend who introduced us. She told one of my other girl friends that it happened and in turn my girl friend told me. He denies it wholeheartedly and in my heart i believe him. I am not naive, its just actions speak louder than words. He has spent numerous nights over my house (and vise versa) and has never pressured me for sex. He's very patient with me and respectful that i like to take things slow. Now we have never been exclusive and i am sure that he has had sex with other girls, which i dont care about...its just to do it with one of my friends is a no no. Basically im trying to get down to the bottom of it...i dont know who to believe....any suggestions on what i should do??

2007-11-15 05:46:58 · 19 answers · asked by iluvme 1

I love my bf very much, and we are engaged. We've been together for 8 months and the last couple of months I've learned some things about his personality that I dislike. I still love him, but I find myself not liking him very much as a person sometimes. He could easily be classified as an a--hole when it comes to how he treats people sometimes. And I never really had much of a problem with it because he never directed any of that towards me. Until recently, I've been seeing that a--hole behavior come out at home and I don't like it. I am a very laid back, non-confrontational person, which is what he described himself to be when we first got together. The truth is he is not that way at all. It is impossible for me to try to have any sort of discussion with him without him trying to turn it into an argument. He is very judgemental and pig headed, basically his way or no way. I am starting to feel it's not in my best interest to marry him. He's also controlling, opinions please

2007-11-15 05:46:21 · 11 answers · asked by Opinionated 2

my man is coming over 2morow and i want to sorprise him really good in a sexy way . what do u guys wuld like your girls to do to you? be ditaled please.

2007-11-15 05:45:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are seeing someone and something doesnt seem right, like you don't think someone is being honest with you. Do you trust your basic instincts?

2007-11-15 05:44:50 · 14 answers · asked by sandy 2

I don't have his number or email anymore. We lost touch when I went away for school. He is moving back to the states in a few months but I'm worried he may hook up with this mean, scary, manly woman when he comes back. How should I prepare so that I can get him back when he comes home?

2007-11-15 05:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by BananaPancakes 2

Do you think it is good to be friends or just know someone really well and then date them?

2007-11-15 05:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by T-pain's gal <3 ♥ 1

2007-11-15 05:41:24 · 24 answers · asked by sbigdog1963 2

I fell in love with my girlfriend, and I thought she was in love with me until today. Everything was great a week ago. Everything that's happened led me to believe she wanted to be committed. She had quit her job, and applied for an internship, but she found out this week that they didn't accept her. So she's been depressed, says her life has no direction, etc... And today she said she didn't know if she loved me or not. I sense that she wants to let me go. She says she's not used to having a "good" relationship and has never been in love before (she's 27, I'm suprised at that), used to being single (even though she hated it), so she doesn't know what she feels. I understand she's unsure with her life, but I don't know why that extends to our relationship. I've only tried to support her and be there for her.

I don't know what to do. I don't want to break up, neither of us did anything wrong. I love her, but now I'm not sure if she loves me back. It's driving me crazy.

2007-11-15 05:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by redguard572001 2

What is it about flowers that girls like so much? Why do we expect them for dates and dances? They just die and there expensive...

2007-11-15 05:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by Sara 1

ok so i really like this girl who has been my closest freind for like 4 years but now i wanna be more than freinds how do i transition?

2007-11-15 05:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17. My mom doesn't care that he is 17. She use to like him but just out of the blue she starts to not like him no more. Not only does she not like him but my friend (only one of them) don't like him either because she says he is not "her" type. What should I do I love him to much to break up and my mom and my friend Kellee are the only ones that don't want me dating him. He treats me good. Never hurt me. He gets along great with the rest of my family (espically my little sister). He likes my mom it's just she don't like him. I don't know why...

2007-11-15 05:26:38 · 34 answers · asked by briannanicole 2

i have been dating someone for a few weeks, and things have been amazing. he is funny, caring, smart, helpful, thoughtful, and good looking. we have amazing times together and had been spending a lot of time together. he had just gotten out of a four year relationship (but that past year has been on and off) with another girl. she still calls him and is very persistant about getting back together.

one night he told me that he had went and met her for a drink and talked with her. the next day i told him i wasn't comfortable with that and that he needed to make a choice either stop talking to her or i would stop talking to him. he choose to stop talking to her and keep talking to me.

a week past, and we had spent every single moment together it was great. then came monday and he told me he finally talked to her and it was hard.

he said he is unsure of what to do. he ulitmately said he wants to date me and things to move forward, but i am worried. what should i do?

2007-11-15 05:22:49 · 27 answers · asked by miss23 1

i was helping my bf move and ever since we got together he's always had posters of hooters calander girls and stuff like that on his walls, and it kind of bothers me and he knows it but doesn't understan why...anyway he said that he had to make sure that they were the first things to be moved into his new room, so i looked at him and said what, am i not good enough, and his answer was.." no you are, but if i had a poster of you in a bikini looking sexy, then i wouldn't need the other ones, because i would always have you with me." So what im thinking is making a really sexy poster of me and giving it to him for Christmas, is it a good idea or not, oh and we've been together for almost two years, i think he would like it but i want a second opinion.

2007-11-15 05:13:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy almost 2 months ago and we went on a couple dates and have been hanging out almost every other day since. A couple weeks ago I asked him what we were and he said he didn't know but he couldn't put a label on us because he doesn't want to feel like he has to call me every day and he's been screwed over in the past by his ex girlfriend (which has been quite a while since they broke up) Anyways, we've been sleeping together and had a conversation where he said he would feel guilty doing anything w/ any other girls. He's been calling me a lot more since then as well and has been very sweet. However, I really would like a commitment from him at some point. I feel like we are basically "boyfriend/girlfriend" just don't really have the title. I know this isn't exactly EXTREMELY important to have but I guess...what should I do? Should I bring it up again or wait for him to do it? I don't want to be strung along without any exact commitment. What do you guys think?

2007-11-15 05:08:33 · 5 answers · asked by shoegirl 1

Do you have big hands, matching many guys, or does your s/o have small hands? What is the size difference?

2007-11-15 04:59:30 · 30 answers · asked by footsizer 4

i've been talking to this guy for about 2 months now. the 3rd time we hung out we ended up making out. he held my hand and hugged me alot that night. we text each other and one time i asked if he picked up on any chks he sed he saw sum hot ones but didnt bother cuz he thought about me. he wanted to hang out again but i was buzy so i sed next time. he said oK. i told him bye and to take care and he responded with a K, u 2 and Muagh! i asked him wht Muagh was and he said a kiss. he also one time told me he doe'snt really like relationships =/ i never asked Y. maybe i shld... so yea do you thnk the dude likes me or am i just another hot girl on the list?

2007-11-15 04:46:22 · 6 answers · asked by Wildthing 2

So I've been out of a relationship for almost 4 months.. And the relationship was only 5 1/2 months and a lot happened in the realtionship.. Then my best friend and her boyfriend broke up so I spent my summer comforting her which eventually ended up with him telling me we drifted apart and that we needed to break up then he called me back 10 minutes after that and asked me if I was okay.. then I just got mad and snapped at him and hung up on him he called me right back saying "i was just calling to let you know that i still love you.." and he said we can work it out and get back together.. but its been 4 months .. he says he just isnt in love with me anymore and all that stuff.. then recently i found out he had sex with another girl.. I'm still completely in love with this guy.. And I don't know what to do..


Please help.

Please.

2007-11-15 04:45:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-15 04:31:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this ex-girlfriend. We did not have real 'love' between us, just mutual respect. When she transfered to a different city, we agreed that it was over between us (amicably, I thought). We however stayed in touch by phone. Then, unfortunately, I transfered to the same city as her. We would meet once in a while, and yes, have sex (for old times sake). She knew of my fiance who I had left behind in my former city.
After meeting two or three times, I started noticing extreme jealousy and possessiveness in her. One day I discover she had somehow managed to get my fiance's phone number and called her and told her to leave me alone. From that day I told her to get out of my life completely. She agreed she would. Now she's seriously stalking me. She has even discovered my new workplace yet I had never even hinted to her. She keeps calling wanting us to meet. How do I completely get rid of her, without having her do something stupid?

2007-11-15 04:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by TiEL 2

me and my ex broke up, and i see him hangin on gurls at school.i miss him alot and we still talk but its not the same. he still tells me that he loves me and that he cares about me, but does he mean it? the reason we broke up was because he cheated on me with one of my friends, but then they broke up cause me and her found out that he did that to me. she apologized and said that he told her that me and him broke up even though we didn't. so i asked around and told him that i still cared about him, and then i found out from her that she told him that she would give him SEX......!!!!!!she told him that she would give him sex.!!!!!!..so then we got together and me and him started hanging out again and he wants to get back together. so my question is should i say yes to him or not.i mean would he cheat on me again?And should i be able to trust him?

Sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-15 04:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by tricia f 2

Would you ... any place or any time of the day, if your craving took over.

2007-11-15 04:25:26 · 30 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3

2007-11-15 04:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

me and my boyfriend got engaged on friday we have been going out for 1 yr 8 months but this girl who works at his place stills bothers me she has been trying to cause trouble between me and my partener for a year now flirting with him giving me dirty looks threating me he has told her he aint interested but she is still trying, its his xmas do soon and she keeps telling him not to bring me which i am going and im scared that she is going to try something that night and im going to lose my rag with her and play rigth into her hands and all his work friends will c she is right that im jealous of her which i aint just dont like what she is doing she is engaged to someone and is nt bringing him to the do as she said if my partner dont bring me it makes it easier for her to crack on to him please help as i dont want to show him up infront of his work mates or myself and us not to fall out and give her the satisfaction how do i control myself

2007-11-15 04:18:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, if two people meet on the internet or in a bar or just hanging out in the streets, and they decide to have a "fun time", is that legal? Because people make such a big deal out of Prostitution and making it illegal, but that's just the same as a man going into a bar and getting a girl for a one night stand. So why is "hooking up" not illegal? Is it just the fact that the IRS doesn't get any money out of the prostitutes?

2007-11-15 04:16:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

not sure if this helps in your comments but i am a 23 year old women

2007-11-15 04:13:46 · 6 answers · asked by Beautiful - 6

So my bf and i had an argument last night over him wanting to live a "normal" life, whatever that means. He thinks he should not have to be restrained from talking to other girls, exes as long as it doesnt jeopardize OUR relationship. He says it's harmless, but i think he's full of s***. I mean who does that? If you wanna be in a committed relationship then how is it ok to talk to other girls as long as he's not doing anything. I mean am i just thinking too much about this, or what? It's just frustrating that's all...

Your advice will be appreciated...no smart comments please, there's no need.

Thanks

2007-11-15 04:12:05 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 7 weeks but we were friends before that for about 5 years.

My grandmother died last night and the funeral is on Saturday in Atlanta (we live in Tampa, FL).

She has the whole weekend off, and I think I would like her to be there but I am confused.

Should I take her to the funeral, or no?

On the one hand, I know that I want something long term with her, and she feels the same, and I think this would bring us closer overall.

On the other hand, she isn't going to know anyone and I'm not sure if it is too soon to emmerse her in something of this magnitude.

What do you think??

2007-11-15 04:11:36 · 21 answers · asked by TopherM 3

what do females do in the restroom
Why do they always go in pairs and come out in pairs

2007-11-15 04:04:23 · 15 answers · asked by Tevyne T 1