Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17. My mom doesn't care that he is 17. She use to like him but just out of the blue she starts to not like him no more. Not only does she not like him but my friend (only one of them) don't like him either because she says he is not "her" type. What should I do I love him to much to break up and my mom and my friend Kellee are the only ones that don't want me dating him. He treats me good. Never hurt me. He gets along great with the rest of my family (espically my little sister). He likes my mom it's just she don't like him. I don't know why...
2007-11-15 05:26:38 · 34 answers · asked by briannanicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her why.. But yeah my mom is like that too about all my boyfriends. N i dont wanna go der wit my dad.. ha ha But seriously if u like they guy den stick with him. Screw what other ppl think. If you like him then thats all that matters. Talk to ur mom abt it tho coz it seems a lil weird that out of the blu she stopped likein him. So ask her.
2007-11-15 05:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom, and your friend, also, may have other reasons for trying to discourage your relationship other than merely not liking him. Your mom may feel you are getting too serious at your young age, and your friend may just be a little jealous. Your mom's feelings are legitimate, and she is concerned for your welfare and happiness, even though it may seem just the opposite. Your friend's motives may not be all that sincere, but maybe she knows something you don't know about him. In any event, I also think you're too young to get too serious about a boy right now, and I'd suggest that you keep things on a friendly basis, but not get too hooked on one guy. While you may not believe it, you're going to be in love many times until you find the one and only. I was 15 once myself, and not only the hormones, but the emotions can be very, very intense. And your mother's feelings are not out of the blue. She's got every right to look out for you. Trust me on this one -- mothers really do know best. Good luck!
2007-11-15 05:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom MUST have a good reason not to like him...she would not "all of a sudden stop" liking him. Sit down and TALK to your Mom and find out why she feels the way she does. LISTEN to what she has to say....then, tell her how YOU feel...state your case...you will ONLY resolve this between you if you TALK TO EACH OTHER...communication is the "key"...trust me...ask her to tell you what it is about him she doesn't like. Sometimes, adults have a "second sight" when it comes to stuff like this because we have already lived through what you are living through...and we have life experience to draw from, whereas your life experience is very limited by the sheer fact you haven't lived all that long, yet.
So, NEVER think Mom or Dad doesn't understand...oh YES we do! It hasn't been that long since we were your age...
One thing I found to be so very true...The older I get, the smarter my Mom gets.....
Talk with her hon...she may have some VERY valid reasons for feeling the way she does.
2007-11-15 05:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Toots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a serious discussion about it. Ask her to list the reasons why she does not like him. Try not to get emotional and listen to what she has to say seriously. Remember that Mom loves you and just wants the best of everything in life for you. If you don't agree with her reasons, then tell her why. I am sure something must have triggered her sudden dislike of him. Maybe something he said or just that she got to know him better and discovered some character flaws, etc...
2007-11-15 05:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't just decide one day not to like someone. Ask them what happened for them to stop liking him. Sometimes it's easier to see the big picture when your on the outside of the relationship. Love can be blinding. If you decide to break up with him, your 15 this is probably not the guy you will end up with anyways.
2007-11-15 05:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by crash✺test❤kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can learn at your age is the beauty of honest communication. Talk with your mom in a respectful and honest manner. Ask her why her attitude has changed. Let her know why you care so much for this boy.
As for your friend, it's none of her business... who cares if he's not "her" type?! That's why YOU'RE dating him! lol
2007-11-15 05:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. This is curious. Because not only does your MOTHER not like him, your best friend doesn't either.
Are yo usure there is no reason BOTH of them should not like him? Has he been shady int he past or said something inappropriate?
90% of the times, mothers are usually right so I say ask your mom straight up what she doesn't like about him.
Or it could be she is jealous that her baby girl is spending all her time with this dude.
2007-11-15 05:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and ask her (your mom) why she doesn't like him and what can the two of you (you and your man) do to changer her mind. Stay with him if its who you want to be with. As for your friend saying "He's not my type." Well GOOD because YOU'RE the one daying him, not her. She's probably just jealous.
Good Luck.
2007-11-15 05:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what ur going thru because i have that same issue.my ex-bestfriend never liked him and my mom has an issue here and there. but you know what, its your heart and your feelings!!!if hes not your type,its fine because sometimes opposites attract.
me and my boyfriend are sooo opposite and in astrology im an aries and hes a capricorn.(that means were not compatible). but were stiil together.
your fam and friend should respect you enough to make your decisions and be happy for you.you dont choose who you love.at any age.
2007-11-15 05:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Diane A♥♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down w/mom and find out why she has changed opinion on boyfriend. Discuss things...there must be a reason. And it doesn't matter if he is friend type or not.
2007-11-15 05:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by tone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋