Singles & Dating - 15 November 2007

My best friend wanted to finish a beer one day while I left for work. I said it was cool and she said she would only be another 10 minutes. My boyfriend had just gotten home at that time also. I felt a little wierd about it, but went to work anyway. I called TWO hours later and she was still here. I found out later that night that she wantde more beer and they went to the store together to buy some. So, she stayed when she told me she was leaving. My boyfriend didn't even bother to try and get her out( saying he had to take a shower or go somewhere.) He suppose to go to a counseling session and instead stayed here with her. Am I right to feel angry with both of them?

2007-11-15 07:48:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-15 07:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by zoee_d 4

But he's coming back before Christmas.

2007-11-15 07:46:28 · 11 answers · asked by jamaicanmilkdud 1

ok this fat girl just started hitting on me.

im taking this as an insult, cuz if i was hotter she wouldnt have had the guts to.

am i right?

2007-11-15 07:44:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

do all men think of other girls when having sex? because my bf said sometimes when he wants to hurry up a *** he'll think of other girls. not girls he knows just girls!!!!

2007-11-15 07:43:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there is this guy, lets call him K. never ever talk to him once, but he knows me. ( my friends asked. ) today, my friends told him i liked him and he didnt say anything. them and the whole class asked him again and he said, " who is that. " and then he knew. and then he didnt respond. now im the center of attention, everyone knows and asks, and it makes it soo akward even more to be around him and i yelled at my friends too! so now one of them arent talkin to me. what do i do?? ( about friend and about boy and about classmates!) i need thorough advice not just a sentence thanks!

2007-11-15 07:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend has a boyfriend who is literally physcho! he needs help and she comes to me for advice.. i dont know what to tell her! he got kicked out of his house and now he is staying at his aunt and uncles! yesterday he kept yellin at her and he like turned the car off at like 30 mph and messed the car up and was like holding the wheel so she couldnt turn! but his dad doesnt want her to leave him just yet but she says she wants him out of her life! should she leave or stay with him? what do i tell her??

2007-11-15 07:39:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 17 year old female (turning 18 in 3 months). Would it be okay to date my friend's cousin, who just turned 24. We do share many things in common, such as our love for ping pong, video games, etc. Is this normal, or is there to much of an age difference?

2007-11-15 07:36:33 · 21 answers · asked by hildegard von frankchesterville 1

cuz i have both a lifted offroad truck and a quad...is it all just bs? or is it an actual turn on?

2007-11-15 07:28:51 · 11 answers · asked by ilivedevili 1

I am 21 years old, single, 105 pounds, 5'3, fit, and white.
Where are all the nice, decent, successful men? Where do you meet people (besides the club!)

2007-11-15 07:26:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He also asked that I get my hair done,make sure that our 14 month baby is looking special.He asked me last night that did I get something to wear to the thanks giving dinner,I said not yet,he said why?What do y'all make of this?

2007-11-15 07:24:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a member of a few of internet dating agencies and I notice that every year around the winter season I seem to get more emails from the ladies than at any other time. This has been happening for the last couple of years and it got me wondering if women are more sexually aroused or seeking love around this time of year???

Maybe im looking into it too much but can somebody offer a logical explaination.

2007-11-15 07:23:10 · 19 answers · asked by Karl L 3

2007-11-15 07:22:15 · 24 answers · asked by Samantha 2

ight..... have a gf n ive had her for about a week n at first i jus loved making out wit her n cuddling but then tha past 2 days.... i jus think about hangin out wit her n making out n it jus doesnt do nethin for me... its like i totally lost interest in girls.



i think of bein wit another guy n i jus dnt feel tha need to or i think of doin stuff wit a guy n i relly dnt feel nuthin either


i jus y dnt i get nuthin outta bein wit a girl nemore?

can this mean im gay cuz like its always on my mind of me thinkin im turnin gay n it jus scares me cuz i dnt want to be gay at all


i need help pleeeez

2007-11-15 07:19:18 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex (Shawn) started dating a year ago tomorrow. I've a crush on him well about 14 months. I really miss him. It seems that he likes me stilli'm not sure. I asked one of his friends that i want to tlk to Shawn tomorrow at lunch...I dunno if he'll remember but i hope so. All i want 2 say is that i luv him and i'll never forget him. Not exactly like that, but along those lines. i hop e that i can get back with him. I wrote this note just incase i can't say it 2 his face:
hey shawn, if ur reading this it proabaly means i can't say it 2 u in person. K, i noe that i bugged u last year. I just want u 2 noe i'm srry. i honestly don't blame u 4 breaking -up with me. i really miss u and i want 2 go out wit u agen. if u say no, i completely undersdtand. I've tried to get over u, but i can't. K...this might creep u out but i'll always love u adn ur my 1st love. i'd do any thing to get back with you. i thoti got over, but it's preety obviosus i didnt.
is that is ok? Plz gimme advice!

2007-11-15 07:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever since i could remember i have had an extreme hatred of old people they fing suck not only does all of thier breath smell like white rice some of them even wear diapers in an attempt to look young. Once you reach 40 you shouldnt even have the option of living

2007-11-15 07:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Almost every girl I know that talks about their ex in a negative way always complains about how small their penis was. It's always I couldn't feel it and I can feel a tampon or the just point to some guy in public and start talking about how small it was. First of all I don't care. Second, who would date you if that's how you are going to treat them after you break up?

2007-11-15 07:11:17 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy, we kinda dated, but weve liked eacother for a really long time. we hungout a lot last month, and kissed and stuff. well anyway, about 2 weeks ago, we said how we kinda dont feel the same anymore, like the sparks went away, and he tells me how he isnt ready to be in a serious relationship. i was really pissed, but im better now. but now hes talking to one of fis exs again, and idk whats going on with them, but he ignores me. and its really werid. we used to talk everyday and everything, and now its like were fighting or something? but were not. its just he walks right by me in school, doesnt say anything, and sometimes, when i have to take the bus, and hes on it, we used to always sit together and now he passes by me, and doesnt say hi or anything. i dont get it. is this normal? why is he ignoring me? (were seniors, not little 8th graders lol, just so you know) thanks

2007-11-15 07:08:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hate when people say they cheated because they didnt get enough sex or something was lacking in the relationship. THEN BREAK UP!

i was with a man who did lots of shady things im prettu sure he cheated and i was so miserable being with him (im not with him anymore) but at the time soooo damn miserable because of everything he was doing i never resulted to cheating even if he did. So my beliefs, its never the persons fault they are with what happened to communication" this is what i dont like in out relationship lets fix it" not enough sex? say something, i dont think it is ever the person they are withs fault they cheated.

what are your thoughts on this?

i think people who cheat are unhappy. BUT WITH THEMSELVES!

2007-11-15 07:06:25 · 6 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

I've been alone for about 2-3 years and its starting to finally phase me. I just haven't put time into it since my last situation. Now, I wanna try again but am nervous and kinda shy. I also am naturally soft-spoken, so breaking my own shell seems to be my big problem.
Any tips? thanks.

2007-11-15 07:03:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to get my girl friend a going away present, as she leaves for Ireland in a little over a month. I thought something that would be really helpful when she is over in Ireland, but I am striking out with ideas.
Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance

2007-11-15 07:01:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone else out there feel like you prefer to be alone?
I will aadmit that i feel very lonely and I wish I had someone that I could be with. I do have friends and I can be very fun and loud and obnoxious around them, but as soon as they ask me to go out or show interest in spending time with me I get scared and I make excuses. I feel so threatened at the prospect of letting others close to me or allowing them into my world.

I am twenty four years old and this has been going on pretty much since highschool and it has gotten much worse since then. It seems like all of my friendships with people are slowly dissolveing with people because of this. I don't want to wake up one day and be eighty years old and realize I've spent my entire life this isolated.

Is this at all normal? Does anyone else ever feel this way?

2007-11-15 06:50:20 · 5 answers · asked by its.just.me 1

Sorry...I just had to do it.....

2007-11-15 06:36:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a great BF in a long distance relationship for over 4 years, I havent seen him in over a year but we'll see each other one weekend this next december.

I am in Belgium and he is in California, but things don't end there, here I met a guy who I felt had a lot in common with, we started dating and I told my BF in california who took it very natural but told me that he'd stick with me because he loved me.

My new bf in belgium dumped me and I was alone and sad calling my Bf in cali to tell him about my break up, his advise?! I love u so you're not alone; I can't get over the belgian guy but deep inside I think it's because I feel tremendously lonely here and he brought me a lot of warmth and love but at the end broke my heart.

Now I am HORRIFIED of loving again because this pain hurts a lot and my belgian BF does not want me, but the cali one wants me but I dont think I love him.... what should i do? I dont want to be alone but Im scared of loving again, should I stick to cali BF?

2007-11-15 06:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-15 06:22:13 · 26 answers · asked by Ariella 1

Where can we go to ensure we have a great night! : )

2007-11-15 06:22:09 · 8 answers · asked by dolly 3

I've been in a relationship for 5 years, living together for 2 years. We've definitely had our share of ups and downs, but I really feel like we're meant to be. A few weeks ago, a woman who works with us started hanging out with us, which I didn't mind, she's fun to be around and we all get a long. Last week, Jay went to her house to watch a football game, (I'm not into sports) and ended up not coming home and would not answer the phone all night long. They said they'd got to drinking and didn't want to drive home. I let it go. Last night she came over with another friend and i ended up going to bed because I had to work in the AM. I came down to them sitting very close on the couch about midnight. I said it was late and she left. This AM when I confronted jay he said he didn't know if he wanted to have sex with her, but that he loved me and wanted to be with me only. This is a five year relationship that I'm not wanting to give up for someone we've known 2 months, help.

2007-11-15 06:22:02 · 8 answers · asked by joline 2

If guys ask/like girls to shave then why shouldn't they have to shave theirs too if thats what the girl asks/likes?

2007-11-15 05:59:29 · 47 answers · asked by Kris 5

I don't take it seriously anymore, but i'm getting fed up with it. She keeps breaking up with me 'cause i won't go with her to any of her family things. She doesn't seem to care i don't care for her family, and that i have nothing to do there. She insists she wants me to share in HER life, but why can't she see it's HER life, not mine? She isn't even giving importance to the fact that for anything else i will be with her, just not when her family or friends are involved.
What should i do?

2007-11-15 05:59:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i figure when he doesn't answer he's saying come over. He has asked me to stop just popping up at his house for like 6 months straight but he always lets me in when i do then doesn't want me to leave. But we have this strange thing like he doesn't like to ask me to come & see him so I can later say yeah u can't leave me alone...Am i reading into this wrong - does he not answer cause he doesn't want to talk to me or see me or because he wants me to pop up so it's like i loose & i came after him

2007-11-15 05:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous