So I'm a 20yo college student who has been going out with my first boyfriend for 4 months. We've made out, but haven't gone farther. I want to stay a virgin till I'm married, and he's very supportive and cool about that - doesn't pressure me at all. My concern is that I might get to be too tempted and change my mind before I get married, just because of hormones and not because it's the right thing to do. I've looked up a couple sites about staying a virgin till marriage, and most of their practical recommendations are useless to me. I.E., not being in a place alone with the other person - I do college homework every day at his place, and there aren't many other convenient places to do it. Or not doing anything more than a chaste kiss - I've already made out with him, and don't exactly plan to stop, although we are really careful that our relationship isn't primarily about making out. So, supposing I stay with this guy long-term, does anyone have any good tips?
2007-11-15
13:42:25
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