My boyfriend and I have only been together for two months. He's wayyyy more experienced than I am and he knows it. I'm a total freaking virgin lol. And lately he's been trying to go further than usual. So How do I tell him I want to wait?
2007-11-15 13:46:08 · 9 answers · asked by janedoe1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, you are your own boss! I imagine you are still young, a teenager?? so your bf should understand that and not pressure you. You could start of with the subtle approach and just go as far as you are comfortable and then kinda pull back, then he should get the message... otherwise you may need to be more assertive and tell him straight up that your not ready to go as far as he is. If he really wants you for who you are he will understand and wait till you are ready.
Good on you for seeking advise xox
2007-11-15 13:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not rush into sex just yet. Tell him you're not ready for it. If he doesn't like it and dump you for other girls then you know what he really wants. He just want to get between your legs. Nothing wrong in being a virgin. Just keep your dignity intact till you're certain he is the one you want to crack your virgin..having sex is not an option to keep your boyfriend.
2007-11-15 21:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. Just let him know your not ready and if he takes it badly then hes a jerk. Wait till you feel the time is right.
2007-11-15 22:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him point blank. If he has a problem with it then it's his problem. And if he's wayyy more experienced, just tell him you need the space and time to get caught up. That should shut him up if he has any problems.
2007-11-15 21:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by OP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and say "no sex until we are married" and if he leaves then you know thats all he wanted and you would have gotten dumped anyway.
2007-11-15 21:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell him, he needs to know that... and respect your wishes.
2007-11-15 21:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ashton theKID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go up to him and you say that you want to wait.
2007-11-15 21:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Chris Hansen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him subtly if he doesnt take it well hes just horny and totally not worth it
2007-11-15 21:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by hollistersocallove13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up tell him...that what my girlfriend done..and i had no problem with it....good luck
2007-11-15 21:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by benterry86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋