My boyfriend and I got into this terrible fight last week. He doesn't like the fact that i have guy friends, which is the stupidest thing i've herd. Out of nowhere he called me a '****** whore.' I got really mad and said some things I probaly shouldn't have said, i know i humiliated him bad. Anyways the problem is that he got mad and he actually slaped me across the face. Me being the girl i am hit him with my palm straight into his nose and walked out. i think i left him shocked.
Anyways i didn't talk to him this entire week and he's been leaving me messages in my phone saying how sorry he was, and how he deserved me brusing his nose (I do agree with him on that one.)
I don't know what to do. He's never been a violent person and i think the only reason he got mad was becaus he thinks one of my friend like me as more than a friend.
What should i do i can't avoid him for ever, but i don't really think i can get back together with him.?
2007-11-15 14:47:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't even finish reading the first paragraph and I know he's a d!ck. Girl you know you deserve better so why ask. Dump him because their many more fishes in the sea. But you should call the cops now because he's doing domestic violence and hurting your pride as a woman. If you don't want to call the cops, its fine but you MUST CALL when he's stalking or harassing you. Your safely over a a$$hole.
2007-11-15 15:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by icesnoopy129 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should definitely leave him. Couples will fight, but his immaturity shows by hitting you. His feelings might have been hurt or his pride dented, but a REAL man (age is irrelevant) would never strike a woman.
You can forgive him, but it's not a good idea to continue ANY relationship with him (friend or otherwise). People tend to show their true character when they're angry. What'll hapen the next time he blows his stack? Besides, could you be a friend to someone that called you a "****** whore"? Even if one of your friends does like you a li'l more than he should, he should step to the guy he's concerned about and ask him straight. If he wants to get mad and hit somebody it should be the guy he's worried about.
Lucky for him that you're not my daughter, I'd show him what it's like to be slapped around. Then I'd turn him inside out :-)
2007-11-15 15:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by A.J. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not good at winning a war of words with a woman unless he says some really mean dispicable sh!t, and if the woman says even meaner sh!t back then sh!t has officially hit the fan and since men usually want to get physical when they get mad a rel man that was raised never to hit or disrespect woman will just walk away and go cool off. just dont do nothing stupid like block his way, take his keys or touch him so he cant leave so many woman make this mistake instead of just letting they man go drink smoke or what ever he likes to do to cool off.
2016-05-23 08:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so right your should not get back with him, domestic violence is not something to be taken lightly, just this past April I knew a girl that lost her life to domestic violence, her boyfriend got mad at her and beat her to death with a table leg! After this incident I strongly advice every women that I can to leave relationships that is causing them physical pain and emotional pain, becuz once they start (hitting and verbally degrading ) it does not stop. It sounds like your a prettly tough and dont take no sh**, I know you have feeling for him but over time the feelings will pass, and eventually he will stop trying to contact you, just dont cave and talk to him.
Stay strong and smart, I wish you the best.
2007-11-15 15:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki from K-town 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he was wrong for puttin his hands on u n u were protectin yoself but u didnt have to hit him back but again i think u were rite...i personallly think he's insecure for callin u out yo name n for that he deserved wat he got...but i do believe dat hes sorry(maybe) n that if u feel that he deserves another chance cuz hes neva been that way before i would give it to him but some people would say he did it once he'll do it again but its all up to wat u feel is right. if u want to stay with him u do it if u think its not worth it, leave him n find something betta, the choice is yours
2007-11-15 14:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by alesha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break it off with him.
if he slaps you now, what happens if things go so far as marriage? will you let him slap you then to?
so go meet at a public place and tell him whats up and that you think you two dont work well together.
2007-11-15 14:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i say give him another chance me as a guy got into this problem too jealousy its really a big problem after all but you two need to talk things out and forgive each other if things get worse thats when you need to separate..
2007-11-15 14:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by omeng90 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guys is dangerous!!! If your fights turn into hitting each other, it's just not health!!! Come with me, I would treat you right, sweetheart!!!
2007-11-15 14:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. He probably thought you would never hit back, but if you don't think you can be with him, then leave him.
2007-11-15 14:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i no how u feeel but this guy is a jerk/ assssssssssss
u need to dump the guy how dare he slap a gilr!!!lmfao wow tht was gay
2007-11-15 14:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Rr R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋