I'm really scared to experiment.
2007-11-15 13:37:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not ready. Just wait. There are to many pregnant teens and diseases. Be safe. 1 of every 5 kids in your school statistacally has an std.
2007-11-15 13:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to tell. If you're 15 then you're not ready. Give it another three years. Sex is legal with an 18 year old girl not with a 15 year old.
If it's peer pressure that's not a good reason.
If you're horny and want to experiment buy some toys and do it yourself.
Boys your age like to brag to their friends. Everyone in school will know about it. Can your reputation survive that?
2007-11-15 21:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are giving you the image that everyone who has sex as a young adult drops out of school and gets pregnant. However thats not the case. I had sex when I was 14, and I was ready. I took nearly every possible precaution, I loved the person very much, and I will never forget it as a very special event in my life. I know my situation isn't the same for everyone, but I'm 20 now, have never been pregnant, I'm STI- free, in a very successful relationship, and am enrolled in college. People have different opinions of when they're ready. I suggest talking with your partner about what you would do if one of you (if its a heterosexual relationship) got pregnant. Would you abort? What would your parents say? Try different, safer things. Erotic massage, mutual masturbation, oral sex with protection... Take it slow, and research contraceptive methods. Make sure you can talk about it openly with your partner, thats a big sign of knowing when you're ready. Also know that if you try it once, you don't have to do it again. Don't allow yourself or your partner to be pressured into doing anything you're not ready to do. Society tells young adults that they should be having sex and that its normal, but the majority of people your age are not having intercourse. Try talking with some adults, if not your parents, maybe an aunt, uncle, teacher, etc. about it. They might be awkward, but just be honest that you're thinking about it. There's a lot to think about, and it's going to open a lot of doors. Good luck
2007-11-15 21:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Patti 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You answered your own question. You said you're really scared. That obviously indicates that you're not ready. Also, think about the consequences. What if the condom broke? Or the pill was ineffective? What if you wound up pregnant? Or got and STD? Think about it. Wait. You have your whole life ahead of you, so don't worry about sex.
2007-11-15 21:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it as an "experiment". I lost my virginity last year. Be very ready when you do it... not because you just want experiment it ok. Good luck. There are a lot of other important things than sex at your age.
2007-11-15 21:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Cosita_Rica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not an experiment. You're not doing it for scientific purposes, are you?
You're not ready for sex unless you're willing and able to do it responsibly and you're willing and able to deal with the potential consequences from having sex (babies, STDs). You're only 15, so you're nowhere near ready.
2007-11-15 21:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. some people have aharsh things to say. but honestly they are right. i lost my virginity this year and i am 16/.. i thought he was the right one and we would last a long time and now were broken up and i regret it. your still to young and your virginity is precious. you should save it and be abstinance ... give it up to the guy you marry bcuz by then all those thought and question if you are ready will fade away and you will have no qestion in your mind at all that he is the right guy... as for now. dont let anyone pressure you into it and enjoy life as it is
2007-11-15 21:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by kaycee says; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a 15 year old i can say im SO NOT READY!
but if you feel like your being pressured by anyone , don't do it okay? Once you love someone and want to be with them forever then you know your ready.
2007-11-15 21:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by zoey101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've found the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with and are financially and emotionally ready to take care of any babies you could make. No birth control is 100%, and you can still get STD's even with condoms.
2007-11-15 22:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you remember when you were little and someone may have given you 20 dollars to spend somwhere fun. Do you remember how disappointed you felt when you had spent all your money? That will be exactly it. But the feeling will last much longer. Besides, whoever you do it with, will probably just disappoint you because it won't be as important to them. Besides, then there is nothing to look forward to.
2007-11-15 21:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋