I hooked up with this guy i liked, and he is (pretty much) in it for the sex.
We talk like friends and everything, but he made up some lame excuse about not wanting to date because of break-ups etc.
(i think he's just saying he doesn't want to actually date me in general...)
So should I continue to hook-up(fool around) with him till' I get bored or try to find another guy that likes me(kinda hard)?
Or say that if he doesn't want the responsibility's of dating, then he can't have me?
(he's not like disrespectful when we go places btw)
Any opinion helps!!
2007-11-15 13:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People, no penetration is occurring(ever!) and we are free of STD's.
I'm a little surprised how much everyone is looking down on hooking up.
2007-11-15 13:43:11 · update #1
i think that you should totally leave this guy and find a guy to actually date so you can fall in love...i know its hard to find someone you really care for but you should really live everyday like its your last day on earth...dont you want love and happiness in your life??
2007-11-15 13:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by JONAS BROTHERS LUVER! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as you both have agreed that it is just a hook up, and you both respect it for what it is and are honest if the feelings start to change and if the sexxx is really good then there is no problem{and use protection so there are no lil surprises to ruin your good time}, you get yourself sexually fulfilled and you both can still pursue the real thing should it come a long. Ignore all the comments you are gonna get about being a whore. Women need to have their needs met just like men. It is not OK for us to sit and wait while the men get to go out and do whatever/whomever they want and it is OK. HA! Go for it but keep it real, have fun!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-15 13:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by inkgddss 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a close friend of mine. You never know a persons reasons unless they tell you, as for the guy I know, he had a girlfriend who he loved in high school. When they went to college she broke his heart and that was it. He never really got over her and he basically turned into a man whore. These guys are usually straight forward and make sure you know they do not want a relationship. They mean what they say and in reality do not want to hurt you. Maybe you will grow on him and he will learn to accept and love you. For now be friends as long as the feeling associated with hooking up does not destroy what you have now.
2007-11-15 13:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by james g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be used as a disposable flush down the toilet human sex toy hon?
Dont you have ANY self esteem at all?
No self control?
Are you THAT desperate for affection?
You are running the risk of getting pregnant or getting a disease , WHILE making a reputation as an "easy whore" and then sex is all ANY guy will want from you and then use you and dump you at will.
GOD loves you hon, quit doing this to yourself before you end up messing up your life badly.
2007-11-15 13:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep dating him just to fool around than hes one lucky fellow. Well if you like him and you dont mind the sex than go for it. And while your doing that look for some other guy whose decent. haha just dont let them know that your doing that.
my friend says: your wasting your time. break up with im, if you do that your a slut, so let him go and go out with another guy.
2007-11-15 13:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything that goes on between 2 consenting adults is ok as long as those adults understand and accept the responsibility
2007-11-15 13:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer provide him the incorrect concept by ability of flirting returned. He has a female chum- admire that. in simple terms act friendly, yet no longer too friendly. And if needed, refer to him approximately it & tell him you in simple terms prefer to stay acquaintances.
2016-12-08 23:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iF YOU WANT TO DATE HIM BUT HE DOESN'T WANT TO DATE YOU THEN THERE'S A PROBLEM...And its not fair on you
If you were both happy to fool around for now without dating each other - that would be fine
If you are looking for a boyfriend.....then he definitely does not qualify!
2007-11-15 13:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind your body being used for someone's sexual gratification, knowing that you aren't sharing it with somebody who loves you and cares for you, do what you want.
2007-11-15 13:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is you a ho? i dont know why all you all is actin that way,, treat yoself betta than a piece a meat,,, i mean fo real,,,, what is this world comin too,,,get yourslelf checke for some aids and stds and then straighten yo *** up
2007-11-15 13:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by antwon from the 'hood 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋