Singles & Dating - 30 October 2007

What causes love? I need to know why love is so painful at times? Why do people fall in love so fast, and I am messing with three girls and they don't know about each other. The one I really love is far away so I have two other girls that are close to me, Why do I need to do this? Is it because I need attention?

2007-10-30 17:56:39 · 1 answers · asked by Curtis C 1

My boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half, and he is my 4th serious relationship, but I'm his first... When he and I first started dating it was different from all the others; I just "knew" he was the one! Now, a year later we are seriously considering getting engaged in the Spring. He and I have the same goals, interests, and enjoy the same activities, yet are pleasantly different, in a way I like. My problem is that as of late he has been getting on my nerves (we are currently long distance while I'm still in school). When I go there, we are fine, but when he comes here to stay with me and my 2 roomates he acts different, almost like he's trying to "show-off" and prove he isn't "whipped." It's little things that will get on my nerves like how he'll put his arm around me on the couch infront of everyone when I'm not in the mood to be touched and don't like to make my roomies feel uncomfortable. Is this normal or is this a sign? Because other than that he is A-Mazing!

2007-10-30 17:43:13 · 9 answers · asked by LizzyV 1

Well me and this guy went out not to long ago and i broke up with him like a dumb because i was lost but i still love him and he has a girlfriend but he told me he thinks about me all the time and he loves me to but he doesnt want to hurt the girl hes with and he doesnt really no what he should de but he told me to be patient and just wait untill he finds out what he should do. Should i wait ?? what do i do ??

2007-10-30 17:29:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

....and them also telling you of the stupid things they would do now and then, that you wouldn't do?

2007-10-30 17:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you know if a guy is serious about you or just wants to play games? Will they act different in both scenarios?

2007-10-30 17:17:21 · 2 answers · asked by person 1

ok long story short me and this guy ruined our chances of being together. he got a gf i got a bf.
Then i became single, and this guy was still flirting with me, trying to persuade me to hold on, as he was unhappy in his relationship
Recently things went a little to far..he didn't cheat, but he flirted a little too much, and told me that he loved me..
Now the guy has completley backed away, as he feels guilt.. and thinks that if he left his gf for me, then he wouldnt deserve true love

I have learnt to accept this and have let go, cos i want him to be happy.. But at the same time i am really pissed of that he lead me on for so long... And he has been lieing to his gf
What is your view on this?

2007-10-30 17:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend went into rehab, choice of jail or rehab court ordered .... i heard he's back at work this week and i'm curious if you think i should call him to see how he is or just leave him alone.
maybe he met someone new at rehab or maybe he wants to be alone.
i've never known him clean and sober, so he will be some brand new to me and i'm kinda scared to make the first move.
i think he is scared too.
what do you think ?

2007-10-30 17:14:39 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4

why am i attracted to (as i put it before) igNORANT selfish pigs?

2007-10-30 17:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by jojo 2

2007-10-30 17:11:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need help imma virgin and i would like to no how bad does it exactly hurt and how much does it bleeed. oh also those of u who are answering and are not a virgin could u help me like tell me exactly what will happen like the day after or while u are having sex.

**thanks in advance**

2007-10-30 17:07:22 · 42 answers · asked by ~**ThE oNe AnD oNlY**~ 1

This is a really seroiurs one!!!

2007-10-30 17:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Leanne R 1

me and my good friend like a same guy(this happen alot of time and it is usually me like the guy 1st)...i have already told the guy that i like him(i like bout months ago)...and my friend who just like him, get to know that i told him that i like him, tell him that she like him too!!! then...she would be sticking around him and speak bad bout me...saying that i bully her and stuff like that which is not true!!!

what should i do?
what do you think about her?

2007-10-30 17:06:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-30 17:04:59 · 8 answers · asked by Don't Give Up On Me 1

i dont know what to do with my life... i really love her... but she is pregnant with someone else's baby right now... im clueless

2007-10-30 17:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by King Diamond 2

In looking at some of the answers on here I have come to the conclusion that my feet {7.5 in mens} are smaller in fact alot smaller than a lot of women out there. How would you feel if you were with a guy and your feet were bigger?

2007-10-30 17:01:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is quite common that a girl says she wants a nice guy, but in the end, she ends up dating a jerk. Why is that ?

I, too, have been rejected in the past in favor for a jerk. Do I need to act like a jerk just to get girls ?

Thoughts and comments ?

2007-10-30 16:39:55 · 33 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4

I have a crush who teases around with girls but idk if he likes the populars, loners, tom boyz, or rebels. wut do guys like?

2007-10-30 16:39:28 · 8 answers · asked by Margo 1

Will I ever? I was lovestruck 2 times in my school, one who was average weight, and an average-joe girl, and I met another one, a super in shape muscular girl, who was still an average girl. I know both of them, one little more then the other, but they are both in grade 12. I was hoping they were in grade 9 (like me)

There is no girl I am attracted to in grade 9, even if they are the model looking ones that their goal is to look good, and I hate how they act. There is no girl in my entire school of grade 9 I like..

I know alot of you would probably say "oh you have your whole life. I was only deeply lovestruck with 2 girls (no including the one actress)

Will I ever find someone as I age? I am certainly thinking alot.

This, is a picture of the actress, on the left. This is probably one of the most beautiful pictures I have ever seem.

http://cache.viewimages.com/xc/1599077.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=17A4AD9FDB9CF1939057D9939C83F106B0FDAF5C74DA73925A5397277B4DC33E

2007-10-30 16:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of about six months is turning eighteen this month, and I want to get him an extremely special gift, without the extreme price tag. What would you suggest?

2007-10-30 16:37:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love her to death and my grandmother up in my face about my girlfriend and I've told her to f off. My girlfriend is a beautiful person. my parents are ok with it. Should i care what my grandmother says?

2007-10-30 16:29:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't tell my gf that I love her that often. Maybe once a week I'll slip it into a conversation. Don't get me wrong, I do lover...more than life itself!! But, I don't want to wear it off and plus I don't think she wants to hear it all the time. I think it make the guy come of as "soft" guy. Also, I think it means more when used less. The problem is that sometimes, I want to tell her so bad and don't which is painful...and other times I do tell her and don't get much of a reaction. What's up with that?

2007-10-30 16:26:14 · 31 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2

2007-10-30 16:25:41 · 14 answers · asked by jojo 2

So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. I just recently moved in with him and now we are fighting more than ever. Our fighting turns physical almost everytime and I always end up with bruzes. I try to leave but I can't stand the pain of it all. He just leaves and dosen't answer his cell. But when we get along it's great. He's out right now, not answering, and I don't know what to do. I hate sounding like a dumb girl but this as really painful. I thought I was stronger than this. My whole life is him. Or at least it was. How do I solve this? Will I ever get over it?

2007-10-30 16:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica S 1

have you ever thought about him/her 's smile..pretty eyes....
all day long ? before go to the bed.. while tryting to sleeping..

Damn ..its suck.....

2007-10-30 16:21:38 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPY 2

so this guy that i really like doesn't like me, so should i just go out with this guy who really likes me even though i don't really like him? i'm just sick of being alone and i'm kind of depressed.

2007-10-30 16:17:56 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so theres this girl i like and ive already talked to her tons aobut this and she likes me back.
we started talking but were also best friends.
so were not sure if its gonna work out between us.
i aslo dont want to ruin our friendship or screw up.(ive never had a date before)
oh and by the way were in the grade 9 year (14years old)

2007-10-30 16:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in 6th grade and boys dont really express there feelings that much! theres this boy that likes me and he even said that he does but he doesnt act like he does! and i like this other boy but if he doesnt express his feeling 2 then how will i know he likes me or not?!

2007-10-30 16:13:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-30 16:11:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive known this girl for like 2 weeks we talk I asked her to be my friend she said yeah I want to ask her out on a date but I dont want to pressure her or make her feel uncomterbal how do I do it ?

2007-10-30 16:04:50 · 31 answers · asked by what do I do 1

2007-10-30 15:56:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous