Singles & Dating - 30 October 2007

Can you be best friends with the person your in love with? Do you have to be? Should you be? Why? My friend and I were debating these question and i want to be some more views and reasoning behind them. Thanks.

2007-10-30 15:50:43 · 34 answers · asked by Jessie 1

ok so i made a mistake by touching my gf's butt in school. My gf;s bro. found out and then told her parnets. Now they hate me and i can't do anything w/ her. I'm serious. I can't even sit at like a table w/ her w/o her mom staring at me. making sure my hands stay above the table. everything is wrong and messed up. I can't see besides in school or school activities. It sucks ****. I really love my gf and i want to respect her word that i shouldn't talk to her parents. I really feel like i can change them. I'm a good negoitiator. I don't want her to get in trouble or it to get any worse but I just want to have a normal relationship w/ my gf. Now for the questions:
1) should I talk w/ her parents?
2) Do u think this can get better?
3) what should I do to show her parents I've changed? (don't say do stuff to show them bcuz I can't do anything around them?) I'm not very good at writing so yeah. it's kinda short. SO can u help me? PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ I'm begging u!!!!

2007-10-30 15:49:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always believed myself to be asexual due to my difficulty in keeping relationships and a sexually abusive childhood. And whenever guys try to be nice/flirt or look at me, it kind of pisses me off. However, this one guy, who is rather quiet, attractive, and smart but sadly friends with idiots ("popular" kids) has looked at me at me often, and instead of thinking 'take a pic it lasts longer' i actually don't mind it. And he's really sweet to me too. And it doesn't bother me. In fact, lately I've been curious to see if i can get his attention or not. That doesn't mean i can see myself having a relationship with him, but he makes me smile when i think of him. So what does this mean? That i might not be asexual after all? And if so, what do i do?

2007-10-30 15:41:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-30 15:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by Tina S 1

Okay, so i'm 14, in 10th grade in Highschool, and I had a long-weekend (last week). It was a friday afternoon, and i'm getting on my bus to go home, and of course you always have those bus buddies that you talk too. I was getting carried away and I had a pen in my hand from last period. I took it out and I noticed that it was broken and the ink could seep out if I tapped it; so that's what I did. I spread it all over the seats, but I was talking to my friends and not thinking about the outcome/effects of what I was doing.
The returning Tuesday, I get on the bus but the bus driver stops me and pulls me aside. She told me about the Pen incident and that it will all be unraveled on this coming Thursday. She said that whoever did it is eligible to being fined $600 dollars because she needs to replace the seat coverings. When I got off the bus she said that if whoever did it confesses, they could get out of the problem and not have to pay. What should I do? My dad will kill me!

2007-10-30 15:33:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do black women always treat the good brother like shite and the bad like kings.

2007-10-30 15:32:57 · 2 answers · asked by LAVORIC A 1

I am pretty sure I am in love with my best guy friend. He has a gf, and he says they are doing "ok"- meaning pretty good, but not great. She is selfish, and wants him only for herself; she tries to direct his attention only to her, and doesn't trust him. I want him to be happy- but not with someone like her.

See-- they had gone out for a long time, she dumped him because of a misunderstanding, and then figured it out. He showed he was obviously interested in me that way, and we were going to go out in the future, but when she started talking to him again I backed off, seeing them flirt all the time. That's when she asked him out and he said yes.

I now find myself wanting to talk to him all the time, wanting to know if he's happy.. some ppl (including her) think I'm stalking him. A long time ago I couldn't argue with that, but now I just think I want to protect him, and be by his side. And I don't get to see him as much since he goes to another school. (Sorry it's so long.)

2007-10-30 15:27:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy always recommends his favourite music to me. He has named bands, songs etc... He stares at me in class (I can always sense it, and my friend has told me so), and we have fun talking. And he would look at me whenever I'm around, like, he would just look. By the way, he's the funny guy at my school =P
So my question is... Would a guy share his passion with ANY girl? Or does he like me?

2007-10-30 15:26:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He sounded more keen for option b). This is a single guy I really like. What do you make of this?

2007-10-30 15:25:59 · 4 answers · asked by Leona 4

okay so i am asking this cuz i have a great bf and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me, i love him more then anuything in this world, i would do anything for him. but see here is my problem i am scared to give my heart to him. and the reason is cuz well everytime i trust a guy with my heart i get hurt BADLY. i just dont know wat to do, i have never felt like this for no guy should i stay with wat my heart is feeling or fight it?

2007-10-30 15:25:26 · 6 answers · asked by xxcolorado.cutiexx 1

there is this super cute boy i know and we have everything in common and are close enough to where people tell me every day that he likes me or vice versa but how do i know for sure...........

2007-10-30 15:18:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this guy who is my best friend. we practicily act like we are going out, we hug and share a blanket at football games, and flirt all the time. he likes one other girl but im not sure if he likes her more than me. i don't think so cuz we hang out a lot more and he acts like he likes me a lot. i am just waiting for him to ask me out he knows i like him and he told me he likes me. is he too afraid or just not sure? i am afraid that if i ask him out that it iwll make him avoid me or something. even though we are best friends and he likes me, what do you think is keeping him from asking me out? or should i just ask him?

2007-10-30 15:16:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend keeps getting mad at me.... I try my best not to screw up but i eventually do something... i need help

2007-10-30 15:15:09 · 35 answers · asked by Phillip S 1

Okay I recently spent a few days with a guy friend (who is more than just a friend). He didn't compliment me the entire time i was with him. I put a lot of effort into the way i looked. i am used to guys complimenting me... its positive reinforcement for the effort i put into looking good for the guy. I know he likes me... but a girl needs to hear that he likes the way she looks. a girl needs to be told she is beautiful. I guess I don't think he thinks i am pretty enough. the most i got was..."wow you look nice". I complimented him... but never got anything in return. He uses the word "beautiful" all the time.. when describing weather and stuff like that.. it makes me even sadder... i want to be beautiful to him. Why doesn't he give me compliments?

2007-10-30 15:14:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

For you current students and former students, how much did you see/do in your school in terms of PDA?

Did you see the acceptable limits pushed?

2007-10-30 15:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Heat 1

So theres this girl who after the day i met her, she became obsessed with me. Now when i say obsessed i mean obsessed! So much that her friends kept advising me to ask her out to our high school homecoming, bcos she kept telling her friends how much she thout i was hot and she liked me!
At the time, i didnt like her enough that i would ask her out, however i had nothing against her because she was a very nice person - which is how i started becoming attracted to her. As days and weeks went by she would keep questioning me as to whether i liked her or not, i wasnt sure so i kept saying 'yes i do'. It seemed like the more i like her the less attention she gave me, especially after i asked her out to homecoming.
At homecoming I spent $50 on her including her ticket. Everything was going smooth until we got there, she ditched me and that nite she txted me how she was sorry and she likes me but she thinks we're different, i told her i like her.
Can someone please explain this girl to me?

2007-10-30 15:07:53 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

k, theres this guy and i really dont like him , but he likes me....alot, its getting sooo annoying, and lately ive been acting sorta cold to him, you'd think he'd get the point, right? wrong, i think, he thinks, that im tryna play hard to get or sumthin....ughh how do i get him to leave me alone???

2007-10-30 15:03:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have dated the guy I'm with now for almost 5 years, we have already been through sickness and heatlh and through richer and poorer. We are so close now, he really is my best friend. He has even told me that he knows I'm "the one" and he knows that we will be together forever and he is so happy with me and I feel the same...but he has yet to ask me and there is no hint that he ever will. I don't want to force him to propose but should I keep waiting or what I've been thinking lately is asking him, my sister did that to her now husband-but I'm afraid he'll say no and I'll be crushed. Please help with any advice.

2007-10-30 14:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by dixiechick_sc 2

I get sooo nervous around men. This has been going on for years now. When I'm in a coffee shop and they look at me, I flinch, then I think oh they might think I like them, then I get so nervous. Having a guy sit in front of me? Forget it! Can you help me conquer this ONCE AND FOR ALL?
I will give you 100 points to someone who really helps me.
It has to do with, I get nervous around them to begin with, until, maybe, I hear them talk, either to me or other people about themselves.
My biggest FEAR is that they'll think I like them because I act so nervous around them, which isn't the case...because I don't. Help PLEASE ? Thanks!!!

2007-10-30 14:32:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19 and a virgin by choice. I recently started going out with a guy from my university and I really like him - hes funny, smart, friendly and good-looking - but only prob is he keeps pressuring me for sex. We've only been going out for three weeks! He says that i'm getting a reputation as a ****-tease and that he keeps getting really painful blue balls. Aside from this our relationship is great so far. Am I just being prudish or is it right to wait a bit longer until im sure hes the right guy??

2007-10-30 14:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by SunnyGal 2

i'm 15 and my parents wont let me date yet. because dating is for people who want to get married. so i've never kissed a boy either. and recently i've really been wanting to have my first kiss. it's really hard because i dont want to lose my parents trust. but i reall want this. what do i do?!?!? i've had a lot of guys flirting with me which makes it realllllly hard. what if someone asks me out? do i go behind my parents backs or tell him the truth or lie and say i already have a boyfriend??? i know the simple answer would be dont do it. but i want to do it. please help!

2007-10-30 14:24:41 · 16 answers · asked by amy 1

my boyfriend of two years treats me like a best friend more than a girlfriend and jokes around with me way too much HALF OF THE TIME! the other half he is loving

2007-10-30 14:14:19 · 36 answers · asked by aggie_in_pa 2

My ex and his new girlfriend won't leave me alone. I told him to leave me alone and don't leave me a comment on my 360 page anymore. What does he do? he goes to my friend's page and called me a Zac Efron's A** Kisser and told me to leave him and his stupid girlfriend alone. Do you forgive somebody who calls you that? Please be honest about this and no stupid or pervert answers! Thanks so much and I will check on this later! Bye!

2007-10-30 14:11:34 · 31 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7

if there was a girl who was drop dead gorgeous but had no friends or was friends with the "nerds" would you go out with her if a popular girl liked you but wasnt that good looking

always wanted to know this because as for myself
i would go out with the hot sexy man =]

2007-10-30 14:10:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my guy have been together 4 years. We are engaged. Recently he has asked for space. Not breaking up just time for him. He works all week and has to get everythign he wants to do and see me. I understand that. I am a lover I love to love and be loved. I may have been too clingy. Do you think he asked using the wrong word? Space has worried me to the point of I cant eat. I have broken down a few times. He would not be with me if he needs space right? Also I told him he could have a Sat to do what he wants which gives me only one day to see him. He just said he didnt want to get burnt out from being together all the time. Witch I think was all the clingy stuff. he said that would help the prob. Am I worring myself over nothign. He would be with me if he didnt wnat to . Also he call me and all the reg stuff. Do guys just get liek that. I am so worried . Please help.
23 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.
Additional Details
18 minutes ago

He still wants to be with me and see me...did he just use the wrong word.
5 minutes ago

Even though we dont see eachother he still doenst get the space he needs. He works and sleeps. So he has time for nothign through the week.

2007-10-30 14:07:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it alright to kiss on the first date? (We've been friends for awhile)
If so in the middle or at the end?
Is dinner and a movie okay?
Oh wow, I feel like a crazy teenage girl again. But I've wanted to date my guy friend forever and I'm so nervous, and excited all at the same time. I've been on dates before don't get me wrong, but its different this time, and I really don't want to mess things up with him!

So any advice helps!

2007-10-30 14:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by Jaycee 2

want to put it on my myspace page
something about loving your ex while with someone new
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2007-10-30 14:06:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

for girls hair color which is most attractive 2 u

2007-10-30 14:05:37 · 25 answers · asked by dramachica3 2

ok so theres this guy i like...and people think he likes me too and that we're cute together, and apparently he talks about me a lot...k so we text all the time, and wenever we're at a party or something we talk a ton and he's always hugging me and has his arm around me. sounds good right? well he never calls me! maybe he's just busy or something, but its always texting or face to face convos! he is not a shy person at all! he txtd me once about this guy i was with and i said call me in an hour and he said u call me, so i did but he'd gone to bed so i left a message sayin call me in the morning, but the next morning he texted me and just said i got ur message, whats up? is this normal? guys, do u prefer texting over talking on the phone? should i try to call him more?? thanks!

2007-10-30 13:57:38 · 24 answers · asked by jelly 2

2007-10-30 13:56:39 · 17 answers · asked by katie f 1