How crazy is this?

Question

Me and my guy have been together 4 years. We are engaged. Recently he has asked for space. Not breaking up just time for him. He works all week and has to get everythign he wants to do and see me. I understand that. I am a lover I love to love and be loved. I may have been too clingy. Do you think he asked using the wrong word? Space has worried me to the point of I cant eat. I have broken down a few times. He would not be with me if he needs space right? Also I told him he could have a Sat to do what he wants which gives me only one day to see him. He just said he didnt want to get burnt out from being together all the time. Witch I think was all the clingy stuff. he said that would help the prob. Am I worring myself over nothign. He would be with me if he didnt wnat to . Also he call me and all the reg stuff. Do guys just get liek that. I am so worried . Please help.
23 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.
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18 minutes ago

He still wants to be with me and see me...did he just use the wrong word.
5 minutes ago

Even though we dont see eachother he still doenst get the space he needs. He works and sleeps. So he has time for nothign through the week.

Answer 1

I think that he is cheating on you. This is the only reason why any guy would want space from the girl that he is suppose to eventually marry. My husband never asked me for space, he always wanted to be with and around me even when he was real busy, and he is still the same way.

Answer 2

I think he's a bit overwhelmed. Maybe working all the time and sleeping are wearing him down. It's really tough on someone that doesn't really have any free time. Maybe him needing space is just that he needs a little break. If he's still talking to you and if he says he still wants to be with you then I would relax a little. Give him the space he needs but let him know you're there for him. Unless you have a reason not to trust him, I would not think he was cheating though. I feel like that's jumping the gun a little. Good luck. =)

Answer 3

I don't think he used the wrong word.

Everyone needs their own space. You know that personal time that you have for yourself and things that just you want to do.

I have been with my husband for 11 years (since I was 17), and I can't explain enough how much being apart helps a relationship. We even take a separate vacation one week a year. I go and do what I want to do, and he does as he wants. The next week of our vacation we spend together.

We have learned no matter how much we love each other we need our personal space, and time to do what we want. But after 11 years we also have trust.

Don't overreact. ....... even lovers need a holiday.

Answer 4

Don't take this the wrong way, but maybe he really does need some space. And really, you should want him to take his space, especially if you are engaged. You don't want to marry someone who doesn't know who he is yet. You want him to have time to finish growing up/maturing. Trust me. My ex and I got married so we could be together here in the US. He's finally finishing growing up, unfortunately we aren't together anymore. Good luck and I know it's not what you wanted to hear, but better to hear it now than 5 years down the road.

Answer 5

he does not need space he needs to determine his priorities --- what is more important a job that you can replace easily or someone you care for that could never be replaced --- and if he thinks he will "burn out" seeing you all the time --- what is living together or being married about??? --- being with each other ALL the time ---- i concentrated on work all the time and basically lost everything --- best wishes

Answer 6

eat sleep drink wear clothing have shelter go to the bathroom for usages and whatever you do don't procreate. you're infecting the gene pool. don't forget to breath. scratch that. forget to breath.