my guy is scared of the phone?!?

Question

ok so theres this guy i like...and people think he likes me too and that we're cute together, and apparently he talks about me a lot...k so we text all the time, and wenever we're at a party or something we talk a ton and he's always hugging me and has his arm around me. sounds good right? well he never calls me! maybe he's just busy or something, but its always texting or face to face convos! he is not a shy person at all! he txtd me once about this guy i was with and i said call me in an hour and he said u call me, so i did but he'd gone to bed so i left a message sayin call me in the morning, but the next morning he texted me and just said i got ur message, whats up? is this normal? guys, do u prefer texting over talking on the phone? should i try to call him more?? thanks!

Answer 1

u could ramble a little less but generally guys like to text more than girls and u shouldnt be worried at all

Answer 2

This question makes for a good text conversation between you two.Ask him why he does not call you on the phone, if there is a particular reason for this behavior. However, in the over all scheme of things it is a minor issue. You indicated that you like him and he appears to like you too and you make a cute couple, so that is what you should focus on.There are a lot of ways to make contact ---emails, cells. text messaging, instant messaging etc that you can select one.You can call him but he might not want to talk to you over that medium. for any length of time.Concentrate on the important matters.

Answer 3

Ok this might sound a little superficaial but maybe he is afraid that he he says something to you over the phone that you might take it in a way that he didn't mean it. Like he could totally be joking around with you and you could think he was serious, ya know? It's probably that he doesn't want you to take anything the wrong way.

Answer 4

I text more than phone and I prefer to be text too , its cheaper for me, but theres something convenient about texts , like you can read them when you want and reply when you want , ie. your on the loo , textin no problem .......phone rings .......oh bugger !!
.or driving, or eating , out .... theres nothing worse than trying to have a polite convo when your busy as hell and you would rather not chat right then..... no matter how much they love you.
I wouldn't take offense , Its nice that your bloke communicates by text or mouth .....

Answer 5

Most people these days like to text for whicj ever reason, I hate it. I know my job is anwering phones, and when I an home I hate talking on the phone, if you want to talk come see me in person. SO maybe he works on the phone.

Answer 6

i hate talking on the phone unless i am super good friends with the person. i dont know why, i am so awkward on the phone. its weird, but some of us are like that. he may be like that too. and i also heard that guys prefer to text anyway

Answer 7

well guys dont really like sitting on the phone talking and plus texting is the new calling. so i wouldnt worry about it hes jsut not a phone person and its normal most guys arent.

Answer 8

i would rather text or be face to face because it can get awkward talking on the phone sometimes i think lots of people prefer texting.

Answer 9

To be onist dont think anyone can answer this but him... but maybe hes scared of that akward silence that you get on the phone and through text and face....

Maybe you ring him more often or talk to him about it :)

Answer 10

Phone conversations are always harder than having real life conversations and conversations over texting. Mabye he's just nervous he won't know what to say and he'll look bad.