Singles & Dating - 30 October 2007

Can people change? Or is it just a matter of time before they do it again?

2007-10-30 04:02:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am tired of always having to email this guy 1st, but when we do start, he always emails back. Other than this I think he is interested in me.

It was my last day at work on Friday, and I didn't email him all week (like I said, tired of having to always go first), I gave in and emailed on Thurs and said 'Its the best week, being my last week at work, how come you didn't email?'.

He replied, and said he wanted to email me on the last/best day (the Friday). My response was 'yeah right, I am smart you know'. Which he then replied 'Y do u say that, I was going to email you', we chatted briefly. The next day, he did email, with the subject line 'happy last day at work'.

Was I too harsh? U have to understand I am quite fed up of always starting emails, and am thinking that if a guy was interested, he wouldn't always leave it to the girl.. right?

2007-10-30 03:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by grapes 2

I met a man, much older than me, who openly told me he was schizo. I risked and changed so much of my life to conform to his beliefs of me, and what I should be to him.

He lives an hours drive away. I used to go up to visit, but was never allowed at his home. Instead we'd go at it in the back seat in a carpark or on the street.
He then has the nerve to call me a whore and a cheat and a slut for doing so- when I was only going alone with what HE wanted.

I already feel like a stupid whore for letting it go on for so long. Deal is...

I thought thats what he wanted.
But then he calls me a whore??

2007-10-30 03:57:28 · 5 answers · asked by Claire M 2

2007-10-30 03:56:12 · 11 answers · asked by redcandal66 2

There's this guy that always says "That's racist!" to everything someone says...as simple as "Oh yea I was talking to Emily the other day..." and he blurts out "that's racist!" EVERYDAY. What's a good comeback to make him shut up?

2007-10-30 03:51:47 · 7 answers · asked by fuzzy_fruitcake 3

my girlfriend and i have been going out for just about 6 months. and she told me that she is scared casue everything seems perfect but it might not be. and she says that is wierd that we never fight. what should i do? and she told me that she heard no fighting in a relationship is a bad thing.

2007-10-30 03:49:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancée, whom I dated for 4 years broke up with me in June, stating that she needed to find herself. It has been 5 months now and haven’t talked to my fiancée in 2 months, and I have started dating a new girl, which is going really well, except recently all I can think about is my fiancée and how much I miss her. What is worse is that the new girl, lives in the apartment building directly across the street in NYC from my fiancée. I need help, I want to move on but I miss my fiancée more than anything

2007-10-30 03:45:35 · 6 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1

What happened?

2007-10-30 03:38:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-30 03:37:32 · 13 answers · asked by 5050 1

I've just confirmed a date with a woman I've met for this coming weekend ... we met about a month ago and this will be our second date ... we're going to a concert. Being the perfect gentleman that I am (ha ha ...), I will be providing the transportation. Now, what I wonder is what is second date protocol in the way of flowers? Is it too early yet to present her a bouquet? I'd steer clear of the roses this early in the game, but what might be more appropriate?

2007-10-30 03:34:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He finally met a new girl and wrote me about her. Does it mean that the 20 phone calls a day and the 30 emails a day are going to stop. I hope so because I don't know how much more I can take. Why did he want to tell me about a new woman though? HMMMMM I had better think about this some more. it might just be another game he is trying to play. I swear some people are crazy!!!!

2007-10-30 03:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Patty M 5

2007-10-30 03:24:35 · 17 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2

well my friends have told me that when a guy plays with his belt he is thinking about sex with the girl he's with... just wondering if its true lol? x

thanks x

2007-10-30 03:22:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend of 6 months seldom calls me by my name,we have a long distance relationship, but he calls me everyday and says he misses me.I told him several times that I don't like it that he does not use my name. but he carries on not using my name whilist I always use his name . He is quite affectionate but I reckon if a person who says that he wants to be close to you and does not call you by your name is afraid of affection is not he?

2007-10-30 03:18:06 · 11 answers · asked by Veronika B 1

I am a 15 year old boy and she is 17. She used her tounge and everything. Then just yesterday she asked if I wanted to shower with her...Im kinda nervous obout this whole situation. What should I do? I dont want to get her in trouble. I like her and everything, just not like that.

2007-10-30 03:01:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i can't fit a BOYFRIEND in to my busy life. I'm in love with my best friend and i don't think she doesn't loves me the same way...
i spend 90% of my time with her and i'm satisfied with that (hence the no desire to find a boyfriend)
because she fills my life with joy and gives me a sense of meaning and momentum to push forward.

do i break away from her(the one i love with my entire heart or do i stay and someday love will find me)

2007-10-30 02:47:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not necessarily snobs but just girls who won't take **** from you or anyone else. Or do you prefer the quiet girls who let people put them down?

2007-10-30 02:46:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really feel the need to call him but fear that he won't answer my call. Don't get it, he said he liked my looks and I am not a nasty person. I contacted him last with no response. He came to visit me and left early (4 hour flight) without letting me know. The visit was painful because he was always going to leave. Does he not feel anything?

2007-10-30 02:25:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do men who have smoked or do smoke a lot of pot have trouble with erections? My boyfriend I believe does and when he does get an erection, it is always a semi one and can't satisfy me when we have actual intercourse.

2007-10-30 02:20:02 · 1 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

I feel like someone I know is trying to put this saying into practice with me, but I just think he's rude so Im rude back but then suddenly he goes all nice again. It's happened to me a few times with different guys and Im wondering what their caper is. Male opinions are really appreciated on this. Thanks.

2007-10-30 02:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19, never had a girlfriend (much less kissed a girl) and whenever I'm around a girl I'm interested in I get this really self-conscious feeling, clam up, and become really nervous. Does anybody have any ideas as to what I could do to help with my confidence. It's really tough because whenever I like a girl I'm way too shy to take any sort of initiative, my fear takes over at the sight of any opportunities and gets me running in the other direction (not literally). The frustrating part is that this prevents me from even progressing enough to even ask a girl out, or often times I avoid them and these situations totally. Please, any advice, I'm sick and tired of my love life being held hostage by my fear.

2007-10-30 02:11:12 · 29 answers · asked by da s 2

just told my boyfriend that i wana have a break from our relationship after 8 months and am now feeling really bad.

2007-10-30 01:51:23 · 17 answers · asked by flutterfly 3

i know i do, they are so strong and angry, lol
they need to came to me so i can calm them down

2007-10-30 01:50:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

moving, money, loosing friends....shouldnt be important when you wanna be with someone.
or am i wrong can there still be obsticles that get in the way of the truest of loves

2007-10-30 01:41:17 · 23 answers · asked by nortirob 1

i think i love my chat mate...do you think it is love...

2007-10-30 01:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by reya m 1

2007-10-30 01:30:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

but I think this sucks! He told me once I never get angry at you!

2007-10-30 01:10:37 · 25 answers · asked by convictmichaelvick 1

who doesnt take you and make you his?
who lets you know who is boss?
and doesnt let you get your way?

2007-10-30 01:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by bdsmslavegirly 4

2007-10-30 01:04:27 · 14 answers · asked by shelf4you2001 3

2007-10-30 00:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous