just told my boyfriend that i wana have a break from our relationship after 8 months and am now feeling really bad.
2007-10-30 01:51:23 · 17 answers · asked by flutterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shows you are human, at the end of any relationship you will normally feel preety crap as it is the end and that can always be sad. it is like when you leave a job, there will usually be people you miss, people that you will not see again and it can feel preety bad.
as long as your boyfriend wasn't abusive and it was ended "because it wasn't working" etc.. you would have to have a heart of stone to feel nothing. Just remember that it is probably for the best and the longer you are stuck in a relationship that is unhappy the harder it would be to end it.
2007-10-30 03:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by ebungle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how and why really i guess. If you've been straight with him then there are no reasons to feel crap, however, it doesn't mean that it's not ok.
I recently left my wife, i didn't cartwheel down the road, even thought it was my choice i still feel deeply sad because of the pain i have caused her.
so you're not meant to feel crap, but it's ok too, its a pretty natural feeling if you've ever been close to someone.
2007-10-30 02:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Poombs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just means that you have a heart. I split up with my ex a couple of months ago because i fell out of love with him. But when i dumped him i felt so bad and just wanted to hug him and say sorry and take him back. But after a while i realised that i had done the right thing, so just give it time.
Hope it helps xx
2007-10-30 03:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 08:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea thats normal, mabye you should have thought things through, if its meant to be though yall will get back together.
If thats not what you want, then just move on. Theres plenty of others out there. Dont settle
2007-10-30 01:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jordyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because you was with that person for ages and your emotional feelings are taking a rollercoaster right now.just try keep your mind on other things and dont think about your ex.
you will be alright just takes time to get over it.
2007-10-30 01:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shows you got a heart.
But, still you did what you felt was best for you and that is what's important.
2007-10-30 01:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I dunno, you women, change your mind like the weather.
If you really wanted to dump him you should be feeling chuffed that you can now go out and if you see anyone you like then you can have it off with him without feeling guilty.
lol this will cheer you up...
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WAIT! You're an emo - I thought you lot felt crap 24/7 lol
2007-10-30 01:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by suet moon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is exactly the way you are supposed to fell, that means that you care for that person. Good Luck,,,,
2007-10-30 01:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Madelyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you care about other people. (ie: if you're not autistic or American, you will feel bad after dumping someone)
2007-10-30 01:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by ewan123ewan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋