I really feel the need to call him but fear that he won't answer my call. Don't get it, he said he liked my looks and I am not a nasty person. I contacted him last with no response. He came to visit me and left early (4 hour flight) without letting me know. The visit was painful because he was always going to leave. Does he not feel anything?
2007-10-30 02:25:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would they contact you if they were interested?
2007-10-30 02:34:25 · update #1
Should I delete his number?
2007-10-30 02:37:19 · update #2
It is so obvious now thank you all for the clarity.
2007-10-30 02:44:02 · update #3
He just might feel some feelings for you, he just does not feel about you the way you feel about him. In other words the feelings he has or had for you are so little that he does not think twice about avoiding you. I know this hurts, but if you continue to pursue him you will only set yourself up to being rejected again. I know the hope that he will give you the attention you so desire drives you to the need to call him, but why put yourself through more pain by risking the chance of being rejected again? Forget him and find someone who will love you the way you want to be loved. Best of luck to you!
2007-10-30 02:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me from 1st hand experience it is not a good idea at all. they say let sleeping dogs lie and that's very true and for the best. he broke ur heart once, don't give him the chance to do it again. i once text an ex just to see how he was doing and had to find out he had deleted me as a contact coz he text back going who is this. this got me mad and i decided to start playing this game bcoz it gave me satisfaction seeing he was getting worked up. the game escalated and i wished i hadn sent that text in the 1st place. point is just forget it. if he wants u, he would come looking for u but don't wait around coz u could do so much better I'm sure
2007-10-30 02:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it would be best to not call. Why open yourself up for another letdown/pain. It doesn't make any difference how he feels. His actions should tell you that much without acting confused. If you contacted him with no response back it sounds pretty clear to me. Time to move on and find a winner.
2007-10-30 02:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRLFRIEND:
Leave him alone and move on with your life.
HE'LL MAKE A COMEBACK and when he does, let him find a stronger, more beautiful you.
When he comes back, treat him like a big insect on the sidewalk: you see it, but you don't want to step on it 'cause it'll mess up your shoes...so...you'll step over it and keep on going!
You'll be OK.
Learn to love yourself with all of your soul...with all of your might.
Then...run (not walk) towards a bright and exciting future without him!
It can be done...'cause you can do it!
-THE MIDDLEFINGER
PS: Another thing to remember when he tries to make a comeback...NEVER, EVER get into the habit of taking a $hit and then stepping back in it!
2007-10-30 02:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever never never never call someone who broke up with you. If he left early that's a major sign that he wasn't as in to you as you were him. Move on and find the right person for you. He is out there and will love you unconditionally and this guy wasn't him.
2007-10-30 02:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Hayz's Peach - أماندا & حسن 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its never a good idea to go back to an ex, only because you should be thinking about moving foward in life, not taking a step back! If it didn't work the first time, it's not going to work the second or third.
2007-10-30 02:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on why you are contacting him. Is it to bring closure or do you want to try again.
From my experience I've contated with regard to closure I did feel better after and he even ending calling me after that a few times I don't know why but I know i'm through with the situation and I feel better about it now.
2007-10-30 02:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Y_aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For closure it's okay. To rekindle, better let him do the calling.
2014-07-09 06:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go. things are not good and he broke your heart. you just want the pain to stop...that's why you want to call him.
just occupy yourself with other things and it'll get better.
call up your friends and make plans. work more, get to the gym, whatever you need to do to keep busy.
i've been there and it's hard. but you have to respect yourself enough to move on and get strong....not weak!
2007-10-30 02:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does..maybe he doesn't...it could be that he is afraid of commitment and is not ready for a relationship.. but until he figures it out.. don't be the one who will always be avaiable to him.. he will find it easy to use you.. move on.. give your chance for true happiness.. trust me it will find you.. unitl you meet the right one this is time for you to work on yourself
2007-10-30 02:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mz. Robbinson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋