moving, money, loosing friends....shouldnt be important when you wanna be with someone.
or am i wrong can there still be obsticles that get in the way of the truest of loves
2007-10-30 01:41:17 · 23 answers · asked by nortirob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if they dont wanna take the relationship futher does that mean they dont love u...even though they say they do. for me if u love someone u will want to spend the rest of your life with them?
2007-10-30 01:42:37 · update #1
we would lose friends and family because of the age gap
2007-10-30 01:48:05 · update #2
Hummmm....
Well... if I was in love with someone.. I would hope they wouldn't expect me to give up things.. or friends...
I'm thinking.. you might need to take a step back and look at the whole picture and ask yourself.. do you really need to be with this person..
2007-10-30 02:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with cheryl. i think that love is when u actually share with ur mate, and u guys become 1, that u can trust each other with anything and everything. and even tho that person becomes the most important being 4 u... i also think that u shouldn't be selfish 2 deprive that person from the people that surround them... u must trust that he will always choose you over the others, but u must give them the freedom to have fun with other people bcuz even tho u willl try 2 give them everything they need... people always need other people, just so they won't feel lonely... he won't be lonely with u... but i mean, there might be things that he will need from other people.. such as getting a better job thru networking.. he could have a friend who works for a company that offfers better opportunities than his... and not only that... but he needs 2 joke around, and relax with his homies.. give him some space 2... that doesn't mean he doens't love u.
2007-10-30 01:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you loved someone you would follow them to the end of the earth to stay with them, of-course there may be problems but you would work out a way of being together.
2007-10-30 01:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unconditional love wouldn,t cause/want you to do wrong, usually when someone says " if you love me, you'll do anything" they dont really love you, they just want to have some type of control over your life and feelings, because they don't have control over their own. remember there is a difference in "being with someone" and "being committed to someone" ive "been" with alot of people but really didnt love them. when it comes to true love, the only obstacles are ourselves.( insecurity, self esteem, that type of stuff)
2007-10-30 01:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sometimes love isn't enough.
You should be true to yourself no matter what the cost.
Also, if the other party causes you to lose these other things then they don't really love you anyway and you are wasting time chasing them when it will eventually lead to you getting hurt.
take care and good luck
2007-10-30 01:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Poombs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have loved someone that I did not want to spend the rest of my life with. I simply loved him, and enjoyed my time with him, but knew it wouldn't be forever. He wasn't someone I wanted to make a life with, just someone I loved for the moment.
2007-10-30 01:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well love is a big thing, but if you love this person why would you have to push your friends away??? If you have to give up your life to be with them, then it is just not meant to be!!!
2007-10-30 01:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah that's right but both of ya'l have to be sure and ready to live together... there shoyuldn't be no obsticles and maybe they don't wan to take it further because maybe they don't fell ready, even though he loves you
2007-10-30 01:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they dont wanna take it furthure it is becasue they might love u but they want to do stuff with other people and dont wanna be comited to one pp yet . They want other boys pp's not jsut urs.. there prob to young to be with one guy. U cant blame her
2007-10-30 01:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Marco P 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Make sure she wants to be with you before you kill her to spend the rest of eternity together.
2007-10-30 01:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dealbreaker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋