I am tired of always having to email this guy 1st, but when we do start, he always emails back. Other than this I think he is interested in me.
It was my last day at work on Friday, and I didn't email him all week (like I said, tired of having to always go first), I gave in and emailed on Thurs and said 'Its the best week, being my last week at work, how come you didn't email?'.
He replied, and said he wanted to email me on the last/best day (the Friday). My response was 'yeah right, I am smart you know'. Which he then replied 'Y do u say that, I was going to email you', we chatted briefly. The next day, he did email, with the subject line 'happy last day at work'.
Was I too harsh? U have to understand I am quite fed up of always starting emails, and am thinking that if a guy was interested, he wouldn't always leave it to the girl.. right?
2007-10-30 03:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by grapes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The waiting for the last/best day sounds a little suspect to me. I agree with the person that said he might have someone else occupying his time.
or he could be madly in lust with you and trying to not show his stalker side.
2007-10-30 04:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rick H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you too harsh? Maybe. Maybe not. Regardless, whether or not he emails you first or not will likely NOT show you anything about this guy other than the fact that he does not email a lot. It will not indicated how much he is interested in you. It will not indicate anything about his communication skills. He simply may not be as big of an emailer as you are, choosing to respond rather than waste a lot of time writing emails.
I have a better question for you. Are YOU interested in HIM? Doesn't sound like you've really put much into showing your interest, either, aside of emailing a little. Maybe you two should spend less time on the computer and more time actually talking to one another. Otherwise, what's the point?
2007-10-30 04:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not harsh but too... needy? Next time don't let your emotions show, always play it cool, because if he learns that you're so into him, he'll be confident to ignore you all the more and you will never get out of that position "who always emails first".
2007-10-30 04:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Eureka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The initiation of contact between interested parties, should be shared. Definitely discuss the issue with him and let him know you don't feel he's all that interested if he always waits for you to start things...he should take control now and then also.
2007-10-30 04:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do have to agree with you. If they are interested they will initiate the communication. There are circumstances where they do get busy and such, but if you Always have to initiate contact then maybe he is just stringin you along. He must have something or someone else to occupy his time.
2007-10-30 04:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should've emailed first. he's the man and if he liked you he would, But there are a few chickens that wont go first so its up to you if you think he's chicken or just playing
2007-10-30 04:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by JJ M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not too harsh, make him email you first.
2007-10-30 04:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds lazy and not interested lose him
2007-10-30 04:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by thumper j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋