i can't fit a BOYFRIEND in to my busy life. I'm in love with my best friend and i don't think she doesn't loves me the same way...
i spend 90% of my time with her and i'm satisfied with that (hence the no desire to find a boyfriend)
because she fills my life with joy and gives me a sense of meaning and momentum to push forward.
do i break away from her(the one i love with my entire heart or do i stay and someday love will find me)
2007-10-30 02:47:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should stay and let love find you.
2007-10-30 02:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always fit someone into your busy life; you choose NOT to. That is the big thing to realize. The love for your friend is probably just confusing b/c you spend SOOO much time together. Try meeting up with some other friends and go to a club or something fun. Break away from the normal and see what happens! You might be suprised
2007-10-30 02:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by bodmodangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i wouldnt push up on my best friend yet as it would or possibly could ruin your friendship. take some time to think about this as it is a very tough desicion to make as your best friend is the one you hold dear to you and you dont want to loose her. Talk to her when you think the time is ready and explain to her how you feel tell her if she doesnt want to hook up with you then you dont mind. dont force her whatever you do. if she says no get her to help you find the right guy. guys arent an accessory so if you dont think your ready for a guy then go with your gut feeling, or you could realy upset this boys heart. good luck!!xx
2007-10-30 02:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tuff, especially since she doesn't feel the same way u do 'bout her. U r yarning for love and u need to get it with someone else.
There are people out there who can love u too. The best spot to be for u is to have someone love u, rather than being with someone u love but doesn't really.
2007-10-30 02:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ayo A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you are satisfied with the way things are, why stress about a boyfriend, and if your best friend doesnt know how you feel, how do you know they dont feel the same about you and you dont know, easy answer here, stop stressing, relax and enjoy your friendship, whatever happens, love will find you
2007-10-30 02:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your friend! You could also have a boyfriend with a friend in your life too! You'll be fine!
BE HAPPY
~maddie
2007-10-30 02:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already found someone to love. Don't conform to others' standards if you are already happy.
2007-10-30 02:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by ameeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay if u dont think u could be as happy with everyone else. if she dosnt know your feelings then perhaps tell her then you know where she stands. who knows she could be thinking exactly the same about you? x
2007-10-30 02:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by sidearse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself......ALWAYS be YOU.....dont change for know one ..........You are who you are.....and there will be that someone who will FIT YOU...........Just for who YOU ARE !!
Establish yourself..reach your goals....and set your standards...and one day one will fit into that part of your life..just be patient........and if not be yourself anyway....
After all......isnt being you the best there is ?
2007-10-30 02:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The placement is in the wear color fit sized,will not you?
2007-10-30 04:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by m loves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋