Singles & Dating - 30 October 2007

Well like i said it's about girls ages 9-19 pledging to be pure. This happens in 48 states now, there are no balls for boys though. Iknow it's unfair but in this society if a girl has sex she is labeled a slut. If a boy has sex it is normal, what do you people think? The people that do these balls are Christians, if you were wondering. I think the girls fell pressured to do it to make their parents happy, what do you think? Please tell me your opinions! Also should boys have "purity balls" as well? I think the ages to attend the ball should be 12-19, what do you think? Well please answer!

2007-10-30 10:10:43 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs. Cullen Black [{♥}] 2

2007-10-30 10:08:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So,this summer I met this guy... We were on a party and I thought he was cute... He came onto me an asked me my name...We talked but I wasn't that interested in him at the time... He talked to me a couple of times that evening and said I was hot.... But,he didn't know I was 4 years younger(cause every1 thinks I'm older)...And next month I went for a drink with my cousin and her fiancee(and that guy is his mate) and he was there...We didnt talk,but I noticed him looking at me,and so did my cousin...He later told my cousins fiancee that I'm beautiful....And 2 months ago he said that I'm way beautiful and hot,but just too young.... And I hate that!!! He would be with me if I was 2 years older but now he doesn't want to.... I had a boyfriend after that and everything was ok until I read something about past love(or something).And I still think of him a lot and I really care about him.I always ask what is he doing and stuff...And I haven't seen him since that drink we had... Help me please!
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55 minutes ago

Here's the catch-he thought i was probably 17/18,but I'm only 17......
And he's really shy and likes to take things slow....He dumped his girlfriend becaues she wanted to have sex,he said it was too soon for him,he's that type of guy...So,I don't think it's about sex to him...............
53 minutes ago

I'm 14,not 17
51 minutes ago

the problem is that i never get to see him....So we can't talk and he's shy,so he wouldn't go on a blind date....
40 minutes ago

Has anyone been in a situation like this????

2007-10-30 10:08:33 · 16 answers · asked by glad to help :) 6

he comes over ot my house sometimes and for like prjects and stuff liek last week he came over for 6 hours and we were having A LOT of fun and "wreseling" and stuff like that. and at school he ALWAYS gives me hugs and he is very flirty and he is always talking about how much he doesnt feel like he even knows his girlfriend and she lives an hour away and that he hates it. and i REALLY like this guy but he has a girlfriend and i think he likes me and i dont know what to do?

2007-10-30 10:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by sarah c 2

anyone here who hasnt regretted losing their virginity? at an early age.. not too early but maybe.. most ppl i hear that they regret it..but idk. anyone?

2007-10-30 10:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by Jay 2

what height would a girl want for his boy friend to be the perfct.

2007-10-30 10:00:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Basiclly i have had feeling for this boy for ageeees and we have always been very close and not long ago he even told me that he really likes me and he knew i did too. He even said he loved me but in a shy way so it was so sweet. We were like cuddling kissing he was so sweet. I dunno its like we r ment to be theres like a connection and we have always been like close and bit more than friends. But like after we r so close the next day its like he forgets everyhting that happend and we dont event talk!! Now apperntly he doesnt like anyone in that way and we r not close at all! Instead hes flirting with other girls but like a jokie way but never as close as we were! Well i admit i sort of flirt with other boys but its only to get him jelouse lol :( So i think he thinks i dont like him in that way and im really confused if he likes me or not and y he says he loves me then doesnt!???? I don't know how we can get close again and how do i let him know i like him?? HELP

2007-10-30 09:56:12 · 1 answers · asked by Izzy 2

i work with this woman, shes 34 im 20, were good friends and get on really great. when we go out she tends to touch me, such as rubbing my stomach and brushing my arm. she also keeps telling me she likes my smile. Does all this mean she likes me? If so should i ask her out on a date?

2007-10-30 09:51:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

when 'doing it', would you like it ravished or nice and romantic?
explain please

2007-10-30 09:49:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

why cant i find a girl that love me who has that look in there eyes, i dont ask for anything but but that special look, im that type of bloke thats loving caring romantic but girls these days want a pissed up drugged up bad boy

2007-10-30 09:45:53 · 5 answers · asked by moosey 1

I never wear outfits that show my body off really. But today, I wore a tight shirt that showed my chest only a little bit, not low cut. And I had guys that would ignore me before, or treat me like I didn't exist, or ignore me, talk to me? Out of the blue even. It's a great disappointment and I don't understand why it has to be like this.

2007-10-30 09:43:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently cheated on my boyfriend with this guy at work and he found out about it and went and beat him up and then came home and hit me because of it. I was so upset and I called my mom to tell her what happened but she told me I deserved it for cheating on him in the first place! I can't believe she said that to me! Was he really justified in hitting me like he did?

2007-10-30 09:43:17 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 13 and ever since about 4 days ago my soach told me to set a pick in basketball on this girl name crissy and ever since then I have felt weird around her BCUZ I TOUCHED HER WEIRDLY I THINK. There is this girl on youtube thats like my role model. she is about 16 (because she likes this guys and so do i. lol idk.) and crissy looks alot like her i think(so when she walks in a room my heart skips. like im meeting a celebtrity. I dont know why! i barely know crissy and i like boys alot and i have never had a crush on another girl. when i think about being bi i want to kill myself, because i have always thought being lesbian or bi is VERY wrong! im not sure how I feel! plz dont say do what you want or some ppl are born bi! bcuz in my opinion its satan and i keep telling myself this!! but PLZZZZZ HELP!!

2007-10-30 09:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by Unknown 1

I'm madly in love with my boyfriend of four years. He was my best friend for about eight months b/4 we even dated.

He's in the military and is about to be stationed over 24 hours away from me in El Paso, Texas for FOUR years!

He wants to marry and take me with him, but I'm scared because I'd be leaving my entire life here in Viriginia. I also wouldn't be guareenteed a job right away.

PLUS, I signed a contract to teach in VA until 2010. If I break it, I have to pay back $5,000.

What should I do?

2007-10-30 09:43:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

why or why not?

2007-10-30 09:42:08 · 28 answers · asked by David R 1

a sorta guy friend who i havent really talked to in a while txts me earlier and it says "i kinda like u now ur really hot" and i knew he woulddnt just out of the blue txt me and say that so i figured it was one of his friends being an a|ss. i sorta thought it was my other friend... mike...who i like.... so i was hoping it wasnt him. but then a little bit later he txts me again and says "sry mikes a ****|ot at times". why the fu|ck would he do that? im just in the worst mood today and this isnt making it much beter

2007-10-30 09:41:10 · 11 answers · asked by loveyou 3

I met a guy who seemed perfect, nice attitude, good job, nice house, very caring etc. Things were going well until it started to it started getting heavy, he started coming around to the house more, phoning more etc, then he just stopped all contact for around 2 weeks, then he phoned to ask to come around and ive had a couple of txts. When he went quiet for 2 weeks he never answered any calls or txts. I heard that his ex wife used to batter him, and he is in the middle of a battle as she is trying to get half of everything he owes. So do you think he is just using me or do you think he was scared?or what do you think?

2007-10-30 09:39:33 · 6 answers · asked by nicola h 1

I met a really great guy on line. We've talked for 5 or 6 months. Met up, had a nice time. He travels ALL the time, so I know he is busy. But, it's been a couple of days since I've heard from him. (he flew home to England). I know he is frightfully busy, but I'm starting to feel like I'm being taken for granted. Gentlemen, should I not feel this way? (Professional men please reply). I'm not overtly needy but a line or two to let me know the flight landed????

2007-10-30 09:39:05 · 1 answers · asked by jennydawn 1

If a woman is with a man for a total of four years, exclusive with this man for three of those years, made the move from another state to live with him 7 months ago with the promise that the engagement is definitely coming....should she believe him? This is not for me, but a friend who is seeking many different opinions on the subject. So, ladies and gentleman....please give her all ya got! ;)

2007-10-30 09:38:55 · 7 answers · asked by Marina 7

there is this guy in my math,language,science and social studies classes. he is a total perv...his grlfrd just broke up with him bc he cheated on her. but i know that althought he is now single he will get another grl within 2 dys. today i was at my best frds locker waiting for her to hurry up and he passes by and literally TOUCHES my BUTT. i waas going to SMACK the crap outta him but i couldnt bc thee were teachers all over saying hurry hurry get to homeroom before the bell rings. i mean he does touch me but only on the shoulder...today he went to far. he likes lots of other grls to but he didnt touch their butts now did he. he says my legs are sexy...and stuff...PLX HELP..wht should i do..i sit far away from him in the subjects i have with him..except language...ttell me how to deal with theses types of guys???
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2007-10-30 09:38:23 · 19 answers · asked by strawberries. 4

I wont resort to violence so that is out.

2007-10-30 09:37:46 · 66 answers · asked by rocktheplank 2

2007-10-30 09:36:52 · 4 answers · asked by Argo 3

I went out on a 2nd date with 25 y/o guy (good-looks, cocky and confident) who voluntarily revealed he is a virgin when i didn't ask. I am almost positive he is trying to use that as a ploy to get me to sleep with him. I am not buying it. At end of date, we made plans to see other in 2 weeks. He asked if he should email or call. I said email is impersonal, i prefer phone but he still said "i'll email u."

"You know it's weird e-mailing people instead of calling, but thanks for a great time on sat and letting me make it up to you."

"Thx for a great time too. I still feel bad about bowling...you should've let me chip in a little."

"Nah, I still feel like I need to make it up to you some more. hehehe."

Should I confront him? Will he fess or run away? Or should I not confront him and see if he sticks around after 3-4 months? What should I reply to this or should I not reply at all?

2007-10-30 09:35:50 · 15 answers · asked by angelgirly777 1

I really like this guy and i think he likes me to but how can i tell i wanna go out with him but i'm so i love with him wat should i do?

2007-10-30 09:35:42 · 4 answers · asked by Stelle C 1

I really like this guy. He tried to ask me out, but I said I liked him as a friend. (I only said this because I didn't know he was asking me out! I really regret it!) Now I think he hates me. Whenever I look over at him and he's looking at me (which is about 98% of the time, by the way) he turns his head really quickly. We only have one mutual class together, and I'm the only girl he doesn't talk to in that class! Whenever I say hi to him or ask him a question, he answers me really quickly and he never makes eye contact with me. But what really confuses me is that he still shows A LOT of signs that he likes me! And when I asked a friend of his if he hates me or not, his friend said he didn't hate me, but I still think he does!

Please help me! I really like and I want him to be my boyfriend, but I really do think he doesn't like me! My heart hurts and I'm in desperate need of help! Please respond! Thank you.

2007-10-30 09:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Erin has a crush on Brandon♥ 5

When you have something good, that even you know is one of the best things that has ever happened to you, how can you possibly mess that up for something that really isn't worth it in the end?

I know that not all men do this, but why do some have such a hard time realizing and appreciating that they have a good woman on their hands?

2007-10-30 09:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2

guys, Besides SEX, wat turns u on? wat does a girl have 2 do 2 get ur attion?? WAT R U LOOKING 4?? :)

2007-10-30 09:31:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and we are really close, she had a play and we did not see eachother for a week. One of her ex boyfriends was in the play and she started to have feelings for him. She told him she liked him. After the week she told me about this and told her ex boyfriend that it won't work out and that she won't talk to him again. It still hurt me that she would tell another guy this and have feelings for him. What should i do?

2007-10-30 09:31:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does he like me?
he has a gf he is my brothers friend i asked him to be my friend on myspace now were are myspace friends so does he like me


he is 2 yrs older and is always nice to me


when i was with my friend he came up to me and asked me a question


does he like me as a friend

2007-10-30 09:29:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-30 09:28:34 · 1 answers · asked by erika 1