im 13 and ever since about 4 days ago my soach told me to set a pick in basketball on this girl name crissy and ever since then I have felt weird around her BCUZ I TOUCHED HER WEIRDLY I THINK. There is this girl on youtube thats like my role model. she is about 16 (because she likes this guys and so do i. lol idk.) and crissy looks alot like her i think(so when she walks in a room my heart skips. like im meeting a celebtrity. I dont know why! i barely know crissy and i like boys alot and i have never had a crush on another girl. when i think about being bi i want to kill myself, because i have always thought being lesbian or bi is VERY wrong! im not sure how I feel! plz dont say do what you want or some ppl are born bi! bcuz in my opinion its satan and i keep telling myself this!! but PLZZZZZ HELP!!
2007-10-30 09:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry *COACH*
2007-10-30 09:43:46 · update #1
The Bible says that it is ment for 1 man and 1 woman. God dosn't make people born gay or bi. That's peoples own choice. Satan is trying to tempt you and you just have to stay strong and ask God for help and guidence. I'll pray for you!
2007-10-30 09:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by J-Lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what is called a "girl crush". Don't worry, it doesn't mean you're bi. It just means that you admire another girl very much, so much that you develop a "crush" on her. You can admire this girl for a number of reasons, but I think what's going on here is that you have a "crush" on this Crissy girl because she looks like one of your role models. Don't worry; you are by no means bi. :)
2007-10-30 09:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Erin has a crush on Brandon♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sexual feelings is NEVER wrong. Acting on them may or may not be.
Here's an extreme example of that -- a large fraction of men have sexual feelings for their daughters, who are of course are often younger, prettier, and more obedient versions of their wives. Acting on those feelings, however, is HORRIFICALLY wrong. Most men don't, and those who do get locked up in jail for a looooong time.
Now, compared to that -- how bad are sexual feelings for a girl your own age?
Obviously, you're basing your negative reaction on your religion. Fine. But that religion wouldn't have a whole lot of rules in it unless the people (or other beings) who made the rules realized that humans had urges to behave in violation of those rules. The urges themselves are normal.
2007-10-30 12:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get this straight: you're NOT going to hell for being bi. over half the people in my church are gay/bi! If you're bi, fine. If you're really freaked out, remember that you could always ignore your feelings for girls and just date boys. Also, it might be just a phase. Just see where this goes and don't worry. :-)
2007-10-30 09:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 12:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that it's celebrity worship because she looks like the other girl....
2007-10-30 09:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly?
get over it.
if it's so wrong to you, then just ignore it.
simple as that.
2007-10-30 09:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by crazygolucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ULL BE FINE
2007-10-30 10:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by dorisrussell60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋