My girlfriend and I want to try something new in bed but neither of us are that creative. Any suggestions?

Question

I wont resort to violence so that is out.

Answer 1

Kama Sutra ring a bell? Search for this and it will give you so many options, positions. But one thing just do whatever feel comfortable, the posibilites are endless. Ask your g/f she may tell you what she wants.

Answer 2

NEVER INVITE ANOTHER INDIVIDUAL!!!!! Just wanted to make sure I said that right off the bat. The best thing you can do is communicate. Find out what makes her feel good and go from there. If she likes being touched a certain way or place, buy a toy that focuses on that area. Suggest that you guys watch a pornographic film together to get ideas on new positions you can try. Visit a sex shop TOGETHER. Browse the store and see what is mutually appealing to you both. At the end of the day, the more you talk to each other about what you both like, the more creative you will get. Always remember to consider your partners comfort level though.

Answer 3

Hmm, well a 3sum is good. A year ago me and my man had one (but I had certain rules in place to make me feel comfie) and it was fun!! I would totally do it again. But if you do that I would recommend to NOT do it with someone who is a close friend, maybe pick someone who lives like cities away. Also, one night I came home and my man had gotten bondage straps in the bed that like basically wrap around it, and that turned out to be really fun too. You could always watch porn and talk dirty to each other, I mean, that's not that far out and that's fun too. You can get a black light and glow in the dark paint and paint each other, just drink so it's funner, that's something silly you could do that ends up turning out serious in the end. Or you could just paint each other with edible stuff. Or another easy thing is going out to a park at night and doing it out in the open, y'all can feel like naughty teenagers again. There's a trillion things you two can do it just sounds like you need to TRY and be more creative instead of just saying you aren't.

Answer 4

Go to Barnes and Noble, or Borders, or any big book store, and get this book called 'A New Position Everyday', or something along those lines. It's got 365 different positions in them. Some of them I'm pretty sure aren't possible and would just be dangerous or painful, but some are real and could give you some ideas. If you don't want to actually buy the book, just go and look at it to get your creativity going.

Answer 5

Watch a soft adult film. I dont mean stuff that makes you feel uncomfortable tho. Have a few drinks too. I find that we and my partner both loosen up then and talk about the film and whether we would of wouldnt do the things in it. Also quite comical especially channel five stuff. Hope this helps you both relax and talk about ideas. Otherwise get a book from anne summers, they aint all that bad. If u r too shy to buy one, order 1 off ebay.
Good luck

Answer 6

Kamasutram, is also known to the Western world as Kama Sutra, is an ancient Indian text widely considered to be the standard work on love in Sanskrit literature. This is authored by Mallanaga Vatsyayana. A portion of the work deals with human sexual behavior. Read it.

Answer 7

Get a book or look up positions online and try some new ones.

Role playing.

Adult toys.

Talk about some of your fantasies and see if there are any the two of you would be comfy acting out.

Answer 8

Ive always found risky fun,( no!not unprotected sex in S.F ) amusement park rides, hiking trails on a busy day, once got caught at the Renaissance fair, she had one of those big hoop dresses on so it wasn't much of a show, but I did appreciate the applauds. she turned as red as a beet and laughed till she nearly puked, I took a bow.

Answer 9

Watch porn I know it's kind of perverted but you can learn many positions watching porn and it's the best way to learn.Or if you want to complicate the matter you can always buy a sex books with different positions if worse comes to worse get a sex doctor or have a threesome.

Answer 10

Try anything that u dream of like a fantasy or anything u see or think of, be open mind & get down with it be a freak. I do recommend to rent a room & watch some pornos while u at it!