He finally met a new girl and wrote me about her. Does it mean that the 20 phone calls a day and the 30 emails a day are going to stop. I hope so because I don't know how much more I can take. Why did he want to tell me about a new woman though? HMMMMM I had better think about this some more. it might just be another game he is trying to play. I swear some people are crazy!!!!
2007-10-30 03:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Patty M 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Patty , it sounds like the *boy is obsessed with you ! (You know this though , right ?) I would think it is a possible ploy from a warped mind that he perceives you as getting jealous and responding to his attentions more favorably....Be very cautious and don't expect any cessation in his previous behavior .
2007-10-30 07:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by pax5155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying to gage your reaction and he is hoping for jealousy on your part.
The only way to deal with it is to cut him off completely. Do not take his calls. If you happen to pick up your phone and it's him, tell him you do not want contact with him anymore. If he continues to call, do not say anything just hang up. Block his email address and stick to your guns.
It may sound harsh, but unfortunately, it is the only way to get your message across. Make it clear that you do not want anything more to do with him, and if you start to feel bad, think about how manipulative it is of him to harass and bait you.
2007-10-30 03:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That pyscho is a stalker. Get a restraining order. Man 20-30 times a day what the heck is his problem? He don't have a life? Gosh man for real get rid of him.
2007-10-30 04:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by I am mizz chilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you are describing this guy is still in love with you. the new girl thing does sound like a ploy to make you jealous. If you are really over him. my suggestion is to change you email or just black list him from it and then change you number. if he keeps trying to get in touch he definitely a stalker. then I would suggest to call the police and get a restraining order on him. because he sound loco
2007-10-30 03:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's still calling you 20 times a day and emailing you 30 then the "new girl" is probably just a ploy because in his twisted mind he thinks it will make you jealous. just ignore him, bump his emails or change your address and don't answer his calls, he'll get the message eventually... or start stalking you. good luck.
2007-10-30 03:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rissa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to get your attention, be careful, it doesn't sound good or feels safe for you and you're right, there's a lot of crazy and sick individuals out there.
2007-10-30 03:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok cool story but what should i answer? lol
its just a game trust me it is a way of men to make ladies jealus
2007-10-30 03:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Bianka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just trying to make you jealous and see what your reaction would be. Ignore him and see what he does.
2007-10-30 03:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wish...but i think it's another tactic to make you jealous and see how u would react...so just be careful chica...i hope this is it.....just lets see...
2007-10-30 05:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by doc cool!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your question?? uhm i think tho that he still has feelings for you, and is trying to make you jelous.
2007-10-30 03:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋