What causes love? I need to know why love is so painful at times? Why do people fall in love so fast, and I am messing with three girls and they don't know about each other. The one I really love is far away so I have two other girls that are close to me, Why do I need to do this? Is it because I need attention?
2007-10-30 17:56:39 · 1 answers · asked by Curtis C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Curtis, if your not just bs, listen. Love is nothing more then an emotion, its job; make you feel! Thats it, now the complicated stuff. What you feel, how you handling those feelings, and to what intensity, CONTROLS what we precieve to be love. It's just love is RAW, if you feel anything, its because of that emotion. Its sort of the, I accept this exsist emotion. While hate, isn't exactly what we think it is (this is the twist really) we confuse ANGER with hate, see hate is the complete opposite of love. If you felt nothing, it was because of hate. Its sort of the different between if I just shot you, didn't feel nothing, didn't even acknowledge it happen and went about my day. COMPARED to if I tied you up, raped you continusly for several days, tortured you, then ate your body. See thats actually love, crazy huh? But people are primed to have certain feelings about certian things, just becuase of what their taught, experienced, and percieve. Thats why when we see pretty people we get ALL excited, we've been conditioned to feel all kinds of things having to do with, social status, personal accomplishments, animal ambitions, and our feelings of belonging, they just go flooding (better like storming, I like storming....) thru us, this is what "falling in love" is all about. Really with someone you precieve you can love, you do all the work, the person could be a complete butt, and POW thanks to the way you feel, how you handle it, and the intensity, you'll deal with that crap. Now for your sitution personally, well you'd have to waste some of your time there and e-mail me, I need answers to my own questions to help you with that, that aside, thats why love can be so darn confusing, were not taught its true nature......
2007-11-01 12:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋