Well me and this guy went out not to long ago and i broke up with him like a dumb because i was lost but i still love him and he has a girlfriend but he told me he thinks about me all the time and he loves me to but he doesnt want to hurt the girl hes with and he doesnt really no what he should de but he told me to be patient and just wait untill he finds out what he should do. Should i wait ?? what do i do ??
2007-10-30 17:29:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him a short - period of time and tell him he needs to break it off with the girl cause you wont be around forever
2007-10-30 17:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you should NOT wait. You should walk away and look for nicer guys to date. If he really wanted to be with you instead of her, he would have dumped her already. (Think about it -- "he doesn't want to hurt her," but he's willing to leave you hanging out to dry indefinitely while he continues to date her? Isn't that presumably hurting YOU? Shouldn't that bother him? It should bother you!) Actually, if he was a guy worth having, he wouldn't have said anything to you until she was out of the picture -- it is incredibly unfair to both you and to her. If that doesn't bother you and make you mad, you should think about it a little harder. I have a feeling he has no intention of breaking up with her. I'll bet he's hoping to two-time the both of you, or at best, just keep you hanging around in case he eventually gets bored with his girlfriend. (Maybe he's even getting revenge for you breaking up with him before by keeping you hanging now!) But even if he does eventually break up with her, you shouldn't go out with him -- this does NOT sound like a guy you can trust (is that why you broke up with him the first time)? Also, he will NOT respect you for waiting around for him while he continues to date his girlfriend and buy her flowers -- he will assume he can treat you anyway he wants and you'll put up with it.
Don't be a sap. You made the right decision when you broke up with him the first time.
2007-10-30 17:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't wait. Move on. Wish him the best and find someone who wants to be your Right Now and not your In a Minute.
If someone asked his gf how their relationship was going, I'm sure she'd say things were fine. He's playing you.
2007-10-30 17:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wait??
If he really liked/loved you then he would be with you.
Don't be someones side dish. You should be the main course.
Good luck
2007-10-30 17:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
He's with someone.
If you get back with him, YOU will be that someone, and he'll be thinking of someone else constantly.
He's doing that to his current girlfriend, what makes you think he won't do that to you?
2007-10-30 17:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be patient. Show him that you understand that he doesn't want to hurt her but not being with him is killing you.
2007-10-30 17:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Missmoneybags 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no........
find the man for you.....the man who won't give up anybody for you.....
if you wait for him to give up the other women, time will come, he will also give you up for the sake of another woman.....don't trust the man when he says you are better than others......he will also tell other women the same line someday......
trust me......i've been there.....
2007-10-30 17:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, he isnt done screwing her yet.
2007-10-30 17:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋