Singles & Dating - 26 September 2007

I recently suggested to a guy that I shared a more than a friend relationship with for us 2 be friends and nothing more. I only suggested this cause we couldn't seem to get along. I really didn't want to, but I thought that it might be for the best. I didn't want us to end up hating each other and not ever speaking again. I mean, I would rather have him in my life as a friend than as nothing at all.My mind told me things aren't going to get better. However, my heart was telling me to tell him "Let's work it out, because I love you so much". He knows that I care, and I know that he cares, but we have never just looked each other in the face and said the words "I love you". Well, it has been two weeks since our agreement, and I still can't get him off my mind. It's so hard cause, we go to the same college. Whenever we see each other, we say hi. Sometimes he will make a crazy comment. I'll roll my eyes in a playful way and say "wuteva". My heart is smiling the whole time.Then we go on.

2007-09-26 05:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jojo601 1

affair even though im dating 5 guys??? what to do??

2007-09-26 05:46:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my ex for a short time, i ended lying to him and losing him. After that he forgave me and we became friends and we'd hang out and chill. This past april, i found out he was engaged to his first girlfriend which they were to gether for 6 years before me. And i decided to brake off our friendship because i just had stronger feelings that i suspected. Well they broke up and he is single now and working full time and going to school full time and he has told me repreatedly that he does not want to be in a relationship because he has no time. I finally told him that i am in love with him and he gave me the same response, lets just be friends and see what happens. Yesterday he calls me and said he ex took a pregnancy test and it came out positive. I was hurt and devasted and he said i was reacting overboard. He told me **** happens, that im taking it worst than both of them, but i am in love with him. I dont think he understands. What should i do, i feel helpless.

2007-09-26 05:41:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 05:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by S D 1

2007-09-26 05:33:54 · 21 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5

We've been dating for a year and 2 months now and everyone other month or so he tells me he imagines himself being single. He imagines that he won't be held back from his music or going to grad school. But i really don't think i'm holding him back from any of that....in fact i've encouraged him to continue to work at both. I don't know if it's typical for men to want to break up and be single every once in a while or if REALLY wants to end it, but is afraid to hurt me. We talked about it yesterday and he told me it was just thoughts, and he really wants to be with me..... it just feels like this happens alot. Any advice?

2007-09-26 05:30:54 · 17 answers · asked by lailage 2

2007-09-26 05:22:00 · 18 answers · asked by jim m 1

He must Always and ONLY be available & accountable to YOU; His eyes and mind are yours to control and he must NEVER look at or think about another female...including his mother; Always share his deepest feelings with you but KEEP his personal opinions to himself; He may only hang out with his friends that YOU approve of and ALWAYS check in with you where ever he is.

If he objects to any of these rules, he's a jerk and is possibly / PROBABLY already cheating.

2007-09-26 05:19:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 05:13:34 · 22 answers · asked by Kristina T 1

But I don't think its mine. How can I trust her? She
is calling my house and telling people its mine. What should I do?

2007-09-26 05:09:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never engage in another relationship after a break up, so I have no idea what a rebound is, need examples and clear explations..

2007-09-26 05:03:52 · 22 answers · asked by Worried 1

Hi,
My husband of 2 years and I went on a holiday to Bangkok. We visited a dance bar. My hubby fell for a topless dancer and divorced me. This was 2 years ago. I developed a fear of any relationship since.
For the last 10 months, I have been going out with a nice guy. He wants us to hit the sack but I have been asking for more time. He will jump at the first chance but has been okay so far.
He was very active sexually but has been sober for a while. I hope he continues that way.
We live in London. We spend evenings together.
His company is asking him to go to Bangkok for a month. I am now afraid. If he sleeps with any girl, our relationship will be finished. I know how tough it is for men to control themselves in Bangkok. My BF promises to be a good boy but I am getting nervous. I lost a hubby (good riddance). A second loss, I won't be able to take. How do I save my love from the Thai beauties?

2007-09-26 05:03:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why would my boyfriend since I was 16 (he was 18) cheat on me with this trashy girl (she has no education at 24 yrs old, no license to drive, no car, shes a fast food worker, an alcoholic and a hoe) repeatedly ending up having a TWO kids with her and when I left him, he went to stay with her but he wouldnt leave me alone and always telling me he loved me and so on and trying to be at my house every day-while she is getting mad that he isnt there with her and her kids. To this day he acts as if it was a mistake from him having problems and not having himself together, and that he NEVER wanted to be around her let alone have kids with her and so on? If that is the case why can he have kept cheating on me with her. He goes overboard to try and make this up to me and tell me he wants to get married and settle down with me-I DONT understand at all. PLEASE dont tell em to leave him b/c thats not my issue or question-I want to know why he did it if he says she is SO awful and a loser!

2007-09-26 04:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

every time i try to develop an understanding with the opposite sex- where i'm o'k with just being freinds, they don't appreciate that and want more
now i need to cut him loose and he's not taking me seriously
i don't want it anymore and now our freindship is going to be ruinned over this

easy let down suggestions pleaz

2007-09-26 04:46:03 · 14 answers · asked by wonder 2

i know people say that if you're married young than you'll have more problems because you're both still figuring out who you are. But, what if you're just mature? What if you believe you found that person, it's just your age that makes it seem juvenile? The age I'm talking about is 19-20.

2007-09-26 04:24:55 · 16 answers · asked by ~)~) 3

Texts and calls constantly and then out of the blue stops. Won't talk to me for a day or two and then starts back up. Is it a game? Does he have someone else? Dementia?

2007-09-26 04:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies a lot of guys these days are sporting the single-straight line goatee (chin hair), do you all like that look?

2007-09-26 04:08:05 · 5 answers · asked by Margaritavillian 6

Has anyone acted on a taboo fantasy? I am curious to hear about your experiences. What was the fantasy? Did actually going through with it live up to your expectations?

2007-09-26 04:07:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

People always say, be nice, be honest especially when it comes to girls. Sometimes, i just feel that being straightforward and honest has a price to be paid. Does being too honest and nice cost dearly? Where do we draw the line, when it comes to relationships? It really hurts..

2007-09-26 04:02:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

because it doesn't seem the 'kiss on the hand' does the trick anymore...i've had my mates to me its the neck and others say its the forehead. only woman answer please! need to know for my new girlfriend :o)

2007-09-26 03:57:59 · 48 answers · asked by Thank Me Later... 4

I saw this girl the other night at a restaurant. She saw me when I came in but I was seated where her back was to me. She went to the restroom and looked at me and smiled when she came back to her table. As I was leaving I passed by her table and she turned and looked at me with the biggest smile and said hi. Was she attracted to me and was she flirting with me? What did she want me to do?

2007-09-26 03:57:17 · 34 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3

In a relationship, do you tend to move wayy to fast, too slow, or just right for your significant other?

2007-09-26 03:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by rcds23 6

I always had exotic fantasies of me having sex with my 3rd grade teacher, and also my 5th grade teacher. Of course I am a male so that is to be expected. Any hot teachers I have I will fantasize about. Does anyone else do this?

2007-09-26 03:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

One year and half ago i had to have a ft and a half removed from my small intestine. They do not know why this happened or what causes it. Since then i've been on medication for my digestive system and chronic fatigue syndrome. It took me 4 months to recover enough to get out of bed and be more active. I currently enrolled in a dental program and hope to gain more energy to eventually lose the weight and more importantly gain my self esteem back. All of my friends give me compliments all the time, but are they just being nice cause they don't want to hurt my feelings?

2007-09-26 03:51:26 · 11 answers · asked by PicaSSo of Parta PlnN 2

One year and half ago i had to have a ft and a half removed from my small intestines. They do not know why this happened or what causes it. Since then i've been on medication for my digestive system. It took me 4 months to recover enought to get out of bed and be more active. I currently enrolled in a dental program and hope to gain more energy to eventually lose the weight and more importantly gain my self esteem back. All of my friends give me compliments all the time, but are they just being nice cause they don't want to hurt my feelings?

2007-09-26 03:49:18 · 39 answers · asked by PicaSSo of Parta PlnN 2

she likes mean but shes very unattractive what do i say

2007-09-26 03:48:24 · 23 answers · asked by trinidadboy0313 1

please do answer seriously..oh my God, I know this sounds so pathetic but I really need to hear from you guys..He's been with me for almost a year now..but I've caught him several times..texting other girls..ok..he has this habit of getting interested with other girls..dating, texting them out..and when I find out (God, I check his phone without him knowing it!),he would discard them..i know men are men but isn't there any chance that he would just stick with me..just me!..whenever i bring the issue out, he would actually put the blame on me..i was supposed to be the one angry because he's kinda flirting with other women but he turns the table on me..and he gets mad because I check his phone..Oh God, I know, I should be dumping him..but i just couldn't..he could easily talk things out smoothly and makes it appear like it was my fault..he actually doesn't think that he's doing something bad..what am i supposed to do..is he really right? am i just overreacting?..

2007-09-26 03:44:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it is somewhat important for a relationship to have intimacy...however, sex is not something I have any interest in...in fact, i am scared of it. It is painful and just not worth it. I actually think that unless you want a child, it is dumb. I dont enjoy it and I am starting to think that it is because my mom made sex look unappealing my whole life. I feel dirty and unhappy....even if my boyfriend and I make out...We are planning on getting married soon...in life six months, but I dread our honeymoon. I dont know why I have this hatred for it. My boyfriend is very understanding...but I feel awful because I do get turned on, but I never want to act on it. Its very frusterating when I cant even enjoy a long kiss. I am scared to death of a gynecologist...I tried to go, but I cried so hard that I just drove home. Maybe someone out there can tell me why I am so strange? Do women actually enjoy sex? It doesnt seem like I will ever warm up to my sexual side!!!

2007-09-26 03:40:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 03:25:22 · 25 answers · asked by amylthree 1

women dating younger men, after what age difference do you feel its not right.....?

2007-09-26 03:25:18 · 8 answers · asked by Cupcake.....:) 4