I recently suggested to a guy that I shared a more than a friend relationship with for us 2 be friends and nothing more. I only suggested this cause we couldn't seem to get along. I really didn't want to, but I thought that it might be for the best. I didn't want us to end up hating each other and not ever speaking again. I mean, I would rather have him in my life as a friend than as nothing at all.My mind told me things aren't going to get better. However, my heart was telling me to tell him "Let's work it out, because I love you so much". He knows that I care, and I know that he cares, but we have never just looked each other in the face and said the words "I love you". Well, it has been two weeks since our agreement, and I still can't get him off my mind. It's so hard cause, we go to the same college. Whenever we see each other, we say hi. Sometimes he will make a crazy comment. I'll roll my eyes in a playful way and say "wuteva". My heart is smiling the whole time.Then we go on.
2007-09-26 05:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jojo601 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It just hasn't been enough time. Trust you judgment. It doesn't sound like you came to the decisions without serious consideration. If you decided to be friends because the romance wasn't working out, you were probably right. Don't rush back in to the romance. Surround yourself with other supportive friends and keep busy...very busy. We all get lonely from time to time and two weeks can seem like forever when you are lonely. But it really isn't. If you still feel the same after a couple of months of actually trying to move on, it may be time to reevaluate.
2007-09-26 05:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lost Leo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to those books girlie, your way to ditsey for a relationship. Mature for a while, volunteer, join a campus church service, stay away from men for 6 months, and do some respectable work for others, in this way I think your perspective will change. So I'm saying work on your self, don't obsess about some guy who hardley cares or matters, expand your world cause its too small.
2007-09-26 12:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same damn thing a few weeks back, seems like an eternity and 6 guys later, but the whole thing blew up, he became hypercritical, insensitive, and even forgot that he invited me over and treated me like crap when I got there, I was there bfore work to give him a quickie BL*w JB, and I spun around and left. Too much DRAMA. Fact is, I really enjoyed his personality, he was hillarious, but we obviously couldnt get along and like I thought, his pride got in the way and we no longer speak to one another. Sorry sweety, take your time while you have it. :) You will be OK.-Rachel.
2007-09-26 14:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have these feelings because you are still in love with the man. You can't just shut them off and get them to stop immediately.
It's like a cut on your finger. Everything you do will make it hurt, but eventually it will heal. Give it time.
Maybe not tomorrow, but soon, things will seem e little easier.
Best of luck to you.
2007-09-26 12:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
you got to work it out. tell him you love him. im guy , he must be feeling so sad. trust me follow your heart. relationships need to work it out. it just not feelings its a choice. its hard but don’t regret, im in so bad situation but i still have hope, and i am working on it and hope she will say to day she love me again. try never ever give up.
2007-09-26 13:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by just lost it all 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is smiling all the time... You love the guy stupid blind person. Really funny. If this is the thing you dont know about yourself, what do you know?
2007-09-26 12:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by radharani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt is the only word I can find down here. Commitment? Dun think it's even possible.
2007-09-26 12:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by Bernstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋