Singles & Dating - 20 September 2007

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2007-09-20 07:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want some feedback from some guys in their early 20s about "dating". I'm 22 and I have the hardest time finding guys that actually want to "date" and really get to know me and hang out without just wanting sex. I was starting to think it was me but the more I think about it it might just be how young guys (22, 23, 24) are. What usually happens is I'll meet a guy we'll go on an actual date the first time each time after that they just want to hang out at home. I'm pretty sure they want to hang out at home just to get some. This will
I feel like either way its a lose lose situation because if I give in they get what they want and disappear, If I don't give in they stop calling. I have been told that I am extremely attractive and I have no trouble attracting a guy its just that none of them seem to stick around.I have lots of friends and what I think is a good personality. I'm getting to the point where I can predict everything that will happen when I meet a guy. I am soo frus

2007-09-20 07:32:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 1

We where dating and living together and things didnt work out for us. I dont want to be rude and throw her out but dont know how to get her out.

2007-09-20 07:27:18 · 55 answers · asked by Jim M 1

I have 4 girlfriends but each of the girls thinks I am only with her. I am worried that one of them will find out and then from 4 girls I'll have none. But it just feels so good even though it's wrong. What should I do?

I'm actually worried because if 1 of them finds out, then the others will too and then maybe they'll give me a 5-some...but on the other end they might just become lesbians.

2007-09-20 07:20:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 years old and in college, I'm a really nice guy, but i have never had a girlfriend. I know "nice guys finish last" but I don't think I need to change/I don't know how to change. I'm really good friends with this girl but in an argument that we had a couple of months ago she said she didn't have any feeling for me. I don't know if she is changing her mind about liking me or not but she has been calling me almost everyday to say Hi and to see what I'm doing. I give her rides to school everyday because I like hanging out with her. I have done a lot for this girl however it feels like it will never be enough. I gave her flowers on valentines day last year, I take her out to dinner, I pay and drive when we hang out (she sometimes offers to pay), I have been there for her almost every time she needed something. It may sound like she is using me, but I don't think so. I know I could ask her out again but I don't knw if I want to end our friendship if she says no. What am I doing wrong?

2007-09-20 07:16:20 · 15 answers · asked by BAS 2

Whenever my biyfriend laughs (even if I think it is something really stupid) - I have to laugh. Just to hear him laugh - makes me laugh too.

2007-09-20 07:14:46 · 22 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5

what is the difference between being "manipulative", and setting boundaries in the relationship?
i cant stand him when he has been smoking pot

2007-09-20 07:09:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

... he doesn't know anything about MySpace but doesn't like it at all. I'm 100% faithful and not a flirty girl WHAT-SO-EVER. Anyway, I created a MySpace for him MONTHS AGO and that was a huge mistake - he read through all my comments and twisted everything around and got VERY ANGRY with me. When a girlfriend wrote, "XOXO" he accused me of being a lesbian. Anyway, he deleted me from his myspace (now he only has 1 friend on there) and he hasn't had a chance to log on to his because our computer had been down. Well - our computer works and now he wants me to show him my MySpace but I know it'll just create a HUGGGGGGGGGGGE fight. He doesn't like me telling friends what I've done on the weekends, etc., etc.

Should I HAVE to show him, or do I have a right to my own privacy? If I show him, it'll cause a fight. If I don't show him, it'll cause a fight.

I have nothing to hide. But then again, he might see a friend tell me that they miss me and get angry!

2007-09-20 07:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by hello g 2

I go to church and see a girl, she has a sister and I have talked to her sister but it seems lik every time that I try to talk to her she is always next to her friends or family and I never get to talk to her alone to try to get to know her.

2007-09-20 06:55:41 · 5 answers · asked by hurt_heart 1

2007-09-20 06:50:45 · 17 answers · asked by ellen 4

I kind of deeply in love with a man who still had feelings for his ex. I know he is still talking to her, and it is a posibility they are going or still in the process of hooking up. Her name is JACKIE. But the problem is WHY DO I KEEP SEEING OR HEARING HER NAME EVERY WHERE. I am so sick and tired of hearing the name Jackie. for example. I go to the mall I need some help I walk up to a lady her name was Jackie, or I call the operator and her name is Jackie... I have finally got to the point where I left this man alone, because he still had feelings for his ex and I was getting hurt. So can anyone tell me why I keep seeing the current or ex's name so much...

P.S.. I have told him about this coincidence about her name, he told me that they are trying to get back together...Awww man!!!! I think i'm going crazy..

2007-09-20 06:42:31 · 15 answers · asked by Candy87 1

i met someone online and i liked him coze he was soo cool,then after chatting for 2 or 3 monthes we begin to date,But lately he broke his hand so he cant be online anymore
but i really really love him and i want to talk to him
wat can i do?

2007-09-20 06:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by MADELINE 2 1

She is thinking she may have a life without kids if she stays with me and I have told her that's not true, but she wants a child NOW. That seems to be all that matters to her. Her best friend just got pregnant too. This is a smart girl from a good family, so am I. She was telling me she loved me so much just up to a couple of weeks ago. Is it over? Is she really going to go out and find someone this quick to give her a child now? We are so close to making it happen. why do this now? all she tells me is, "i can't talk about it now," which doesn't help me out much. Has she given up or is it normal for women at this age/stage to do this to a man who just two weeks ago she wanted to have a child with. I am out in the cold on this. Do I just give up? Is that what she wants...me to just walk away? any women who have gone through this please clue me in on what to do. thanks for your help.

2007-09-20 06:27:42 · 9 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2

I would really like to know...........

2007-09-20 06:27:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... well... i have been friends with this boy for just over a year now, i fancied him from day 1... but he didn't know.
He lives about 3 hours from me! We became really good mates online and i met him in person about 2 months ago.
It went really well and thats when i fell for him.
I saw him again a few days ago... he came down to see me.
We was hugging, holding hands and kissing like a couple so i'm guessing he likes me back as he told me so.
The thing is he lives 3 hours away... and back at his home he has a girlfriend.
I really don't know what to do! He knows how i feel about him and he said he likes me in that way.
He said if the distance wasn't between us he would deffinately go out with me its just... the distance is there and he has a girlfriend.
I really really love him and i don't know what to do.
Is it possible that he can really love his girlfriend if he is doing this behind her back?
HELP ME!

2007-09-20 06:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by Alziebee 2

i don't get noticed much, and when i do it's always the shy and dummy guy.... never had a serious relationship and frankly i don't get men sometimes...

anyway, is it all about looks? i'm not beautiful, but no worse then some.... and yes, i can carry on a conversation

ps, don't get me wrong, sometimes being invisible suits me just fine, but i was just wondering what do other females in the same position have to say about this

2007-09-20 06:16:15 · 24 answers · asked by catharsis 4

I am :-)

2007-09-20 06:13:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok lil about me i am in the army infantry soldiers i am heading to war in cpl of months and i met this girl and i like her alot we only talked for about a week now i like her a lot she seems like the only i want to spend my life with i want to marry her before i head off for war i dont want to die alone but is this a reason to get married so soon? i know it can work but is it so soon?plus i am getting old im 28 with no family and my life goal is to have that american dream a family with that white picket fence
thank u for reply no matter good or bad reply thank u

2007-09-20 06:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by sickpuppy79 1

He loves the outdoors, he is 22, and I just really don't know what to get him. Clothes? Jewlery? Gift Cards? He's gotten me a diamond pendent for a necklas, taken me to Colorado a couple times, I don't want to spend more than $200.00. HELP PLEASE :) Thanks

2007-09-20 05:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if he has given you insecurities, and you are embarrised by some of the things he does

2007-09-20 05:52:47 · 4 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4

2007-09-20 05:42:24 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have got on really well with him for a long time, then one night he tells me that hes Gay and tells me the details about his BF. Its a bit of a shock. What should I do?

2007-09-20 05:31:12 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is probably weird that i'm 18, never had a boyfriend, never been kissed and the guy's 19, never had a girlfriend and never been kissed either. But anywya, we both like each other a lot and we already told each other. The thing is, he's so shy, I keep telling him if he ever wants to come over to my apt or go out, just let me know, but when he drops me off after work, he sends me a text a few minutes later saying how he really wanted to hang out but i looked tired or i seemed like i had somehting else do, etc. and once he asked for a hug but I guess he didn't think i was gonna hug him (i was going to) but he said he was joking. i think its pretty obvious that he's gonna be too shy to make the first move, and we're going out tomorrow for the first time (we've know each other for 7 months) so should I kiss him, or wait for him to do it?

2007-09-20 05:28:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

irealy like this boy called cameron and he is soo cute , i wish we were going out and everytime i see him i just think its a realy good dream but realy its real!
what can i do to make him like me Like:
. what should i act like around him
. what makeup to wear
ect .
I love him please help

2007-09-20 05:22:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i was in a long term relationship and we broke it off about 10 months ago.. i can admit that i was very hurt and that i had planned on purposing to this girl..after we broke up.. i met this girl through a mutual friend...we ended up dating for about 2 months.. this girl is gorgeous, sexy, smart and just has an overall auseome personality. plus she really lets me know that she appreciates even the smallest things that i do for her... ive never had anyone treat me like that before... i really like her and care about her but still have this weird standoffish feeling that i cant seem to get over... i dont get it..she perfect for me..HELLO!! its everything i want and have been searching for my whole life..what the hell is wrong with me...?? should i stay in this knowing how i feel and hope that i can stop feeling standoffish? but what if i dont, thats not fair to her....or should i tell her that maybe im not ready for a relationship, hurt her and possibly loose her?

2007-09-20 05:06:27 · 7 answers · asked by zxcv 2

we were walking, and a big dog came out of knowwhere running towards us! the guy i liked was afraid of it, and hid behind me, then the dog walked away, then the guy said "i know i hid behind you, but if that was a bear, i wouldn't do that"

2007-09-20 05:01:38 · 55 answers · asked by ngirl 1

or someone who is off limitts....?? Does it make the prize better?

2007-09-20 04:45:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My physician is in his mid-forties and I am in my early thirties. After surgery a few weeks ago I caught him starring at me while I was sleeping in the hospital room. The lights were off and I thought he was just "checking on me" and did not want to disturb me so I went back to sleep. Approximately two minutes later the light comes on, he calls my name and wants to speak with me. He acted as if he had just walked in. Since then, I have noticed at my follow-up appointments that he is not accompanied with a nurse and it is just the two of us in the room. He never touches me inappropriately when examining me but he does move my hair away from my face (I have very long hair). Last time I saw him our eyes met but nothing else happened. He appeared to be frustrated afterward and sent me on my way (nicely of course). The next time I saw him we had a nurse in the room. What do you think? What was the staring for?

-Minnesota

2007-09-20 04:29:34 · 1 answers · asked by simply confused 1

Just for the experienced.

2007-09-20 04:12:06 · 7 answers · asked by Lucy,I'm honry! 4

Women are all over you and another "perfect woman" shows up every few weeks?

2007-09-20 04:09:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous