okay so i was in a long term relationship and we broke it off about 10 months ago.. i can admit that i was very hurt and that i had planned on purposing to this girl..after we broke up.. i met this girl through a mutual friend...we ended up dating for about 2 months.. this girl is gorgeous, sexy, smart and just has an overall auseome personality. plus she really lets me know that she appreciates even the smallest things that i do for her... ive never had anyone treat me like that before... i really like her and care about her but still have this weird standoffish feeling that i cant seem to get over... i dont get it..she perfect for me..HELLO!! its everything i want and have been searching for my whole life..what the hell is wrong with me...?? should i stay in this knowing how i feel and hope that i can stop feeling standoffish? but what if i dont, thats not fair to her....or should i tell her that maybe im not ready for a relationship, hurt her and possibly loose her?
2007-09-20 05:06:27 · 7 answers · asked by zxcv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax...it wont hurt if you let your friendship with this new girl blossom more...
And pray the ROSARY, whether you are a Catholic or not...it helped me a lot before when my boyfriend broke up with me some years ago.
Insights from daily prayer...from God will be enough for each and everyone of us.
2007-09-20 05:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Reign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, here's the deal. You've heard she's got 'it', right? You know what happens when you've got 'it'. You are 'it', but in the game of life, everyone chases you, instead of vice versa. Then, having 'it', you recognize someone else with 'it'. And you get to pick from the cream of the crop, instead of leftovers. Life isn't always fair. If you don't follow the rules of physics, you're not going to be able to fly, that I know of. Same with the rules of life. So 'it' is something like listening to your intuition and having Emotional Intelligence. Things you can study. There are a few other rules, any one of which can make you the witch, the who, what and why also. Instead of figuring out someone else, you just figure out yourself. Pretty neat, huh? Then you understand most everybody and can pass it on by helping them. You get a best world that way as something good, like a good joke, travels the world and goes into every language.
2007-09-24 08:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship is still fairly new so you have many options. If you think that you don't want to ruin things with her, then you should think things over before telling her how you feel. You could just be going through a faze and you just need to snap out of it and telling her how you feel, you could lose her and mess something up that could be potentially the best thing in your life. But you should evaluate what you want and then act accordingly. Good luck!
2007-09-20 12:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by benz s55 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have been hurt and you are afraid of being hurt again.
once bitten ,twice shy.
i would tell her how you feel, before you lose her. they try a shrink.
2007-09-20 12:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is letting go of fear.
2007-09-20 12:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to keep her you better get over it now!
2007-09-20 12:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
typical, want what you can't have...
2007-09-20 12:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋