even if he has given you insecurities, and you are embarrised by some of the things he does
2007-09-20 05:52:47 · 4 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since everyone is different and has different expectations from the people who they love, whether it be family, friends or that "certain someone", I can't expect everyone to answer this question with a simple one-size-fits-all answer but, I do know that most people have similar things they want with someone they want to share their life with.
For myself, I believe that I know if I have a good relationship when I can count on my man to make me feel good even when my day has been very, very bad.
What I mean by this is not what you're thinking...of course, good sex is great but, its not all about sex. Its also about trust, loving, laughter, doing things together and enjoying each other's company, honesty and intimacy in and out of the bedroom.
A cuddle on the couch in front of a good movie, a walk on the beach or in the woods, hand in hand, a playful wrestling match or pillow fight, a long romantic dinner, staring at each other in the candlelight, while playing "toe-tag" under the tablecloth...mmm...and laughing at a joke or a show that makes us almost pee our pants. Sitting outside and watching an in-coming storm, or admiring a beautiful flower, or gazing in awe at an old, wise tree.
All of these things represent to me that, if enjoyed together, are signs that the relationship is good.
I'm not easily embarrassed, and insecurity is something you do to yourself so, these things would not bother me. The only deal breaker for me is if we are committed to each other, and he cheats. I cannot and will not abide a cheater. Otherwise, everything else can be worked on, if both parties have the love and desire to make it work.
2007-09-20 07:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue im with a guy now and i dont know how long were gonna last! no one knows but if she or he makes u happy its a good relationship and not a bad one.
not if he / she does something u dont like then tell the person um but noone knowa for sure
hope its okay
2007-09-20 06:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by roxy_baby2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know when it's a good relationship, if he keeps coming home at the end of each day lol.
2007-09-20 10:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is on your mind ,every 5 mi nits .you are i a good one .
2007-09-20 06:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋