Singles & Dating - 20 September 2007

My boyfriend goes rough alot in bed and it kinda is sore after sex. Sometimes, I hate it when he does that, I tell him to slow down but he won't listen at all and he's always teasing me.
Do many guys do this or am I complaining too much? Should I be happy that he actually loves to be intimate with me? How should I draw his attention next time, he goes overboard?

2007-09-20 15:33:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous 4

K here's the thing...he and I have been together for ten years but the issues never change...I do all the cooking, all the cleaning and all of the child raising...and I've actually come to accept that...and acknowledge that hey I'm better than him at that stuff anyway but here's the thing...at night when I head to bed I'm heading there alone. He's watching the tube, or playing video games, or watching football...and I'm alone more than half of the time... thoughts on that anyone?

2007-09-20 15:33:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm starting to think that this is just another one of those self-consoling terms. You know. The shy guy, who has a hard time with women, tells himself that girls just like the bad boy. I'm starting to think that the bad boy is just someone who has enough guts to talk to girls, and nothing more. Men make so many excuses, such as saying that women go after money, stability, success, etc., rather than saying that women just like what they like, and that's it. I think a woman could even like a shy guy. If she is bold, she may approach him, but 9 times out of 10, that isn't going to happen. So, the shy guy comes up with a lot of these excuses to relieve himself from the pressure and lack of manly feeling that comes with letting all of his opportunities pass him by. But it really is hard to get over.

2007-09-20 15:19:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is my best friend but he flirts with me and hugs me and blushes around me

2007-09-20 15:17:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know im just 18 but then i see all this 11 year olds on here that have already had bf and it makes me think why has it taken me so long to have a bf, im not ugly,and not fat, im a average american girl so whats the deal should i be worrried?

2007-09-20 15:08:27 · 36 answers · asked by JUANA 2

Well I just transfered to a new school this year and have been going for about a month now. Theres this shy girl in 3 of my classes that I am obsessed with. We dont really speak shes really shy. I stare at her a lot and smile and when she sees me she looks away quick(a sign?) I also asked her for help on some classwork once and she seemed to come out of her shell a little. She also text messages on her phone about 20 each class we have together. Damn im usually not shy around girls but im not used to going for the super shy/quiet ones.. Someone with experience please help me out...*SpRuNG!*

2007-09-20 15:06:12 · 7 answers · asked by thatguy. 2

ok I met this girl in my music class she is drop dead amazing, i already am in a crush with her, i facebooked her and asked her if she wanted to go to this party with me so i picked her up, and we talked most of the time, and i ended up making out with her. she pushed me away and told me she had a b/f. later than night she ended up kissing me. and when i dropped her off she kissed me.i asked her to go to the movies, she sais ok. then she sais she doesnt think she can go. so i asked her and she sais she wants to be just friends. I can tell she likes me, but shes been dating this kid for 2 months. she told me to call her after class but i didnt till after, I wrote her a poem, and she met me for coffee, i gave her the poem then we went to the mall. after i didnt kiss her when i dropped her off, and texted her asking her if she liked the poem. and she said " I cant hangout with you anymore". and i said tell me your feelings and she said " I like my b/f alot and i dont like you that way".

2007-09-20 15:02:14 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

So, my ex and I broke up we just kinda went through a rough patch and fought about nothing, befor I knew it he was seeing someone else.
All his friends tell me he's an idiot and that anyone is lucky to have a girl like me, but I just feel like sometimes I wanna run up to him and kiss him, he dumped his new girlfriend after a week all his friends say it's cause he still likes me, but others say he never liked me, I'm still in school and were in the same school so I see him like 10 times a day so it's kinda hard. I need your help to know what to do cause I really have no clue.

Thanks so much if you answered my question, you were a great help no matter what it said.

2007-09-20 15:01:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to her house for her Bitrthday We made out and everything was great. I thought it went well anyway because she was crazy about me and I was about her. The next morning she calls up and says shes dumping me. She does the classic "I just want to be friends", "your a really nice guy", does it nice sweet and simple and hangs up. Soon after she completely changes her facebook status and picture.

I am just so amazed at how fast this happened. Out of nowhere and right after her birthday!! She used to call me every night and now she wont pick up the phone. She told me that her reason was that I was 18 and she was 16. The night before she was saying how happy she was with me and it never bothered her before. I feel angry, confused and completely tossed to the side with no remorse. I cant stop feeling angry and sad...could you please give me some advice.

2007-09-20 14:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by leafshadow 2

you like this boy, and then out of nowhere u find out some1 else likes him to, even though there you r friend? i mean she is so aggresive in getting what she wants and im kinda laid back, wait for the right time to make my move typa person. He seems to have an idea that i like him, but she's more of the type of person that lets the whole world know she likes him.. what do i do???
REminder: give good advice pplz.

2007-09-20 14:55:46 · 4 answers · asked by call me s.hova 2

my hair is spiked i like to read kinda quiet not popular and have and only one boy friend i like this guy and i want to flirt but don't know how and what if i mess up and i scare him offf what should i do i really need help?

2007-09-20 14:52:41 · 4 answers · asked by kittyc07 1

this guy i sit close to in class is shy and really cute. i like him a lot and im shy too. if we r both shy then how would we get to know eachother. HELP! thanx

2007-09-20 14:50:42 · 22 answers · asked by ShyCutie 2

how do you treat her right? i wanna prove to my girl that i can be more than that homeboy from the block. i dont really got much experience in serious relationships so help me out iight

2007-09-20 14:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by *MR BROWN*[Another homie gone] 3

I am pretty depressed, going through a very tough moment of life. Is there anyone who'd like to talk to me?
I'm a girl, 22
PM me please

2007-09-20 14:38:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i've been divoriced 2years,being single,alone i love it ,so i was'nt expecting anything serious when i entered into a singles site. which i do admit i get alot of attention whether i'm on the site or not .i'm a good looking women,but i do have many qualities that attract people towards me. though i'd like to believe its for my heart not my looks that makes the difference.. i have been chatting with a german man for 6wks and already he says he loves me. i do feel an instant attraction and emotions to him which seem to be mutual . that he has made clear he wants to relocate to be with me with my ok, and is now making arrangements to do so . he was born in germany moved here at age 23. So my question is does anyone have experience in german me. are they so romantic as he is ? is that the way german men are? he claimed he wants to spend are lives together. Am i crazy to believe this or is he really real . from what i've read german men know what they want and go after it for keeps

2007-09-20 14:28:15 · 4 answers · asked by First Name michellesdream 1

Do guys like girls that like..come at you?
That act like they're desperate and they're all up on you?
Or do guys like girls that are hard to get.?

2007-09-20 14:19:07 · 25 answers · asked by I ♥ hugs. :) 4

Boys make fun of you when they like you? cause this kid i thought he liked me cause he always stares at am and talks to me and makes me laugh but the today he called me an albino but not to my face opinion advice?

2007-09-20 14:04:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I once heard someone [i do not know who] say that "men marry who they can and not who they want to". In other words, men deep down inside would love to be able to afford a trophy wife that could COOK and was LOVING. I always hear guys brag when they got a really cute girl as their girlfriend or as their wife. However if the girl does not give them the time of day then its off with the homely girlfriend. Be honest guys!

2007-09-20 13:56:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

so I'm supposed to ask one of the twins if they like my friend angelica and she is gonna ask the same one if he likes me and i think he does
what are some signs i should look for b4 she asks him?? so i no for sure if he does

oh and in science his friend asked me if i liked the other twin when the other one!!
kinda complicated??
yeah i no

2007-09-20 13:56:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok me and my girlfriend have been together for 14 months. About 6 months ago we were having sex regularly about 3-4 times a week. But for the last 3 months or so its been maybe once every two weeks. Every time i confront her about it she gets angry and tells me its not all about sex. Yes its not but once every week or two is not easy to bear. And the fact she told me that she's more into sex when she first meets someone than after she's been with that person for a while. I do love her but i dont wanna cheat on her. She even told me she's not a nympho like me. Wanting more sex than once every week or two isnt that bad.

2007-09-20 13:56:15 · 13 answers · asked by Cdawg . 2

Well, Here's the deal, I REALY REALY like my best guy-friend! And this weekend we're going to the mall 2 gether and withone of our other good gfriends (thats a guy) But IDK what i should do about flirting with him or whatever! Becuse I just dont want anything to ruen our friendship! 'Cuz we've been friends for about 3 years!

2007-09-20 13:49:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 13:26:38 · 11 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

me and this guy started IM'ing 3 months ago and we hit it off really well. we share the same morals and interests and we can talk about some of the most personal intimate things. he had a gf when we met and i always gave him advice to help him with her, but one night while we were chatting his gf texted him and gave him the "just friends" speech, I helped him out of it and he said he has an appreciation for me for more than he has words 4. I already really liked him before, but since his breakup i've gotten crazy over him. we even met at the state fair and hung out a little bit. he lives 2 hours away tho! help me, what do i do? he lives so far away that we hardly talk face2face and it seems such a hassle to meet up anywhere. what do you think about dating someone you found online? how do you deal with a longdistance relationship? he's the same guy online as he is in person. we aren't really dating, and it's never really come up, but what if it does? what do i do?

2007-09-20 13:21:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy is sending me signals
but i do not know what they mean they r really messed up

he says he likes me then he says that i scare him then he pretends to put his arm around then he says he dispises me then today when i hitted him he sead cool that i touched him then he put his arm on my arm then he put his arm all the way around me but then he says that he does not like me then also today he was pushing me and throwing acorns at me and this was before he sead cool that i touched him then he put his arm on my arm then he put his arm all the way around me


does this mean he likes me i have told him that i like him and he keeps doing this to me and i can not understand


plz help me i need as much help as i can


so anyone can answer this

2007-09-20 13:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by Rawr1995 1

2007-09-20 13:17:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep on fallin in love with you
Sometimes I love ya
Sometimes you make me blue
Sometimes I feel good
At times I feel used
Loving you darling
Makes me so confused

I keep on fallin in and out of love with you
I never loved someone way that I loved you

Oh,oh,oh I never felt this way
How do you give me so much pleasure
and cause me so much pain
Just when I think I've taken more than would a fool
I start fallin back in love with you

2007-09-20 12:51:28 · 27 answers · asked by gmg2 3

i just wanted to know if i got drunk. What do you think the chances are that ill forget to put on a condom before i have sex

2007-09-20 12:45:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 12:44:35 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

I don't really know how to flirt, i just treat every guy and gal the same. I always have. im 17, and i never had a real boyfriend. i am also have a really tom-boyish like personality, and at the same rate i dress really nicely. But still guys just don't like me, they'll check me out and tell me im hot all the time, but then they get to know me and they wont like me like me. And i know its not because i intimidate them cause so many more aggressive girls get boyfriends but i don't. Whats wrong with me? To almost every 'cool' guy im a turn-off. Its like right when they meet me they hate me. And to every shy and book smart guy im either really close friends or they are just too scared to ask me out. I tried asking a guy out once he said no and it was horrible. As you can see by my name, i have a weird sense of humor and i like sports and cars and things. Is this unappealing. Thanks.

2007-09-20 12:42:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well i have my first bf for 3 days now and its weird. im 14 and the guy im dating is 16. well all we do is hug each other and he puts his arms around me when we sit and stuff. is this how a relationship is supposed to be? i usually only hang out with him at school during snack(which is our break). at lunch i dnt usually hang out with him. i want to be wit my friends too but i also wanna be with him. who should i be with?
my friends always say y am i not with him at lunch lol. but i dont know i dnt consider this a relationship...but he IS my bf. we also never kiss or hold hands or anythin

2007-09-20 12:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by kristina5193 2