I know im just 18 but then i see all this 11 year olds on here that have already had bf and it makes me think why has it taken me so long to have a bf, im not ugly,and not fat, im a average american girl so whats the deal should i be worrried?
2007-09-20 15:08:27 · 36 answers · asked by JUANA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These girls who jump the gun on coupling up are crazy. Your acting in accordance with your upbring and it plays out differently for all. Just realize putting your self out there for all socializing is important at your age now so go to dances and make girl and guy and old people and children friends. Your a fine young person, deveop your talents and hobbies, get an education, it will alll happen for you if your open and smile. I already like your common sense!
2007-09-20 15:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite it is common. And your mothers and fathers are good to maintain you in lockdown. i'm sorry yet too many women get pregnant or capture dreadful illnesses whilst they meet somebody particular- then become single Mums or very sick. I surely have met an excellent form of folk in that boat collectively with a number of my associates. the secret to curing loneliness isn't inevitably a boyfriend. So what if every person else is. locate extra lady associates / kinfolk / neighbours to talk with, connect a dance type / an interest team at church / or seomthing else in case you're actually not non secular. locate something in basic with your mom, an interest you're able to do collectively. through the way i'm 36 years previous and function been married- and hated it. I surely have been single now for years and that i comprehend all those products works 'cos I do it. I stay with 2 flatmates who're married and there is not any way they might ever enable me to hold a guy dwelling house to stay in a single day. i'm grateful that they have me in 'lockdown' and you should be too. once you and that i do meet the final guy it particularly is going to be the previous school way- mothers and fathers meet him, basically see him out in public places in team activities etc. good success sister!
2016-10-19 06:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Mother didn't allow me to have a boyfriend until I was of age to understand all the "Rules of The Game", so to speak. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I as 19. I never bumped into anybody worthy enough to be my boyfriend, until that age. I know that sounds conceited, but I'm far from. I just mean, that I've kissed a few frogs, before I met him. Eventually I realized that he was never going to turn into a Prince, so I moved on from him too.
Look at it this way: Alot of girls who have boyfriends at a young age, have kids at a young age too. Due to the fact that their parents allowed them to date at 11,12,and 13 (if the parent even knows about this so called relationship) by the time the girl is 18, that will have been a 5 year relationship. They will more than likely be having sex by that time and unprotected due to the trust level, causing more and more pregnancies every year. Be glad that your young and that you didn't grow up as fast as some of these girls out here, o.k?
Take care and know that God is Love.
= )
2007-09-20 15:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is perfectly normal. I myself did not date my first until I was 18. When I was in HS, I was an overachiever with super protective parents, so while I was close to a few guys, I didn't date anyone. I got asked out a few times but didn't want to date them (one was a close friend). You will find a great guy...you have lots of time, be patient!
2007-09-20 15:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be worried at all. Some people just aren't lucky enough to connect with that special someone. All of those 11 year olds you mentioned are just dating random people they think are cute and aren't really having real relationships.
2007-09-20 15:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by godsynthesis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well we are a different generation... we did not grow up being all trashy..
Im 18, and I have only had one gf... and it was back in the 6th grade... but she started talking about me behind my back, and so I ended it...
Havent had any gf's or dates since then...
I am fine with that though...
I live in a small town, and in the junior high... there are 8 girls that are already pregnant... or so what my nephew has told me..
Junior High school girls already pregnant? that just shows the future generation of AMERICA
2007-09-20 15:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant really give you an opinion cause brittish girls get there first bf when they are like 6.
I would say you are though you must be picky on guys just wait till the one for you comes along.
2007-09-20 15:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its normal. im 18 years old to, ive always played alot of sports, worked out, went to parties had friends and all that but i didnt have a gf until like 2 months ago. Don't be worried, itll happen because i noticed that when i did want a gf during like 16-17 i noticed i wasnt going anywhere, but i stopped worrying about that and worried about myself and what i wanted for me out of life and focused on that. then 2 months ago i went to an orientation for uni not thinking of anything but starting and boom i met this girl who was in my program and we started talking. Now weve been dating for 2 months. So dont worry sweetheart itll happen to you, trust me.
2007-09-20 15:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl, having a boyfriends doesnt mean that your lovelife is normal. i think age doesnt matter in getting into a relationship, as long as you know and you loved the person you are gointg to be with thats the right time to go into a relationship.dont bother yourself about it. just focus on your studies and ask God to give you the right guy who love you and respect you.
2007-09-20 15:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal. Soon your day will come like in college and have guys lining up. And 11 year olds that have reletionships dont count.
2007-09-20 15:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋