Singles & Dating - 20 September 2007

My ex and I broke up last June. I was really in love with this guy, but he cheated on me after 4 years and a trip around the world together (that I paid for). It really hurt and he apologized, but I still am pretty upset about it. I'm trying really hard to get over it. He moved away, and we parted on good terms, and as much as he hurt me I still care about him a lot. I couldn't get back together after what he did, but I still have a soft spot for him. However, I still know all of his passwords, and read his email sometimes. I know, I know, I'm going to get all sorts of answers berating me for this. Trust me, I know it's bad, and that I'll never get over him if I continue. But in the course of reading his email, I've found out that he's having trouble finding someone to date in his new city, and has turned to Craigslist trying to find sex. This breaks my heart! He's soliciting women for sex, telling them how he is in bed and that he just wants sex, no commitment.

2007-09-20 10:04:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, last night me and this girl who i have been talking to for about 3 weeks got real serious with are conversation. I was giving her advice about guys and what not and she later on stated that she has been praying to god to bring someone postive in her life.. then out of no where she say "and i think you are that person." But i still don't know if she feels the same way i do.. Should i just ask her out?

2007-09-20 09:51:38 · 1 answers · asked by yshforever 1

my friend just got a boyfriend liek 3 days ago. ever since than i feel like shes changed. when were at my locker and her bf comes along, she just leaves with him and doesn't say goodbye to me or anything. at lunch, she doesnt eat with me anymore and now she eats with her boyfriend. at first i was happy for her but now i think shes just treating me wrong. and when i don't talk to her shes like "why aren't you talking to me". ive tried to tell her how i feel but it doesnt seem to be getting through to her. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-20 09:47:01 · 1 answers · asked by nw 1

i was making out with this guy i like in his truck last night. things were getting pretty heavy so i said i wanted to leave...but he just kept kissing me so i said, "chris, i want to leave. take me home". and he said that he wanted to 'make love' to me. i started freaking out but he pushed me down onto the seat and got on top of me. i was trying to get up but he wouldn't let me. finally, it started to feel good so i stopped fighting him. but i'm confused....did he rape me or not?

i didn't feel like he was being violent against me...he just wouldn't let me up.

2007-09-20 09:39:47 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was seeing this guy for a couple of months, then he magically disappeared. Then a couple of weeks later, he literally asked me if I just wanted to enjoy each other's company and have some fun (basically wanted sex). I have feelings for him, and don't think he does for me, or just simply doesn't show it. We were talking online and he just said he was emotionally overwhelmed and didn't want to talk about anything deep, saying he couldn't deal with that stuff right now. I just told him that I don't think it would work with us and that was that. What would he have meant with what he said- emotionally overwhelmed? couldn't deal with anything deep? To me, it just simply seemed like he wasn't ready for a relationship or just didn't want one, or not with me. Sound right?

2007-09-20 09:36:33 · 2 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1

ok so theres this older guy at work about 30 and im turning 20 in 2 weeks hes really nice no kids the people that have worked with him longer than me say im the first one hes got along with and talked to a lot when i first met him he wouldnt talk and now he wont shut up lol but its a good thing but hes told me he has a record but thats when he was younger hes still very shy and iam too but im quiting my job in 2 weeks but i still want to talk to him hes a very sweet guy but how do i know he likes me should i make a move if i should then how???? Help what do i do:?????

2007-09-20 09:36:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I'm listening to her yesterday and this womoan calls up and sys she's been dating this guy for 2 years I think. The women sys she's had sex with him and it was no good. Dr Laura proceeds to tell her that this is a "red flag" and to not marry the man, but to keep him as a good friend. I'm now lost. This is the same Dr. Laura that reams people for "shacking up" before marriage. Now she's telling this women basically if the premarital sex is not good. To not get married. So what if you wait and the sex is not good?

2007-09-20 09:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

porn
- either on the net or DVDs, when we can have sex in real life?

2007-09-20 09:22:49 · 29 answers · asked by Heaven Hill 7

2007-09-20 09:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by Sadic 2

Ok so I broke up with this girl (or rather she broke up with me) and now she is hitting on my best friend.
He never liked her, so Im not woryed about him going out with her, but is it wrong of me to be angry at her about it?

2007-09-20 09:12:09 · 3 answers · asked by Geramy 3

2007-09-20 08:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by sk8a_chick 1

Are there things all women do that a chap can pick up on in such a situation as I feel I may be missing them?

2007-09-20 08:50:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 different guys, what should i do?

2007-09-20 08:49:34 · 21 answers · asked by sushirox72309 2

what do you think was the most honest??

2007-09-20 08:48:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this really sweet guy at work the other day, i have to admit he is not the best looking or the most thoughtful but i think he is really special! Now as i've got to no him better i have found out he is a real loner, people in the office laugh at him behind his back because of his geekiness and he has no real friends, only online girls he chats to! Should i be freaked out by this? I'm not going to stop being his friend because of this but i don't no how much further things can go!

2007-09-20 08:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 08:43:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 08:42:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 08:37:46 · 7 answers · asked by Celebrate 4

2007-09-20 08:27:14 · 26 answers · asked by hungrychu 1

So this guy J and I started liking each other about a year ago and we've been really good friends ever since. He has totally led me on and friends have even asked if we were dating. He even told me that I was his dream girl. Anyways I'm just going to cut right to the point. He started acting really different once he moved a couple hours away. Never wanting to talk on the phone, acting like it was a burden, always saying he'll call back but then never would, etc. He has really hurt me b/c basically I'm not good enough for him. he always has to have the best of everything & he wont take a chance on anyone. everything is all about money and connections with him. he thinks that just because im still in school and he's graduated that i'm not good enough. (i'm going to school to be a dentist). i dont want to be with him anymore anyways but i need a response to the email he just wrote me. Here is what he said: "How are you doing? I wanted to send you an email to follow up with the

2007-09-20 08:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by EStar 2

My partner and I are gunna be having a romantic meal at the weekend at his and he is cooking and preparing everything.The thing is im stuck for ideas on what I could surprise him with coz he always make it so special so does anyone out there know what could do or surprise him with, thx.

2007-09-20 08:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by miss cool 2

2007-09-20 08:17:41 · 31 answers · asked by will da real gansta plz stand up 1

I met my boyfriend (of 15 months) online and we are both attractive people. People seem to be always shocked that "normal people" use online dating as a resource. Why is that?

2007-09-20 08:07:02 · 17 answers · asked by Vwgirl18 4

when I start talking or seeing someone, how do I avoid being played like a fool, how do I tell if a girl really wants me and me alone?

2007-09-20 07:57:38 · 22 answers · asked by redvelvethuman 1

or going to bars because that hasnt worked either...

2007-09-20 07:56:34 · 13 answers · asked by Ash 2

2007-09-20 07:55:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She 33 years old and I'm 20 years old.

2007-09-20 07:52:52 · 2 answers · asked by gatesofgold 3

What attracts them to you???Is it the physical??? Is it their life experience, their skills their talent their super independence what????

2007-09-20 07:51:18 · 20 answers · asked by Rita 6

My boyrfriend is extremely funny. Every guy I ever dated had to be funny - but he can make me laugh until I cry easily. He's also the most genuine person I know and he has beautiful eyes.

All in all, I would say that it is when we are together though that is different than anyone else I ever dated. It's like we are best friends having the time of our life and I get the rest on top of all that. I am a lucky girl. I know.

2007-09-20 07:51:11 · 5 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5

2007-09-20 07:48:03 · 19 answers · asked by FreakNasty 1