ok so theres this older guy at work about 30 and im turning 20 in 2 weeks hes really nice no kids the people that have worked with him longer than me say im the first one hes got along with and talked to a lot when i first met him he wouldnt talk and now he wont shut up lol but its a good thing but hes told me he has a record but thats when he was younger hes still very shy and iam too but im quiting my job in 2 weeks but i still want to talk to him hes a very sweet guy but how do i know he likes me should i make a move if i should then how???? Help what do i do:?????
2007-09-20 09:36:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want him to think im too young either help please
2007-09-20 09:59:25 · update #1
Maybe he does think you are a bit young. Also be careful that he doesn't think of you as just some lay. Chances are if he really likes you despite being shy you will know already. Of course the first answer that was posted could entice him a bit. At least if you are dating him afterwards you are not working with him anymore.
2007-09-27 16:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would want to know what his record is for? This is possibly your future we are talking about. If it is nothing major then your next move is probably the whole getting together casually thing. Talk to a few people at work and do the whole last time get together thing. If the signs are still there with him, then drop hints like so do you live around here, if you know what his interests are say maybe I could come see you shoot pool or hoops or whatever sometime. He will take it from there I would think. As for the age thing. I was 18 when I met my now husband and he was 25. Not quite ten years but enough giving the teens and all. Well here we are 21 years later and happier than ever with a beautiful 16 year old girl and a handsome 14 year old boy. Met and got married all in 11 months. Not the statistic but definately possible if you want it and work at it hard. Good Luck.
2007-09-28 09:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by who_indeed_cares 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think age is a number and people should not care about it.In your case the difference is only 10 years which is, in a way, not bad at all.If you feel confident make the move and try to get the best of the situation.Ask him for a couple a couple of drinks or something like that, because you're quiting the job.Drinks and conversation, some flirting from you, and you can get the guy in one, two,three.Think about it.
2007-09-20 19:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ten years is not that much. You said he was shy maybe that is why he is still single. When you quit tell him that you would like to keep in touch and maybe go out sometime. Give him your number or whatever. Take it slow and see where it goes. Good Luck :)
2007-09-28 16:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy Train 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Omg, have u seen the way you write? If he's 30, never been married, and no kids, he's either gay or a player. Either way it's a no-win situation for you. Date someone who was born in the same decade as you. You are way too young for him.
2007-09-28 14:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Phillyfan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Often older men pick younger women for a reason...and that is not love.
2007-09-28 16:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Llani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woah!..i think he's a good catch..
and i guess you guys have this "chemistry" thing..
hang out with him more..
walk around the park..drink coffee..eat dinner..stuffs like that..
i mean get to know him better..
then..you, yourself would know how he really feels about you..
2007-09-28 09:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU there is only one to life to live.
2007-09-28 12:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by nyjae 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋