Do guys like girls that like..come at you?
That act like they're desperate and they're all up on you?
Or do guys like girls that are hard to get.?
2007-09-20 14:19:07 · 25 answers · asked by I ♥ hugs. :) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to find a balance. I'm very shy, and it seems that most girls don't "come at me." This has resulted in very few girlfriends. At times, I've wished girls would be a little less shady, but when one comes along that is all in my face, I start to want to back off. It's doesn't seem natural.
But lets look at other animals - the male almost always seeks the female. The male initiates things, and the female chooses whether or not to let the male get jiggy with her. I think it works best this way with humans as well. Even though I'm very shy and I've battled with it for years, I think it should be I who makes the first move and seeks out the girl. But still, I wouldn't have a problem with a strong-willed and choosey girl. I really need to buck up and get things moving...
2007-09-20 14:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind if a girl approached me but acting desperate can be a turnoff. Girls can show that they are interested in a guy but try to leave some room for the imagination. Just don't lead the guy on. A little respect and consideration for both parties won't hurt.
Bottom line ladies, guys have been rejected by girls but have you ever heard of a girl being rejected by a guy? ;-)
2007-09-20 21:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by zandybee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither one... A girl who acts desperate will drive a guy off, and a girl who plays hard to get is not worth the effort. A girl should be approachable and friendly. And it is 2007 and perfectly acceptable for a girl to approach a guy and ask him out.
2007-09-20 21:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different guys like different types of girls. Some guys love easy girls because they are so vulnerable and easy to take advantage of.
Some guys love the chase more than the capture.
For you, I'd advise playing hard-to-get - you're less likely to end up pregnant and alone.
2007-09-20 21:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont like playing the hard to get game, i ask once , you refuse, well i take you at your word, and most likely i'll never ask you again. but if they act real desperate it would make me think that that is all they want(sex) therefore that wont work either so ill take the in between
2007-09-20 21:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by ron h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you're desperate and come @ me and all up on me, i'm bound to give you what you want ASAP.
But girls who play 'hard to get' make the guy work more for the girl, so she can see how much he wants her or what risks he's willing to take to get to her.
2007-09-20 21:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a girl that is able to tell me what she wants, but I don't want someone clingy. If a girl plays hard to get, I will just walk away because it is rarely worth the effort.
Personally, I want a girl to be my friend first and foremost.
2007-09-20 21:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Your Best Fiend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different guys like different things. I don't mind a forward girl. Hard to get can get old fast.
2007-09-20 21:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by James Bond 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends,if im horny right now i want a girl up on me,but if im looking for conversation i like girls that are hard to get,
however i prefer a girl in the middle cause she needs to show some interest,but not in slutty way
2007-09-20 21:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by jmcslob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It tells me that there's a SLUT danger here! I like a girl that keeps it cool at first. Flirts a little to send over the sign..Then lets me make the move. After we're together...Then I don't if she's real aggressive in my face...I dig it at that point.
2007-09-20 21:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by ORDER 66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋