I went to her house for her Bitrthday We made out and everything was great. I thought it went well anyway because she was crazy about me and I was about her. The next morning she calls up and says shes dumping me. She does the classic "I just want to be friends", "your a really nice guy", does it nice sweet and simple and hangs up. Soon after she completely changes her facebook status and picture.
I am just so amazed at how fast this happened. Out of nowhere and right after her birthday!! She used to call me every night and now she wont pick up the phone. She told me that her reason was that I was 18 and she was 16. The night before she was saying how happy she was with me and it never bothered her before. I feel angry, confused and completely tossed to the side with no remorse. I cant stop feeling angry and sad...could you please give me some advice.
2007-09-20 14:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by leafshadow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are young, i am 30 and have been through what you are going through. Tonight listen to Lucky by Seven Mary Three, Tomorrow (friday night) hit up your guy friends. go out on the town and hit on some girls.
Like i said you are 18, you will probably have your heart broken again, it just means there is better out there for you. Trust me the girls only get better because you usually date upwards.
2007-09-20 15:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky Chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story sounds so simliar to mine. It's all just confusing and something you wish you would understand. But sometimes you should just leave things as it happens. I don't know if you should sit around being hurt, rather just moving on. She's still in highschool and you're in college or will be in college soon. You may love her but if she can do this to you something's up. If you don't go to the same school as her then you should probably think it's another guy or something. I don't know how long you two have been together but it's just how it is. A lot of 16 15 year old girls are random. They don't know,yet, what they want. They're at their experimenting stage. You can't really expect much from her. Just do something that can get your mind off of it. You might cry, you might become angry, you might want to break something. If you want to cry or feel like crying then cry. Let it out. Then say the things you love besides having a girl. I cried, I screamed, I became sick, then my friend told me all the things I love. Such as I love the beach, I love shopping, I love my friends. You can't linger around and be stuck in the past. Just move on and think of the future. Maybe when she becomes 18 she will be more mature and she'll come back to you. By then you probably would have moved on. I don't know if I really made any sense. But if you want to talk to someone I'm open to talking :] sexygurl4eva123 IM me if you like. Hope you feel better.
2007-09-20 15:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done this before and feel horrible about it.Sometimes people panic and do stuff they will regret but think it was the right thing to do.You'll find someone else though you prolly maynot want to at the moment.Things will look up and you will find someone whos really into you as you two were and it will last.all i can say is just let it be. . . ex's are tricky things either they still talk to you or they hate you. . . not everybody you meet will be your friend(i found out the hard way).Good luck and try not to feel too bad .. i doubt it was something you personally did or said.
2007-09-20 15:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Mistress 444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well harsh that she did that after her bday and stupid of her to make out with you if she was gonna break up with you. No one can really tell you advice except to move on. Yeah she is right. She is immature to dump you for that reason anyway so why should you take the crap? Find someone that wont dump you for that reason. then again she might be thinking about what other ppl say about ur relationship with her. good luck ;)
2007-09-20 15:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Cero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice, let her cool down for a couple days and then approach her with an explanation.
Hopefully she'll be mature about it and explain herself, maybe give you an actual reason. Try also explaining your side - how confused you are, how you thought there was something special there.
After that, balls in her court. It could have been the age issue, or something else, who knows.
2007-09-20 15:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. im so sorry.
and i know how u feel my ex. told me 1 night before we hung up that he loved me and i said oh really? and he said yes, i really do love you. then that was a sat night. that mon night he broke up with me.
You have a right to be angry/confused/hurt.
You should talk to her if oyu get the chance and ask her what was up?? all i know to do is tell you to try and get over her. if she can do somehting as "simple" that is hard like that, then she isnt mature enough for you. find someonw who will treat you good.
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2007-09-20 15:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cole.Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her face to face if you can. Ask her why she dumped you. If you can talk to her face to face, try to find somebody who knows her and could give her a message. Dont be angry and sad. You could find some other girl if things dont work out again.
2007-09-20 15:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, did you really expect that to last. her maturity level is not what yours is and then you should look for somebody on your own level. In some states it is called statutory rape. So be thankful that she ended it before it turned ugly.
Good Luck with your next.
2007-09-20 15:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by LovelyChoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doenst have the guts to admit the real reason for breaking up, she obviously is not worth your time. stop moping around and go out and meet people, it will get you over here as soon as you know it
2007-09-20 15:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by missmanda206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are crazy...i wish we could all solve that problem
seriously though, if shes gonna be like that shes probably not worth your while, try to forget about her
i was in a kind of similar situation
2007-09-20 15:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋